That's the hard part, to keep reminding yourself that you are just a commodity to them, as they are to you. I have friends who travel all over the world chasing these boys, and they always fall in love. I tell them, "Don't you realize that the minute your taxi leaves for the airport, they are in someone else's lap, telling them the same thing they just told you. I think guys like Tomcal enjoys this so much because he completely understands what's going on, and he just enjoys the boys for who and what they are.
I know exactly what I look like. There are no misgivings, none of these boys would come round the house, unless my wallet was open. The only thing I ask is that while it's on my dime, tell me everything I want to hear, just scream "Oh daddy, and Oh Papi," and try to sound like you mean it, and I'll be happy.