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hi guys.. i am ash.. from INDIA. This is my 4th visit to pattaya and 1st time i came alone here to explore more naughty things. I reached BKK airport at 9.30am on 25th october. as there is no visa policy for INDIANS just done direct immigration and came out. Grab taxi cost me 1500 thai baht to pattaya Sunshine hotel. Sunshine hotel is cheap( 750 babt per day for total 4 days) and best for solo travel. They given me room at 2pm afternoon even though check in time is at 3pm. 25-10-2024 Day 1 - I went to Helios men .. the best for me {[( 2017 i went once , 2019 i went once , then 2023 march i went once)]} helios never disappointed me. I always take foam massage because massage less fun part more. the boys here are very co-operative massage cost - 600 min tip to boy -- 1000 I met the guy name Tree. he is medium to gym build. I dont like six packs or heavy built guys.he is best he told me to take shower and left for 2-3min , after shower he came and given back rub and we did alot of fun.. kissing hugging i did massage to him as well ofcourse he did massage to me.. 69 we did.. i fucked him little because just fucking is not my cup of tea i like passionate romance alot. I am versa top ( sorry if someone felt bad that i explained little more about what happened at Helios. I paid him extra 1000baht to him because he did his best. I took his whatsapp number and asked him to come with me for Xboys night 10pm and 11pm show because i never went to any gogoboys bar. he came at 9.30pm and we went inside Xboyz. Xboyz show was mind blowing.. full of cocks. I thought to take back the same massage guy who i met helios thats the reason i told him to come with me. Xboys pattaya at 9.50pm show cost - 300baht including drink I like 1 guy age 25yrs and finally talked to someguy who is operating this show.. initially told 800 is off fee and boy told 2800 his fees. then i told no. but operating guy finally told to take the guy for total 2500 without off fees or 500 off fees and 2000 for Short time(ST) both are same haha. I offered 2 drinks for him.. he is very co-operative.. and operating guy took my hand from boys shoulder and told me to catch boys cock.. and i did that he is very comfortable and rest his head on my shoulder. The guy name tree who came with me since 9.45pm he is just laughing with me as i ditched him and taking back new guy in positive way. I told Mr. tree guy clearly .. if i dont like anyone then u come to my room i pay 1500 baht as u fixed the price if not i will take u to my room some day in 4 days visit here for sure. Mr.tree is co-operative and helped me to talk with boy and decrease the money by bargain as well. finally i given Mr-Tree 500 baht and 300 drink for him and he is happy too. Me and the new boy from Xboyz went to my hotel room and enjoyed under hot shower. he is very soft and medium tight body. I licked his entire body all parts almost did romance for 1hr 30min. i went to Indian restaurant and ate he left after the fun. He is top and i am too so except fuck we did everything. Xboys pattaya show is the best full of nudity and timepass. I loved it. at 3.30am i slept till next day 11am. If this content helpful and to give some suggestions plz do comment and will continue my rest of journey for 4 days.

Second visit to Bangkok 15/11/25 So this is my second only visit to Bangkok and my first trip report. I will try to do an update every three days or so as I am taking my time and won’t have much to add on a daily basis. Staying at the Hilton Millenium a little out but only 15 minutes to Sala Daeng and 100 bhat in the taxi back from Soi 4 so not too bad and I like the full service hotels and have points so that’s another reason I use the hotel, also no issues taking people to room. First night I did not realise was Loi Krathong so the hotel was full with youngsters in traditional dress taking there Lantern’s down to the pier to put in the river, very nice to see. To take away the stress of the first night I had a boy from Dreamboys who I offed twice on my fist visit come for the night, we have stayed in touch since February so was nice to see him, go to Icon Siam for a meal, the place was very busy and then have first night fun, he headed home after a large breakfast. Hilton dose serve a very large and good spread. Saturday was a lazy day about 8pm went across to Soi 2 and 4 and had a walk around the area to familiarise myself with the various locations, I have to say I find shamelessmack maps very useful in this. Was early about 8.45pm but decided to have a quick look inside The One, funny thing I went to Tawan in February but it was the night the police had closed the place so just found a locked shop. It was probably because I was too early, but I was the only person in the place, three models on the stage and everyone else on their phones completely ignoring me, all older 30 plus nothing toned more solid / some weight. I finished my 500 baht coke and left within 5 minutes. The guy outside who had taken me in then offered massage and sex but he was not my type, same as the guys in the shop so declined and headed off to I think Soi 2. I called in to Dragon and Koi, again this is about 9.20pm so still early, couple of people in the bar had a cocktail (395 baht) and a beer (130 baht) and was joined by one of the servers from Myanmar who spoke quite good English. Let me know he would be one of the dancers that night but I would miss him as by 10pm I was heading to Freshboys for the remainder of the night. Freshboys (10pm show started at 10.30pm) the boys where on stage in their white shorts doing the normal parade, all twink / twunk most nicely toned and my type. Did not think I was going to off anyone but decided to buy number 16 a drink and he stayed with me for the rest of the night, apart from going back on stage on three occasions. Very affectionate and with a fantastic hard body all muscle from Vietnam. The place got busy as the show started and was full of people, having to squeeze in by about 10.50pm. There were only three Diva songs (same person) which where quite good as well as the big dick show, shower show and at least two sets where oral sex was performed so I thought a good show. By the last parade at about 12.30am my boy had not been offed so after enjoying him for the best part of two and a half hours I changed plans and offed him for the night. Quick bite to eat at Foodland. Walking past Dragon and Koi it was definitely more busy with a dance show going on two boys on the floor and three on the bar, but you would think at that time on a Saturday night it should be. Lots of fun with my Vietnamese boy for the night he left after having breakfast. This has gone on far too long so will stop at day two. Hope my writing style is ok, having read a lot of trip reports I find it difficult to know if this is any good or waffle. Feedback and suggestions welcome.

Set out for 9p.m. appointment at the most recent massage shop to open in the area: Phoenix. It was a pleasant and dry evening, perfect for the leisurely 25-minute walk. When I arrived on Inthamara 25, quickly located shop but it was closed. Puzzled because I’d made appointment, I texted shop on LINE and they sent me map link. It was all in Thai and nothing at all looked familiar. I followed with another text saying I’m on Inthamara 25 and shop answers, “sorry, we move to Lat Phrao 110.” Result: one disappointed customer and one disappointed masseur. Now in need of a sure-thing fix, I backtracked and headed for Phetboy and booked same guy from last Saturday who didn’t disappoint. I was a bit slow in cleaning up after and told guy to go to shower and I’d soon follow after checking phone. When I got to shower room, I opened door and placed towel on rack and ran a hand down boy’s back. Suddenly realized his tattoo had changed design and he seemed to be taller. He turned around with a surprised but amused look. Yes, it was a different masseur. Embarrassed, all I could think to say was “sorry. He was just finishing up and toweling off. Couldn’t help but noticing that he was very well equipped so I asked for his name. He told me, turned and disappeared. I was sort of hoping that find him downstairs but he had vanished along with what remained of my pride.

