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Expat, when I read the title, I thought you had a great experience with some hottie until you unzipped his pants. Glad that dirty cock was not your dates. As for me. I love cleanliness and think it is next to godliness. But, if the guy is hot enough, fuck it, I'll do it dirty in an instant.

Of course "more than once". He was Chinese, you eat one and 1 hr later, you're hungry again !!!

I certainly agree that everyone wishes to talk about himself. Also, trolling with dollars ($100 bills) can never be wrong. Best regards, RA1

Concurring with all above. Case study: I was in Monster bar in the West Village 3 years ago, sat down beside very cute 25yo-ish Chinese guy (i.e., half my age). Observing his polite forebearance of the big admittedly handsome but overbearing mid-40ish Irish construction worker type sitting on the other side of him, chatting him up hard-sell with life anecdotes all about himself (the big Irish guy), I silently picked up the drawing portfolio the kid had by his side, and began leafing interestedly through his fashion apparel sketches. Whom do you think he went home with? More than once!

Thats why I never focus on HOT guys. I take "looks" out of the equation and ONLY focus on Big cocks.... A troll with a Big cock works just fine for me. And while Beauty fades, he'll still be a troll with a Big cock, while that pretty boy now turns into the troll you turned your nose up at. Aint that a kick in the Ass. ?

"You know, Chris, I've read that for a lot of really good-looking guys, their looks can be a burden at times. Do you ever find your beauty causes you problems?" "Yacky di yak" Yeah I know trolls are always hitting on you, but do you find that interesting guys you would like to spend some time getting to know are too shy to approach you? "Yack yack yack..." "Wow, and I bet a lot of guys focus so much on your looks, they never get to know the (really wonderful) man you are on the inside." "Blah blah yack yack blah blah................" "Yeah, man, I bet so many people never get to see that side of you." At this point an occasional 'I didn't realize that' and 'Wow, that's so true' should be good to hold up your end of a couple of hours conversation. ++++ It's like Disraeli said of Queen Victoria: "Everyone likes flattery; and when you come to Royalty you should lay it on with a trowel."

All I know Hoover, is that people can tell when you are slinging Bullshit and it is insincere. Therefore I think that if you stay open, honest and speak from your heart, without worrying about it being "staged", you will come off interesting and Genuine. Noone really pays attention to small talk or crap they aint interested in. You need to engage the other person in a REAL way and try to discipher what they are passionate about and where their interests lie. Hopefully, something they say will strike common ground with you. If you find you have no "common" interests and there is no chemistry, just have Sex and get the fuck outta there.....