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Not everyone. Much more than half of my voting decision is based on the compassion shown by the candidate. I find more on the Democratic side of the ticket, so that's where I tend to vote. For me, vague promises to create jobs have never yet trumped the commitment to care for those who, in fact, are not able to get one.

I went back to Meio Mundo tonight. Against my better instincts. Got there at 5PM. A nice number of clients and double the number of garotos. Only reason I went is that I had a date set up with the tall half-Egyptian, Ricardo. Of course, this being Rio, he didn't show. And as I predicted, the terrible soap dispensers in 2 of the 3 downstairs showers were all broken. No soap. At least the showers upstaris had some. The sauna door still isn't installed correctly and someone outside has to close it for whoever is inside. Ditto on the steam door not closing. I have to say that there were a lot of new guys there tonight. Lots and lots of them. It was like when all of the new toys for the winter holidays all were stocked on the same day. YUMMY. A buffet of tasties. I went with one up to one of the pay rooms. New paint, new lighting, carpeting ripped out. I suppose new being installed soon. Entertainment was by Desiree and she had her own dance troop. So Jorge and the others were just working tonight. Other big news and caused me to blink twice and repeat out loud what I couldn'y believe what I was reading - THEY ARE CLOSED ON TUESDAYS. I suppose they just cannot compete with the free suites Tuesdays at both Clube 117 and Pointe 202. Also tonight, the kitchen was closed. No plates of food and no freshlt-popped popcorn. Just the medium-sized bags of chips. Some of the old stand-bys like the two Mineiros, Eduardo and Junior, weren't even there. The youngsters must be trying the trampoline effect. One in particular was a Leao/Leandro with a wonderful, nonsteroidal body, cut but not vascular, beautiful smooth skin and the type of thick, thick dick that would choke a double-jointed sword swallower. I don't have that type of breath control or a jaw that I can dislocate on command to do that monster justice. However, my friend did. He got an extra-large load down his throat. He didn't need to eat any supper with all of the protein he ingested.

I want see Chehons moves in my "bedroom" .He is a beautiful Man.... and seems quite sensitive and REAL too.

I agree a fabulous start and adding Jimmy Smits is just too good..

Let me propose (as I and others have before) that orientation is less what gives us a stiffie than whom we fall into romance and love with. I one time had (this is not realy Germaine to what follows) to calm down my frantic hubby who came home from a weekend helping one of his college girlfriends' (yes, sexual; I met most of then, and regretted he and they were not wide-minded enough for 3-ways!) seek a condo to buy, and one night she came onto him with manual stim; so he responded like. When he 'condessed' to me, about one eve when I was not in town, he was horrified when I asked him why he did not follow thru.

Well, I am officially a diagnosed heterosexual. When I was young and feeling conflicted about my attractions, I went to a psychiatrist, aptly named Dr. Miracle. He said that if I was gay, I would have acted on it by then, which meant I would have had gay sex, and I had not. So I felt better for about ten minutes, until my gay lust started popping up again.

Seems to be getting better understood that folks can have a pretty wide range of sexual attractions, especially if those folks are young males. Labels may be desired but not necessarily required, accurate, or constant. As far as where to go with this, my suggestion would be to let your friend decide where to go with this. He'll probably be better off exploring his sexuality in his own way, at his own pace. If you can be there for him as a resource, if he requests it, and as you have already offered, rather than as a guide, it might be more comfortable for both of you. It sounds like he has a number of people with a stake in his journey, and he is the only one who has a chance of keeping himself and his relationships in balance.

as usual, it is good to hear from you