Yes I do - already since 2 years and 2 months I get up at the crack of dawn and go to the gym - my training starts at 7:50am - I finish the gym between 9:55am and 10:10am. Then I go eat breakfast at Tinnies (the Australian place with the BEST bacon in all of Pattaya - in my opinion). Then depending on the day, I grab a Bolt from Jomtien into almost North Pattaya where I go for my ED Shockwave treatment at 11:30am and that lasts for around 35 to 40 minutes - then I take a motorbike taxi to the TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) clinic - near Boyztown. That lasts for about 10 to 15 minutes if it is not a day when they need to draw blood for the monthly stats. Then the baht bus back to Jomtien, run local errands - like to FoodMart and/or 7-Eleven or to go see my viagra/cialis lady to stock up the supply. Then home for a 2 hour nap. Then around 5pm or 6pm one of my 4 hands massage coordinators brings himself and another guy to massage me and have some fun. Then clean up, myself, the bed, shower area and if one of them wants to go eat we usually go outside of the Jomtien Complex to grab a bite - it is usually Thai food. Then head into the Jomtien Complex for a drink and by 9pm or 10pm I am craving my bed to catch up on some internet and/or watch some YouTube and then fall asleep. Rinse and repeat and before you know it the week has finished. On non gym days (there are 3) then my schedule is more free and I walk on the beach, or go to Koh Larn, or go into Central Pattaya to one of the malls, go see a movie - catch up with friends, etcetra You don't need to cross that busy road (Thappraya) - you can live in one of the many beach condos that are all within walking distance of the Jomtien Supertown Complex and the gay Dongtan beach. They are: View Talay 7 Jomtien Complex Condotel Grand Condotel View Talay 5 (there are 2) Jomtien Plaza Condotel Of course you will pay more because the above condos are on or very near to the beach. On the other side of the busy Thappraya road - there is View Talay 2 (2 buildings) and also View Talay 1 (2 buildings) that are much cheaper than the above listed on-the-beach condo list. Yes - easily. Just realize to put into your budget 2 important factors: Boy tax - everytime you bring one to your room or do them in a massage and/or short time room there is a fee - these can become very expensive - so make sure that you have a way to finance all of this or you might need to join the PFC, NEW Thai government taxation (effective from 01-Jan-2024) on money that you bring into Thailand (i.e., remittances) as Assessable Income --> my Boy tax is already too high so when the government decided to get greedy - as I am already spending a considerable amount of my discretionary income in the local Thai economy - I decided that from 2025 forward I will only live in Thailand for less than 180 days for each alternating year - thus giving the money that I would have spent in Thailand to other nearby countries (The Philippines and Vietnam). I do not agree with this statement. It is easier to make expat friends with these 2 types of expats: those here on vacation, those who live here seasonally. I found that the expats that live here full time are not easy to make friends with and in fact I have given up on this endeavor - and I instead concentrate making Thai friends. Even my 1 local expat friend, JD100, is leaving Thailand due to this difficulty to make friends with the full time expats that live here. There seems to be some kind of acid in the local water - as I cannot explain it but better to leave the hornets nest alone. Yes I agree for 2 primary reasons: 1.) it can become too expensive, 2.) if you go into the Jomtien Complex too often the excitement wears off when the emphasis of 98% of the bar owners is that you as the farang = "farang sit and farang drink" - as I do not like to sit in a chair all night and I do not like to drink it becomes VERY lethargic and boring and unhealthy. There is no excitement and there is no decent place where you can stand up and expend some energy - like a great place to dance with good music. So, one of the nighttime alternatives can be to walk over to the gay volleyball on Dongtan beach near the Pattaya waterpark and Sea Rescue. When I do it is a fun night because although I cannot play (I am not good enough) I can jump up and down and cheerlead the guys on and run after the stray balls to avoid that they get wet in the shoreline waves. It is a social event where you walk around and not only sit on your ass all night - so it is not lethargic as a night out in the Jomtien Complex can be. This is incorrect. All of the View Talays were built before this current fad to copy HongKong style small cramped dwellings - so I find the View Talays to be rather large. Mine is 98 sqm with 2 sea facing balconies - more than enough for 1 person. I have looked at many of the newer constructed beach condos and they are mostly all very small and VERY expensive. My goal is to be in walking distance of the Jomtien Complex - so most of the newer constructed cramped buildings are too far away and would require that you either buy a motorbike and have to worry about having an accident or create a BIG dependency on BOLT for transportation purposes.

Prompted by a video of their staff posted on their LINE feed, I satisfied a whim and paid a late afternoon visit to Phoenix Massage. My route took me from the MRT blue line station at Samyan to Lat Phrao where I connected to the MRT yellow line monorail. Although the signage is fairly good (follow Exit 4), it took me up and down escalators, up elevator, across parking garage on a 10-minute journey. Following shop’s advice, I got off at Lat Phrao 83 stop and walked about 10 minutes to soi 110. That’s where the directions on Google map went haywire. According to map I should be looking to turn left onto second sub soi. But there wasn’t one. After walking back and forth, I messaged shop and they sent me same map link. Lost, I figure what are my chances of finding anyone who speaks English this far out. As it turned out, everyone I asked (3 people) spoke it very well! The first was a couple outside their house. They directed me to the opposite side of street and told me to take next soi, I did but quickly arrived at intersection. Spotted two women sitting outside a convenience store. Before I could pull out my phone, one said “can I help you? In perfect English. She turned out to have worked 30 years in LA. She immediately asked me what I thought of election and I told her I was sorry Harris lost. “So am I,” replied Tammy, who then summoned two nieces who were learning English to come and demonstrate their new skills. After we chatted a few more minutes, she asked “what brings you here?” I showed her the address and she pointed down the soi. “It should be a little after my house on the right side,” she said. I thanked them and made my goodbyes. Sure enough, a garage like structure bearing the shop name soon appeared. I opened the door and the manager handed me a bottle of chilled water. I showed him the video and guy who captured my interest. “Oh, he’s here now,” he said, motioning to a one playing pool with a few others. While the boy went to collect his the massage basket, I inquired about the price and was informed there was a promotion of 1600 baht that was inclusive of tip. I was a bit apprehensive but was exhausted and had come a long way to cure my curiosity and agreed. The room was small but had AC, table and shower. The guy quickly arrived, stripped down and joined me in shower. He made sure I was carefully soaped up and I returned the favor. As we towel off, I used sign language to let him know I didn’t want any oil (he was first one so far that didn’t speak English), His technique was ok and he straddled me in the way I can resist advancing the schedule. When I rolled over, things progressed quickly but still found 10 minutes or so to massage him. He checked all the boxes of what would qualify as a full service massage in most readers’ book. He was just attentive in the post massage shower. This was a new experience that took the minimum tip process a step beyond, and I came away liking it. At no time did the guy ask more for any service. He was pleasant and accommodating throughout. For the record, he was from Isaan. As I left the shop, the manager called my attention to four boys at pool table who paused and smiled. I could have have taken any of them. As I walked back towards the station, I mused that 1600 might be a bit steep of locals but I didn’t give it much thought because I believe I received fair value. If I knew the lay of the land the total travel time would have been no more than 1:10. Cost each way 75 baht, I wouldn’t advise this undertaking if you have mobility issues. But it suited me because it reinforced my confidence in getting around the sprawling city with its excellent public transportation options. Should you decide to go, one final tip. As soon as you turn on to Lat Phrao 110, abandon phone map and turn immediately hard right and take your first left. Shop will be on your left a few minutes walk down.

TRIP REPORT: BACK IN BANGKOK So I am back on Bangkok. After few weeks traveling around China and a few relaxing days in Da Nang (Vietnam) I'm in Thailand for 4 nights before I fly back home. On wednesday I had the honor to meet forum legend @vinapu for the first time. We would meet at the beginning of soi 4 in front of the taco restaurant. And with the description "KFC guy but without the goatee" it was very easy to recognize him. After a first drink and some smalltalk on the terrace of Banana in soi 4 we agreed to go to Jupiter for the show. We were early. And we enjoyed a good singer perform before the boyshow started. Show was entertaining again. When the show started the place was I would say half full, but during the show more customers came in. Multiple boys that are my type and could be possible candidates for an off. After Vinapu made his decision on which boy he wanted that night first, I also made my choice. Nice boy from Cambodia. He was fine in the bedroom, but he would not earn a top10 position of boys I ever had. I like it when the boy takes some initiative. This boy was a bit to shy in the bedroom. But as Vinapu said the day after to me: "still better than an empty bed". Wise words. Thursday afternoon I was chilling in my hotelroom. Browsing Grindr. Chatting with a horny 27yrs old muscle guy offering massage and fun. I couldn't resist and invited him to my room. It turned out a good choice. He was goodlooking and could speak very good English because he's from Malaysia. Massage skills also good. As a picture says more than 1000 words, I will put one of his profile pics below. Off course in discrete way so I have cut off his face... He really took time for a decent massage. And after the massage part it only got better. With finally him offering me his ass in a naughty, slutty way. I like it. In the evening meet up with Vinapu again. Went to "world famous UNESCO heritage" Foodland for a drink. The night before he found out I had never been to Moonlight before. According to him that was a shame. A sin. How could I, while I like muscular guys, never been to Moonlight. So it was time we changed that tonight and go there together. When I admitted it was actually also my first time in Foodland, I think the word "disgrace" was used by Vinapu to describe my behavior of not having visited some famous important places on any of my precious trips to Bangkok. Lol I really liked Moonlight. So many guys that are my type. One of my favorites is Nut. I think he looks cute, because of his curly hair. Pic below from Facebook livestream of Moonlight on the night I was there... I was expecting a bigger crowd in Moonlight. I think there was a total of about 15 or 20 customers. There was more staff present (waiters and boys) than customers. When long-time Moonlight star Babe came on stage, I was first saying to Vinapu I couldn't understand why he was the big star of the club. Because I thought he was not very special. That was before het took his short off. What a sexy hot body he has! So actually he also became one of my favorites. Lol Feels good not to be a Moonlight virgin anymore. We had a quick visit to Hotmale after Moonlight. It was just after midnight and we were the only customers there, but decided on ordering a drink anyway. That's when we found out there was a boy there we both offed before. Made us laugh. It was a good night again.

