It's an interesting question that Lucky poses. Originally, when I frequented Hooboy, it was truly to learn and contribute to the world of escorting and adult male entertainment (strip clubs and porn). I have primarily other avenues of "being satisfied" these days, so that's less important to me, and I can't contribute as much about escorting because I rarely hire anymore. Most of my relationships are long term ones, or those found in social networks such as clubs and interactive social media sites.
So why do I still come. I think it's because I can interact here with specific and unique group of people on a variety of topics, whether it be porn, travel, mainstream entertainment, and yes, hot men. These are people who share a common interest with me that's not true in any other circle of friends that I have. These men are, like me, interested in finding sex and beauty in the male form that is accessible to us. That "fraternity" is unique to me, and so it's interesting to come and chat regardless of topic, because there's something liberating about talking about any subject with other people who have very similar desires and perspectives in an area that's not commonly talked about with others.