Had a unmemorable time in Pattaya last week, except for meeting @Keithambrose and @BjornAgain . My stay at the Ambiance was good, still like that hotel, comfortable/clean beds sheets, cold ac, dark as fuck room, which vampires prefer. Someone had asked about the noise, which I've never noticed because I come in after 3am usually, however, one night I stayed in, my sleeping routine was messed up and wanted to rest. I was on the 2nd floor and could hear the noise/music from BBB downstairs, but by 1230am was quiet again. Mike Taxi was ontime and the vehicles they had in both direction were late models and very comfortable. Staying at the Tarntawan, another old reliable for me and the same as Ambiance without the noise, they stays here are always very quiet. Price/location combo can't be beat and still the same staff mostly for many years, except last night I met a new overnight desk agent, he seems nice though. I went with @reader to Saphan Kawi to a massage shop, PHETBOY Spa and I reserved someone from their listings since I was unsure how many would be there on demand, in hindsight I should've taking the chance since there were so many massage shops in the area. The guy that I reserved turned out to be the worst massage/sex experience EVER in Thailand for me. His pictures were heavily fotoshopped and I should of called it off right then, but thought maybe he has some skills or equipment that would compensate. It only got worse at each step.... HORRIBLE massage skills, I kept thinking that if @macaroni21 had been writing a review it would've been zero's across the board. I put him on the floor to show him a few techniques, then gave him another try. Nope, at this point I thought he was just dumb, but who was I to speak since I was still there 🙄 After 17 mins of massage, he wanted to start to chuck wow....now their listings show T or B and he was listed as a Top. Maybe he was unaware of that part? Didn't/couldn't fuck and at 48 mins he said he had to go because he had work (another client somewhere) at 6pm. I got dressed and went downstairs, he asked "Tip?". I spoke to the manager (probably owner) and all he was concerned with was that the shop got their money, Listed mon tips were 800/1000. I told him any tip I gave the kid would be a gift, shop fee was 380 and I gave 1000, more than I should've. Manager apologized and said see you next time, to which I could only laugh. Reader was waiting outside and first thing I said to him was this was the worst massage ever in Thailand and he quickly replied, couldn't have been worse than mine, lmao. Since we were taking the Skytrain we decided to go to Madrid to eat, the pizza place not the city. Called Jenny to confirm she was opened and she said yes and would prepare a table for us. See other post about Madrid. After going out separate ways, I went to Hot Male to see if Alex's cousin was there, I had messaged him a month and a week ago to let him know I'd be coming only to find out he was off today. Messaged him and he said he's in Pattaya and won't be back until Fri, I leave EARLY Sat 😑 Wasn't turning out to be a good day, except for the pizza so far....went to Circus to see a couple of waiters I have on FB as friends walked soi 4, didn't see anything interesting. Sat outside Sunrise Taco checking out the apps. One of the boys that I went with before from HotMale gogo recognized me, he looked like a homeless person and I asked him what happened. He just came from his country and is walking Silom looking for clients, he asked for my line. I told him no way, I've had a bad luck day and didn't need anymore today. I saw @Keithambrose walking pass me and I yelled at him, he seemed shocked and came back. Hope he didn't think I was a homeless guy looking for a trick 🤔 We walked over to Hot Male downstairs to which he invited me for a drink, I'm a cheap date. Talked for awhile until a nearby table or screaming/cackling Thai's became unbearable and we left. I walked down to Tawan, Super A and Nature boy....as I passes Where Golden Cock used to be, a guy that I knew from there came running up to me, I had seen a bunch of people sitting outside at tables, guys and girls and thought it was a straight bar, he said no, it's a new bar, Mr O's kitchen or something like that. I always had a good time with him, so I went in to buy him a beer 200 baht. I thought I was going to off him so bought him another beer, because now it was late and no other options. Apparently the owner is from Las Vegas and has Nature boy too according to this kid. I guess he is a gambler, lol. Then this kid seemed like he was trusted to be in charge when the owner left and said he couldn't go with me, wtf is happening today I thought. He introduced me to the 5 guys that were available, 2 were really cute and 1 said he wasn't for me (bottom) but my friend referred me to an average guy saying I'll be happier with him for massage and sex (500 off 1500 tip). He's known me for years so I took his advice.... turned out to be a fun end of a shitty day. Over 2 hours of massage and fucking, even after he finished he made sure I did too, which is good because so many lose interest after they cum, including myself. He said we could do another day and he doesn't watch the clock can be hours and hours, but he looks like he can drink as much as me and that could add up to a lot, lol Went to sleep about 530am and woke up at almost 1pm.....my vampire sleep routine is back!!!

This is an update to this 2022 trip report to Koh Larn from the Pattaya Bali Hai pier - because the Pattaya City (mayor) decided to implement a new speedboat departure system, which I experienced today, 26 Oct 2024. https://www.pattayamail.com/news/pattaya-mayor-vows-to-end-aggressive-practices-at-bali-hai-pier-472979 Prior to now, you went to individual speedboat vendor booths to buy your ticket to Koh Larn - to the left of the pier (when facing the sea harbor) as shown in the below photo: Contrary to what was reported by the Pattaya mayor, I NEVER found this system to be aggressive. I knew which speedboat company I preferred and I walked up to that individual ticket booth and bought my ticket from my favorite ladyboy ticket seller at the AM booth. Simple and easy. One of their guides would walk us onto the Bali Hai pier where their designated speedboat was departing from. Now the Pattaya City had this not so great idea to terminate all of these individual speedboat ticket booths to just 2 ticket booths that are situated at the beginning of the Bali Hai pier - see below photo that I took today: What the city has done is to divide Koh Larn into 2 sectors - Tawaen beach (side opposite of Pattaya city) and Na Baan (side facing Pattaya city). In the past, I always bought my ticket from the AM speedboat ticket booth for the Tawaen destination and I paid 150 baht each way or 300 baht if I wanted to return from Tawaen - often I returned from Na Baan - as the return times back to Pattaya city are more flexible. Well, this morning I got in the queue and I asked for a ticket to Tawaen and I was told that due to the choppy sea that they can only bring me to Nual Beach (aka Monkey Beach) for 500 baht. I don't like Nual Beach as it is not nice in my opinion. I asked why is it so expensive and the girl at the ticket booth told me that it is always 500 baht. I told her that I live in Pattaya now since 2 years and I have NEVER paid 500 baht to go to the non-Pattaya city facing side of the island. She replied to me, well my father is the boat captain - do you want to speak to him. I said NO - and I then asked her what are my other options to get onto Koh Larn? By now I was angry, as the Pattaya City has made a mess by demanding the demolition of the former decentralized ticketing system to this now centralized ticketing system. The girl told me that i can take the normal slow ferry to Na Baan OR she pointed to another ticket booth where they were selling speedboat tickets to Na Baan - the main village on Koh Larn. So, I bought a 150 baht speedboat ticket for Na Baan and we were then led by our assigned guide onto the Bali Hai pier floating launch that was super packed as there were other tour groups already on the floating pier - total chaos, confusion, and people being jostled by the up and down of the waves. When the system was decentralized, the individual boat company took care to obtain their own unique launch pier to avoid the chaos that comes when you put too many groups onto the same floating launch pier - a consequence of this badly implemented centralized system. In my opinion, it is just a mater of time before a tourist is hurt by this chaos and then to protect the sacred image of pristine Pattaya - they will order the centralized ticketing system to be demolished and we go back to the safer decentralized individual boat companies that saw to take care of you the customer. When I arrived into the main Na Baan village, I rented a motorbike so that I could cross over the island onto my favorite side. My first stop was for my favorite banana creme cake with an iced cappuccino at the wonderful Cher Aim Cafe & Resort situated on Tawaen beach. I will admit, the ride over on the speedboat was very choppy and 90% of the passengers were Asians and some of them opened their umbrellas inside the speedboat to try to avoid some of the splashes that were entering into the boat from the waves. All was good - as I am almost always impressed how the Thai boat drivers magically navigate their boats in any kind of weather. Then after by banana creme cake (don't tell my gym trainer - I can already hear her yelling - I cannot control what you put into your mouth - if she only knew - hahahha) I then drove the motorbike over the most difficult but exhilarating hill on Koh Larn down into my MOST favorite beach = Tien beach. Life is good on Tien Beach --> note that back in Pattaya there has been trash found on the local city beaches due to all of the recent storms - but over here on Koh Larn - no trash - just beautiful clean transparent turquoise water with fluffy white powder sand. The ride back to Pattaya City from Na Baan was uneventful because by now the morning choppiness had disappeared and the 8 km of sea between Koh Larn and Pattaya City was tranquil = all was good.

Woke up early to take Grab to DMK from Tarntawan , don't forget to add any promos you have available, front desk at the Tarntawan reminded me, I would've forgotten. AirAsia was 30 minutes delayed, no one seemed to mind, what a difference to the US, lol Grab was about 30usd from Siam Reap airport to hotel when I checked ahead of time, hotel offered pickup for 35usd, was def better to have someone waiting, I did advise them of the delay. Hotel recommended by @vinapu is 100% great, so far....I'd say is 5* service and comfortable rooms walking distance to everything, about $40usd a night all in with breakfast, king bed with balcony, I'd stay here again in a heartbeat, Crown Royal hotel. I was a bit sleepy by the time I got settled in , even though they gave me an early check in easily and maybe they thought I was bringing my make believe wife from the picture shown 🙄 I ordered a double smash burger with fries and a ginger ale for $7 usd delivered and was really tasty. Took a nap, watched depressing news about the Orange monster and headed out about 940pm. Went to B-Ball first, small bar very nice guys, I was only customer so a little awkward , stayed for one soda and moved around to Home Cocktail, too many females, then to Rendezvous, too empty, and then to Barcode, lots of females but a nice show and friendly staff. Nothing interesting on the apps, but plenty in the streets that are my type, however all with girlfriends/spouses After the shows at Barcode went walking around some more, most places close at 1am except Pub Street, too many Heteros for me, lol Went back to Home Cocktail and 2 guys that were in the show recognized me and invited me to sit with them.....one was one of the drags in the show, I told him I'm bottom and he tried to get me to go with one of the guys that was the dancer...saying he could massage me and had a big dick. Until i showed him some Colombians and Brazilians, they both almost fell to the floor. It's all relative I guess 😆 I would've taken a massage from him but by that time, I was too full and tired to do anything...plus there was no hard sell, marketing classes could come in handy here.....tomorrow is another day? Super cheap compared to Thailand for everything , but no hookups, maybe my fault for taking such a long nap 🤷‍♂️

26-10-2024 Day 2 - I woke up around 11am in the morning and went to terminal 21 . Meanwhile Mr.Tree from helios messaging me whats u r plan today? R u coming for massage ? iI asked him any good guys apart from u to explore. He replied with pic his name is also Mr.Tree with shirtless pic... I said ok as he looks good and asked how much for ST. He replied with 2000 baht i didn't negotiate because i felt its reasonable, what to do rest of the day? so i asked him I need to see him 1st and went around 7pm to helios as he waiting outside. He looks like super hero and he is very handsome. I decided to take him to Jomtien complex to see the massage shops and atmosphere ( i seen only in youtube many times and never seen it real) . We both went to jomtien complex walked around to be frank i didn't like anyone all are twinks and not my cup of tea at all. just opposite to soda massage we both sat and he drank some beer and i drank coke as usual. I felt so shy that all are calling me for massage and Mr.T helped me alot in controlling my nerves. Meanwhile old Mr.T that I met yesterday messaging me can i come with you guys for Boyzboyzboyz show at 10.30pm and i felt bad for him and told to come. I told old Mr.T what i am going to do today - 1st jomtien complex -- eating at Indian restaurant-- then at boyzboyzboyz show at 10.30pm then finally will take new Mr.T to my hotel room. Boyzboyzboyz show Drink cost -- 350 baht rest I didn't ask because I already decided to take new Mr.T to my hotel room so I didn't ask boy drink cost( on display it mentioned boy drink cost 300) and boy cost off fee too. To be frank I didn't like the show because less nudity and so much crowded along with pillars obstructing the view and none of the boys are handsome than my new Mr.T for sure ( they are around 20-25 guys on stage) their acts are less and for every 2 acts done they come to us for tips everytime i gave 100 baht for 3 times ( they are not leaving us without taking tips from me but none are demanded or rude). finally around 11.50 i decided to pack up from this shit show. I gave old Mr.T his drink cost (300baht) and said bye to him and gave 200baht extra( because of him i am exploring gogo bars and he introduced new Mr.T as well) as I respect him and his time to spent with me not just for fun part. I know i can't do this alone because i feel so shy in public and its not quite common in INDIA. Old Mr.T is like a hunk and his age 32 with tattoos on chest and back, without six pack and natural built with little workout body. New Mr.T is with pure fair complexion and cute face with soft body and his age 25 without any tattoo without six pack and natural built with little biceps workout only. Me and new Mr.T went to my hotel room started hugging kissing alot and took proper shower together to clean ourselves and he started sucking my cock and i told be your self no need to suck mine at start. we did passionate kissing again we both licked full bodies particularly i licked him completely and wet his entire body with my saliva including his asshole on the bed after shower. We did 69 and much more, after 1hr 30min we did mutual mastrubation . I paid him 2300baht and he felt happy and left. I want to go to Xboys pattaya show on tomorrow with those 2 T's again and will find a new guy as i fixed option 2 guy on the day 1 itself so probably i pick him if he works tomorrow. Why am i choosing Xboys again - 1. their show is unique and no dramas always nude and straight to the point from 10pm exactly show starts till 12am?) 2. They never asked anyone about tips but i gave 100 baht while top fucking bottom on my lap - hahaha 3. ambience is calm not much crowded people coming drinking for 15-20min and going. 4. Shower sex , real fucking sex in different positions and bottom lying on every customer while top fucking him.. i felt both guys butts -hahah and many more like golf play with cocks , cock lifting weights from 50-100kgs from 3 different persons and many more acts. 5. the show operating guy is very good friendly person ( he asked me to take him to the hotel for free - i laughed at him and said no.. he is aged but i bought him a drink) Till now i met old Mr.T then xboys 1 guy then today new Mr.T. if i rank the guys based on my likes and fun part in bed both Mr.T's are equally good and i can't choose one, then little less xboys bar guy ( he is also good but compared to both Mr.T's 1% less) I finally got to know that Both Mr.T's and me all r equal height 170cm and equal weight 75kg with equal taste loves romance alot and all are versa tops. This is 2nd day guys and thanks for messages too. will keep posting tomorrow night the result of day 3.

TRIP REPORT: LAST DAYS IN BANGKOK Friday was Loy Krathong. Just after sunset I went to Lumphini Park to watch the floating candle-lit krathongs in the water there. Was nice moment to catch. After some Thai food it was time to hit the bars again with @vinapuDiscussing where to go this night while having a tea in Foodland, we decided to check out some bars I didn't go to yet this time. Starting with Banana club in soi 4. Their shows start early, so when we entered it was already going on. During our stay there, there was show all the time. We didn't get to see any boy parade. Actually we did not see much boys at all. As about 80% of the acts were ladyboys doing their thing. A bit disappointing I must say. I don't mind a ladyboy act during showtime, but majority of the acts should be guys dancing or doing any erotic things... Time to move to Freshboys. Our timing was perfect. We entered while the show was on and two naked boys were doing shower act including blowjob. After a few more acts it was time for the boyparade. After a while there were actually more boys sitting with customers than there were boys left on stage. So business wise it was a good night for this bar. Few weeks ago when I was in this bar a friendly papa's an wrote down all numbers of the "gays" and I kept this piece of paper with me for future reference. But unfortunately none of my favorites were available tonight. We finished our drinks and went down to Goodboys. I actually never visited this bar before. Also not when it still was Screwboys. I liked the friendly atmosphere and the nice mamasan that Vinapu already knows long time and was attending us. After Vinapu left to get get the special order he requested earlier that night in Banana (I think something about a new stamp for his collection), I decided to invite a nice boy that was flirting with me for a drink. He is from Vietnam, speaks good English and was very eager to get with me to my hotel room. When we were sitting together in the bar, he was touching me in certain place constantly and kissing me. How could I resist? So off course I took him home. He turned out being lucky nr 9 actually in the bedroom so had a nice night again. Today is Saturday. I am writing this while I'm in my hotelroom waiting to get ready to go to the airport. Stupid 2am departure time... But at least this way I had the possibility this afternoon to have a last meet up with my regular before I leave. As always he didn't disappoint. The massage was very good again, and also the sex. He likes to be fucked good and moans sexy when he is fucked. He has a great ass and sexy muscled body. Well... I wrote about him before. So you can find more details in earlier post in this thread. But for you entertainment I will include another pic of him below... It was a great trip again. Special thanks to @bkkmfj2648 for keeping me company during my days in Pattaya and to @vinapu for showing me new places in Bangkok, introducing me to Foodland, Goodboys and Moonlight.

Day 1 I arrive at Suvarnabhumi on time. The purpose of this short trip is to satisfy the desires of the flesh, but also to cultivate the flesh. As will become clear. Jey Spa I head off to an appointment with Guy at Jey spa. While genetically he’s unable to show a six pack. He is athletic and has a good personality. The afters are divine. He takes me from several positions. At the end I am very happy, but exhausted. Fresh boys The bar is full and continues to be so throughout the evening. They have a lineup of about 41 boys. #16 and #19 are muscular twinks. #41 is a bit past his sell by date, but he’s got a great body. He just needs to replace the volume he’s lost in his face… #17 is from Myanmar. The show is pretty standard, with big cock show, foam and shower and drag queen lip sync, and not really Halloween themed, but the waiters are in costume at least. There is mostly a crowd of Asians, Chinese mainland, but some single farangs. Many younger farangs brought their boyfriends which of course reduces the chance of an off. Not that many women in the crowd this evening. It is mainly one older farang who tip the boys on stage. I do not off anyone (but would have considered offing #27) as I am quite frankly exhausted after Jey Spa.

@emiel1981 I hope that you are doing well and enjoying China. As this thread is your thread and I promised to followup with OUR Mr. Tuesday - I can report that he was my Halloween treat last night, on a Thursday. So, I went to my Thai friend's bar in the Jomtien Complex and hung out there for a while but my friend was home sick so it just did not have a fun vibe and by 11pm most of the customers moved on. So, I still had some energy and power left in me (even though it was a gym day - but I took a BIG nap in the afternoon and I refrained from a 4 hands massage) so I took the bahtbus (songthaew) over to Pattaya City to X-Boys - it was around 11:30pm and they were in the middle of their 11pm show. Ironically Emiel, I was placed in the same seat as you and I were, but what was great was that none of the mamasans, papasans, or managers remembered me - which allowed me to be incognito (as I feared that they would all pounce on me like during our visit for a massive amount of drinks) so that I could watch / stalk for our Mr. Tuesday. Out he came for the mini golf show and I knew that I had to ask the papasan to get him down from the stage to sit with me. After the mini-golf was done she had him sitting with me and I bought him a drink. His name is John and as we both know, he is from Myanmar, and if I remember correctly he is from the Kayah part of Burma. By now the show was over and slowly slowly the various bar staff started coming over to get a free drink and I was pretty good this time as I only bought John and the related papasan a drink. You may remember that this was the same papasan who would not get off of my lap when we were there together. Some of the queeny twink guys also came over to get a free drink, but I barked at them NO - as I was just freshly arrived from the twink heaven Supertown and I now wanted to play with only manly masculine men. So, I offed John for ST and my total bill was: 300 baht my drink 300 baht papasan drink 300 baht drink for John 800 ST off fee paid to bar 2000 ST fee paid to bar for John (not given to John) ------- 3,700 baht total @emiel1981 when you compare what we spent on our EXCITING night together at X-Boys - what I paid for my Halloween treat was a bargain. So, was John good ? Yes and no. As you may remember he has a very charming personality and is VERY similar in nature as the visiting B-Boys that travel to perform throughout the Pattaya entertainment areas. For those who are not familiar with the amazing B-Boys - here is a short 10 second video of them in action: I have over the years, to no avail, tried to off a B-Boy but with ZERO luck. They even joke with me now as they are so aware of my useless attempts but every once and a while I try to see if my luck will change. Anyway, I had John in my room and I was told back at X-Boys that he is very straight and is VERY limited at what he will do with another man in bed. So, back in my condo he was very uptight and so I took him out onto the balcony so that he could look at the sea and drink some beer where I engaged him in an intense discussion of the current plight of Myanmar and their struggle. He seemed to loosen up a bit. What I like about John is that he has a vision/dream (which is often lacking in the guys that we off) where he wants to stay in Pattaya for another 2 years to improve his English where his goal is to eventually relocate to Malaysia to obtain his undergraduate degree - so he saves part of his X-Boys income towards his Malaysia dream and I commend him for this. I told him that for us who live here in Pattaya it is very hard to meet guys from Myanmar, as they tend to congregate in Bangkok and/or in Chiang Mai. I asked him why he came to Pattaya instead of these more popular Myanmar destination places (BKK and CM) and he said that the Thai people in BKK are very unfriendly to the Burmese people and he said that here in Pattaya - because he is so rare and Myanmar people are so few - nobody treats him badly. He said that the X-Boys owners (a Thai guy and his French partner) created a family like feeling where our guys are looked after and given housing (for a fee) in a building very near to the X-Boys facility and he really likes this. He also mentioned that he is currently the ONLY Myanmar person on the current X-Boys staff and none of the Thai staff treat him badly - like he was treated back in BKK. I asked him, then why do so many Myanmar guys congregate to BKK?? He said because there are more opportunities to make money, more fellow co-nationals to create friendships with, and this one amazed me - he said that BKK is more conservative than Pattaya and this appeals to the Myanmar people because they are shy, reserved, and conservative in nature - whereas, Pattaya is seen as being wild and too open. I love these insights. By now he has finished his big bottle of beer and he takes a shower and I wait for him naked in my bed. It is already 2am and I am so tired but all of my systems were in working order and as soon as he touched me I was already rock hard. Unfortunately, his systems were not like the ones that I saw on the stage back at X-Boys and he apologized because he said that it is difficult for him to be with a man. I got him hard a few times but I could not make him get an orgasm. However, for me, I was very easy, as he exemplifies my B-Boys street dancer fantasy, that I had to stop him several times from cumming prematurely as I wanted to enjoy every moment. Normally, I would exchange LINE, but I decided not to because life has taught me that this realized fantasy and the extreme excitement that came with it most likely could not be recreated knowing what I already know about his limitations in the bed. So, I give him an 8 out of 10 with the decision to not repeat with him. Lastly, there is a NEW performer at X-Boys who does the candle show with the other HOT star - the muscle guy that is infamous because of his gigantic cock who wears the fluorescent glow in the dark glasses. This new guy is also very sexy with a BIG cock and the fact that the X-Boy owners have paired them together for this candle show without any of the other dancers was a good choice in my opinion. Hopefully, our KFC who is very familiar with the fluorescent glow in the dark glasses big cock muscle guy might find this new entry more appetizing than Mr. Fluroescent ??

Monday evening took walk after getting massage and thought I’d share some photos that caught my attention. Keithambrose recently commented on how dark the massage shops on Soi 6 appeared to him. Well, he’ll be please to know that’s not the case with new Chillax shop illuminated Vegas style. I believe it was Floridarob and a-447 who introduced us to this place about a month ago. Mr. O’s is a bar that offers food, drink and intimate companionship on Soi Anuman Rajdhon (off Soi Tarntawan at Mango Tree restaurant). Although it wasn’t open at 8:20 when I passed by, it remains on my radar. It’s only steps from the long-standing Super A bar, massage parlor and other things. Further down on opposite side you’ll come to home of two old standards: Nature Boy and Golden Cock now under one roof. There are still a handful of members who have a soft spot (not in the biblical sense) for this bar that continues to carry on its lusty traditions.

Took the afternoon "deluxe" bus from Siem Reap to PP, got a good night rest so was better than having to wake up and rush to the 7 or 8am bus. 6 boring hours with lots of horn honking, bit a smooth ride otherwise with a food option half way thru the trip, not bad for $15usd. Vet air bus express, they have vans or busses, it's recommended to take the bus, more comfortable. Staying at the same hotel I stayed at my only other time here, 10 yrs ago, how times flies. Silver mounts hotel, VERY basic but great location, clean, quiet, free b'fast, no buffet today so choice to order off the menu and no problems with guests, at b'fast there was an older guy with a local guy and last night another guy with a younger girl. $21 usd a night is a bargain. I met someone on Blued, we went to Space hair bar and had some drinks talked and joked around with the guys, met a guy from the UK that lives here, very funny and also a group of straight older couples from the UK came in...had a very fun vibe last night. Even the guy I was with was saying the guys working the bar are all not straight and a couple of bottoms... Back to the hotel and my guy's phone had died and I guess he has a digital ID that he couldn't access, so the front desk guy just took his picture....no drama like in Colombia. Lots of other choices in the apps, I'm sure I'll enjoy PP much more than SR. Funny thing, someone messaged me on grindr and said welcome back...I thought, who is going to remember me from 10 yrs ago? So my instinct was it's a ploy to talk to me....I didn't recognize any of his pics. He then sent pics of us together 10 yrs ago, OMG. He changed sooo much, some age better than others I guess. The water festival starts tonight, I didn't plan to be here for that, supposedly lots of out of towners come in, lets see how the next couple of days go....

India has been on my bucket list for a long time, but never had the chance, or good flights to do so. While looking for award business flights to BKK/Indonesia/Manila and seeing limited to zero availability for anything decent, I thought, let me check India 🤔 I found Bos-Ist-Dxb-Ccu... Turkish connection to Emirates and Emirates, for 88K United miles- JACKPOT!! Everything else I found from USA (almost any city) to Bkk was 200k+ miles....up to 500k, ridiculous. So that was the start of the planning stage that has lead to me booking a 8 week away from home (6 weeks in Asia) trip. Turkish is one of my favorite airlines and was my 1st time on Emirates..... because of a typhoon in Calcutta, they airport was closed and Emirates delayed their flight by an additional 8 hrs, so 12 hrs in Dubai. So they have me a chauffeured BMW to/from airport and a Marriott Marquis Dubai room, to which the front office manager upgraded me to a suite, because she was from Jakarta and was impressed/happy that I was a lover of Indonesians (I'm sure she knew the men, lol) I never had plans of visiting Dubai, but this 12 hr layover has given me 2nd thoughts....so much action on the apps, but I was too tired to do anything more than look/chat. Kolkata is a good arrival airport I guess, very easy and not CRAZY like Delhi or Bombay as I was told, plus less than a 2 hr flight to BK afterwards. I'd been talking to several guys on X, Blued, Grindr before my arrival to find out some info....not many profiles pics and was a pain in the ass to filter out flakes. I stayed in contact with a guy that spoke English well and wasn't a money boy that likes "old" guys....wasn't very flattering, but 40's-50's was his definition of old, lol....so a compliment too???? 1st night went really well, we had very hot sex...but it became apparent that he wasn't a drinker, anyone that knows me , knows I like to have a few drinks, lol I stayed at the Lalit Great Eastern Hotel and is VERY gay friendly...I later found out that they have drag queen story book hour and my 2nd night a gay community Halloween party, which was so much fun, My Indian friends said I'd be popular because I'm a white foreigner, which I assumed because it's happened in so many places. I wasn't prepared to what extent here....I felt like I was a movie star, Tom Cruise or Harrison Ford, age didn't matter...was amazing yet weird... I was the exotic guy in the bar, lol So, the non-drinker guy tried to keep up with me, which didn't end well for either of us...him vomiting in the bushes, sleeping on the bathroom floor and me in bed alone typing this trip report 😂 I met a guy, a little thicker (chunky) than I like, but very manly and my type otherwise.....we have plans for tomorrow, will see how it goes. These pics are from the party and bushes, to give you an idea how it was....I've been planning my March trips, waiting to see how I liked India, I will include other cities in the itinerary in the south of India, as they aren't as hairy as the north, I'm told.

The inmates are now running the asylum.

Spending that much time with someone could be great....could also be a disaster. You'll be taking a gamble, remember that. Then it's not only the daily fee, it's the food, drinking, maybe entertainment/tours. If you've never met in person, I'd say try 1 day at a time, don't lock yourself in and be clear about sex, otherwise you might be paying someone to just hang out with you.... Plans like this sound good on paper but in reality turn into something else, I'm speaking from my own experience and from what others have written here over the years.

Day 2 Mandel Spa Today I head out for Mandel Spa, mostly out curiosity but also to get a break from the central shop. It is a long 30 minutes by taxi from Lumpini park. I have booked Mark for a two hour stretch and massage session. I did not choose the Halloween scrub as it seemed a bit gimmicky and I wished to review one of their standard The shop is very clean and got nice facilities. My therapist is Mark. He’s a former Mr. Gay Isaan. He delivers a fun but taxing stretching session. It’s effective but if you’re very out of shape… skip this. The massage is good, but standard aroma massage and transitions smoothlessly into an HJ. Don’t expect more from this shop. Bottom line: I don’t regret going to this shop, they got some programs not available elsewhere. But it is far away from the city centre and if you go here you go for the programmes, not for the extras. Their clientele is local and fit.. I would recommend this place for people who live in Bangkok. If you’re just visiting a place, stick to central locations. Wax Lava I head to Wax Lava for my boyzilian. They are located on ground floor where Arena massage is. They stopped responding to Line so I call in my appointment. Their waxer provides a good service, and he keeps my cock hard throughout the session by stroking it. If you got boundary issues don’t go there 😂 Senso men club I finish my day at Senso, since my ass got wrecked at Jey yesterday I am in no position to bottom this day. Fortunately, they got a Vietnamese bottom, and what a star he is. He let out a sweet moan as I entered him. As I climax he performed an amazing feat; he did a series of clenching and relaxation of his ass muscles, giving me a wondrous sensation thus extending my orgasm. I will def return there for him, if he remains in the lineup.

Is it mind over matter?, no it is more a case of what matters to you at different stages in your life. Not every sexual encounter has to finish with a climax (just ask any woman! hahaha). And certainly not at my age. The fun for me is in the sexual encounter itself; in its intimacy, the foreplay, usually, but not always, penetration. For me, if my partner cums that is a win for me; if I cum it is a bonus. Now at 70 I manage my expectations; as long as I enjoy the journey I don't worry too much if I don't arrive at the destination every trip. When I first started coming to Pattaya in my 50s, my expectations (of myself in particular) were a lot higher, but that was then, this is now. At my age, for example, threesomes help. I can be as involved as I want to be, or can manage to be, and then the other two can go-at-it like rabbits until they too have had enough. My holidays have nothing to do with trying to impress my peers, they are entirely about me enjoying myself as best I can, and that, year by year, is proving an evolving ambition.

This is my fifth trip, so I am averaging about once every five years and Its been 5 years since my last visit. Prior to this visit Ive mostly done massage, and Saunas.... Well ok Babalon, Arina and Hero. This trip started off great, tried a new place to eat Foodland I'd seen recommend here Cashew Chicken was very good. For the fourth time I went to a gogo bar, this time I think name was Fresh Boys and watched the show, one guy in particular stood out 41. He kept smiling at me and dropped by for a tip during the big cock show but I was exhausted so decided to head back to my hotel. Note to self go back for 41 another day! Then heading back (it was late) saw massage shops on soi 6 open, first no one with much muscle but in Maha there was a cute guy with lots of muscle(I'm into hunks) super nice guy, good massage things go well, to much upselling after upselling probably my fault as I am not used to these shops. Still probably no repeat for me. Then back to my hotel to sleep!

Although workers are still putting finishing touches on former home of M-Star, Chillax is staffed up and open for business. Was greeted by a charming Lao guy who took me on a tour around the facilities. The oil massage rooms all have en-suite shower on third and fourth floors.

Hi all, I've been meaning to share my experience from my trip to Medellin back in August 2024 but didn't find the time to actually do it 😅. Finally managed to sit down and pen this out. It will be just a brief report on my experience. I was there for about 1 week during the Fiera de Flores, and stayed at Poblado. Weather It was technically winter when I was there but weather was perfect. There were a few short rain spells but otherwise, it was sunny mostly with a chilly temperature. Hotel I stayed at Haven, A Design Hotel smacked in the middle of Poblado. Their staff were all amazing but just a head's up, this hotel really is for those who like to party. Their rooftop pool/bar host events on the weekend and the music is so loud and lasts till early morning (around 4 am, I think), you won't get much sleep. Weekdays are a bit more bearable but the hotel is surrounded by bars, so still pretty noisy. But they do give you complementary ear plugs 😅. The hotel does have a clear additional visitor/guest policy. I noticed they're pretty open about it, so I'm guessing it is sort of a known thing that those who stay there tend to bring guests back to the room? Just my guess though. All said, I would still stay here in my next visit. Haha Language Not being able to speak Spanish can be quite the challenge. While you can always use a translator app, it is not convenient to meet with guys or even do the usual day-to-day things. Security I've read a lot of tips when it comes to safety prior to trip. When I was there, I did not have any issues with safety nor did I feel I was unsafe or insecure at any time. Perhaps it is the neighbourhood but ultimately, I do feel that if you take reasonable precautions, you'll be alright. Gay Bars I only went to 2 gay bars while I was there; Afrodisia and Bar Chiquita. They have quite a different vibe from each other, the former for classy-bougie ish while the latter is pretty much your normal bar/club type. I personally prefer Bar Chiquita and went there a couple of times. Boys There are plenty of guys on Grindr. Quite of them around Poblado are for pay but I didn't engage with any of them as there are plenty of keen guys not looking for payment. I've met a few guys on other apps too (Bumble, Tinder). I do have to highlight that there are plenty of hot guys around, both locals and expats 🤣. I can see why some prefer coming here frequently. Cam Models Prior to coming here, I've been in contact with a few cam models in anticipation of meeting them. However, I only ended up meeting one model. Sweet guy who doesn't speak English. But with that kind of rock solid body, not much talking is required 🤣. The main problem I have with most models is how they change their mind and increased their rates the moment I actually reached Medellin. (One of them wanted to charge USD 1k ! 😅) Given the available options on Grindr (and most being either free or charge a much more reasonable rate), I just didn't bother anymore. Funny thing though is that when I stopped entertaining some of them with their request, they started messaging again offering lower rates. Oh well 🤷 Anyway, that is basically my experience. I will definitely return again and hopefully go into a bit more of an adventure with the guys there.

I am seen in company of guys in restaurants, bars, aircraft, buses, trains and other social situations. If someone stares I figure they’re jealous—especially when I see the women they’re with.

Forum member JD100 and myself, we attended the Friday 01-Nov-2024 Venue Cabaret Halloween special edition show. Neither one of us have ever seen the cabaret show here as we have frequently attended the M2M show in the Jomtien Complex and recently the stupendous cabaret show at Tiffany in Pattaya - recent review here: The Venue is one of the primary hotels in the Jomtien Complex (aka, Supertown) https://www.facebook.com/TheVenueCabaret/ The price for admission was 1 required drink (360 baht I believe - JD paid for mine) which is good value for money - as the cabaret show started at 10pm and we exited between 11:30pm - 11:45pm - as they then move everyone from the main stage to the pool area for the more sexy cabaret version (we did not stay for that show). We had front row seats - as I had made a reservation via email the prior day = thevenuejomtienpattaya@hotmail.com At first, neither of us felt an affinity with the performers - as we have been jaded by the excellent performers at M2M - as they seem to be more passionate about their performances and they work the audience more to draw you into their themed acts. The M2M audience is much more inclined to tip the performers throughout the show, whereas, The Venue audience was more subdued and reluctant to tip. However, after about 30 to 40 minutes into The Venue show, we started to feel enchanted with The Venue cabaret performers and by the end of the show we were totally in harmony with them. I would recommend our viewers/readers to see this show. I give a ranking as follows: 5 stars to the Tiffany show in Pattaya City, 4.4 stars to the M2M show in the Jomtien Complex, 4 stars to The Venue show in the Jomtien Complex. JD has decided to leave Thailand to return to his home country later this month - so we want to squeeze in one more night out to see the show at the Colosseum. I will post a review after we have seen that show. Here are some photos from The Venue Halloween show: My favorite scene was the dance number with the nuns with the picture frames - I found it unique and entertaining.

Just starting the thread now and will keep updating as I go. So on to Plan B this trip. Thai airways didn't let me down as the plane from Perth was late (as always it seems) but the crew, service, food and entertainment were all very good. On arrival (about 10:40pm) and after the long trek to immigration I was shown straight to the priority counter, I flew business class and as soon as they saw that I was escorted to priority and took all of 5 minutes to clear. Rest of immigration didn't look too crowded and maybe would have only taken 20 minutes or so to get through. I still hate that finger print rubbish though, just a thumb print would suffice but hey this is Thailand. Caught a taxi from down stairs, no hassles whatsoever, told him which hotel and he got it up on his mobile phone / maps app. Didn't try to rip me off and he made good time to the hotel so gave him a tip on top of the fare. Booked into Ibis Styles, got to the room and after a quick shower I crapped out for the night, took about 2 minutes to hit sleep mode. As stated before the rooms are small and in my view lacking some minor things (like wardrobe / cupboard etc) but still pretty good and comfortable, thinking next trip will be back at Tarntawan. Breakfast starts 6am but there was a fair crowd of Europeans in there, had a feeling they were in a tour group and getting an early start as there are 2 big busses outside. Hit Foodland to stock up the room. Plan for the rest of the day See if I can get my old Rabbit card reactivated and squeeze in a bit more shopping, this afternoon will be Senso for a 2 hour relaxing massage with extras. The rest will be fairly mundane stuff but also looking at plans for next couple of days. To be continued.....

Hey everyone, just for a public service announcement- a new massage store is opening. Conveniently located beside OnNut. Some boys look familiar, but some look new too. the decoration is in chinese style. It has 7 rooms over 4 storeys but no private washroom. The shop is considered: H style (hard). location: https://maps.app.goo.gl/uip6udcetJbhnHYi6?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy X account: fafaspa_bkk

Idea - if you were living in Pattaya, wouldn't you keep yourself occupied by running your bar that you are going to open?

Not much luck? It seems that you had all kinds of different guys fucking you nine ways from Sunday, and your most recent in adjacent room. They may have confused you with their own daddy, girlfriends back and possibly Moo Deng, but you had cum squirting out in all directions. You also had opportunity to buy shrimp for admirers and dance the nights away in near religious fervor in DJ Station. Please don’t let me hear again that you were ever bored in Bangkok.

I don't think he is serious in the least! He just likes stirring up debate!

When you get bored, you really come out in a big way.....did you get much applause?

I prefer to pay cash for certain things. I have paid massage shops with credit card, but the tip has been in cash and I prefer that. At home, I will pay the restaurant bill with a card, but the tip for the server is usually in cash. I can be sure that they are getting the money, and they do not have to go through their boss. Also, for certain venues, I am more comfortable not using a card and just paying in cash which is more anonymous

TRIP REPORT: MORE DAYS IN PATTAYA The days in Pattaya have been very relaxed. Just what I need before I go on a solo sightseeing trip in China. During daytime at the beach. Reading, listening podcasts, maybe take a short nap. Late afternoon hours are for chilling in hotelroom. Sometimes enjoying a massage. Out for dinner and after some drinks. One of the dinners was in 3Mermaids restaurant on top of the Pattaya cliffs. Beautifully views and very nice of you can sit in one of the "birdsnests" overlooking the restaurant and sea. Pre-booking these seats is recommended, but we were lucky there was still a nest available when we turned up unannounced. Thanks to @bkkmfj2648 and his "local friend" for taking me there. Depending on what you choose, food can be a bit pricey. But you also pay for "the experience". The restaurant is located in Phra Tamnak and there are a few popular restaurants with also great views next to each other. Below picture of Forest restaurant. If you're staying in pattaya I do recommend using the Hornet app besides Grindr. Spent a few bucks on 1 month paid membership and much more twinks show up on Hornet than in Grindr. Worth it. At foxy massage there was a new boy. Arrived in Pattaya 5 days ago but already got recommendations about him. So off course needed to try the new boy out. The 500baht fee for massage place was fixed. But the "tip" for the boy himself was according to him completely up to me. I made sure and gave him reasonable rate of 2000baht but probably new boy needs to learn he has to come up with a minimum tip amount himself during chatting. Before he falls in the hands of a cheap basterd who will maybe only give him 1000baht after his services... Very friendly and sweet guy. But English skills very bad. Even simple sentences needed the translation app before he could understand. His massage was nice. Relaxing, sensual. Not hard. And for extra service he really likes to look for what you enjoy to make sure you like what he is doing. When he took a shower afterwards I already thought he was taking long time in bathroom. But found out he made some new pictures for his grindr profile in my bathroom... See one of these pics below. By the way this guy likes making pictures of himself. He is changing his profile pics more often than @vinapu is switching boys when visiting Thailand... 😜🤣 Massageboy smelled familiar when he came out of the bathroom. He had put on some of my perfume, which I didn't mind.

How a massage turns out can sometimes owe it origin to the pre-massage shower. When I arrived at Phetboy last Saturday, the guy I picked happened to be in shop. He was new and from Myanmar with just about no English save yes and now. But we quickly became acquainted in the few minutes under the shower head and that set the tone for the next 55 minutes. He’s now on my top three list from that shop. I love international relations. 🙂

TRIP REPORT SUNDAY IN PATTAYA No rain this afternoon. Yesterday it was raining almost all day and I was getting so bored. But today it looks fine! So after lunch it was time to relax at the beach. Off course in the "gay area", just after the public toilets. The good thing about being in holiday: not having to do anything. Before I knew it, it was time already to head back to the Agate hotel for shower and get ready for evening-program. First dinner at Dick's Cafe and after some drinks at Meeting Point bar. From there you can easily check out the massage boys sitting in front of Foxy Smile, Pattaya #1 Massage and even Soda Massage. And decide on your favorite boy whike enjoying a drink and the friendliness of the bar staff and the white cat "Latte". The staff of Meeting Point are in close contact with the massage boys at Foxy and Pattaya #1, so if there is any boy there you like the bar staff is happy to go to your boy of choice and invite him to sit with you for a drink before you decide on a massage. I decided to go check out the show at M2M, which was very entertaining. The cabaret boys are eyecandy, the ladyboys know how to put on a show. And lipsyncing is in most of the act good and much better than most places in Thailand. The show starts at 22h30 and lasts till after midnight. I did had my eyes on one of the massage guys at Foxy Smile, but that place was already closed when I passed it after the M2M show. So I went to the app. Found a hot Cambodian guy with the exact amount of musle I like, working at Toyboy but living in Jomtien complex. He was off and sitting in a bar drinking. Was was willing to join me in my hotel room for 1500baht, saving me the off fee of when I would have picked him up from Toyboy. So my night did have a happy end after all...

Here is my little experience in Sousse, but I was there 4 years ago. I lived in an All inclusive hotel very far from the city center, so the opportunities for sex were limited. - I went to the center several times on a local minibus and once four local young Tunisians came up to me at the bus stop and started asking who I was vacationing with. When they found out that I was alone, they asked me directly if I wanted hashish or a dick. They offered to go with them and suck all four of them, but the area was practically deserted, besides, they spoke to each other in Arabic and laughed loudly about something, so I refused. - In the Medina of Sousse in two shops I was openly offered sex, but the sellers were with friends and again laughed among themselves and showed gestures as if I was sucking a dick. I thought they were making fun of me and left. - On the third day of my vacation, two guys from the hotel staff knocked on my room and openly asked me if I want sex. They had come to me before to fix the air conditioner, so I knew who they were. I agreed, because they had already entered my room and were standing very-very close to me, so I immediately got excited. They were about 25 years old, their cocks were big and very hard, like a rock. It was rough and very depraved, they were both in an active role. There was a lot of sperm)) I gave them 10 dollars each, although they persistently asked for more. They came again another day and everything repeated itself. - I found a hamam in Sousse with a good rating on Google maps, its name is Anti-Stress Hammam, and went there in the afternoon. The owner himself met me and treated me very respectfully. He himself selected a master for me, a nice muscular guy. I suppose he immediately understood what kind of master I needed, although he did not say a word about it. At first, we went to the sauna, he sat behind me a little higher in a towel and squeezed me tightly with his legs. I felt how the head of his dick sometimes touched my back. I was just exploding with excitement. Then we went to another room, he took off my swimming trunks, massaged me a little and we went into a small shower stall. The boy put me on my knees, took off his towel and pressed my face to his dick. It was not very big, but very thick. Maybe it's some kind of chemistry between people, but as soon as I felt him in my mouth I felt a big surge of excitement and love. I really enjoyed caressing him, however, he did not finish and after 5 minutes we left the shower for the next room. It was a massage room, in which a naked man was already lying and a hairy Arab was giving him a massage. I lay down on the second table and my master began to give me a massage. He immediately removed my towel, so I was naked too. The massage itself was not professional, just relaxing. At some point he started to spread my ass cheeks and touch my hole. I turned around and saw that the masseur next to me was looking straight at my ass and had a boner in his towel. I didn't know how it would end and just relaxed. He massaged my hole, pressed it with his finger, but nothing more. After the massage, he gave me his Instagram and told me to write if I wanted more. But it was my last day in Tunisia, so there was no more. Overall, I liked Tunisia, especially the sea and the beaches, but I'm not sure I would want to go back. I didn't feel safe there. Suffice it to say that there were security guards with real machine guns on our beach.

Hi, we are visiting Uruguay at the moment. We started in Montevideo which is a really beautiful city - gay scene is small but interesting- unfortunately some bars were only open from Thursday-Sunday (and we arrived on Monday). We stayed at the smart hotel and we were not the only gay guests there… We also visited the gay sauna Toronto which is a very modern clean place - arrived there in the late afternoon and stayed for 2-3 hours. No guys for money but guests from 25-60 very mixed crowed and a good masseur also. on Friday we drove with a rental car for the weekend up the coast to the Undarius hotel, a clothing optional all male hotel. Very clean place close to the nudist beach, 13 rooms, nice pool and hottub +sauna. Guests from Brazil, Argentina and Montevideo - love it here. At the nudist beach especially in the afternoon a lot of gays are looking for fun, starts on the parking lot and continues in the small pine wood behind the lake arroyo el potrero… Tomorrow we will continue our journey to Colonia del Sacramento and then, after a short stop-over in Montevideo we will fly to Rio de Janeiro and staying there for 11 days.

Was too easy getting the Rabbit card set up again despite it not being used for about 5 years, took all of about one minute to get it done and topped up, no need for any form of identification required either. Senso: a bit different since long ago visit, this time the price was all inclusive of massage and boys tip payable on completion downstairs, previous for me was tip the boy in the room and then pay for massage session downstairs. Selected 120 minute aroma oil with a nice looking twink (getting there early there was only a few boys to choose from) and was taken straight to the room. Massage was actually quite good and not the usual oil up and rub all over type, he applied good pressure with a dry massage first before the oil came into play. The oil surprisingly was used properly, he put it on his hands before massaging (they way I believe it should be done) and he used it sparingly so I didn't feel like an oil slick afterwards, so massage was good quality. The afters weren't all that special, I wanted versatile or top but he was more bottom but such is life and he managed to finish the job with a smile and gave a thorough shower after so no lingering oily feeling. Total cost for the 120 minutes and tip was 3900 baht but because of the massage quality I slipped him a bonus upstairs and he was happy. XOne currency exchange had a good rate for the Aussie dollar (or south seas peso) but picked the wrong time of day to change some money there (late afternoon), it was packed (only takes 6 people to pack that tiny room😅) and a couple of locals had them busy with stacks of notes but got it done eventually. Finished up with a nice quiet evening after dinner at The Mango Tree restaurant, sorry but nothihg on the bars as that's really not my scene.

Amazing views of Jomtien's Dongtan beach - especially when the sunsets behind Koh Larn island and also later into the night --> like right now. This is the PRIMARY reason why I chose Jomtien over Bangkok - as I have an eternal affinity with the sea.

I left Bangkok yesterday via Manila🇵🇭 Philippines Airlines pla✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️🛫🛬 Back in Australia 🦘🦘🦘🇦🇺 Next March heading to Hanoi Vietnam🇻🇳 to visit my Filipino boyfriend's company office and maybe take him back to Bangkok for a few days His favourite restaurant was G's in Bangkok 🇩🇪 My favourite place was DJ Station 💃🕺🕺🕺 Well...until next March ... Can't wait to report on Hanoi ,I don't think I will go back to Pattaya though for a few years it got boring I didn't have much luck getting "free" guys in Bangkok until Friday night when my Grindr dinged and 1m away in distance was an Indian guy 31yo who just arrived "Can I fuck you daddy ? He wrote Where are you I said ,your 1 metre away in the Furama Silom Room 1514 he said , I'm in 1513 I wrote 😳😳 5 seconds later he was knocking at my door Usually I'm not into indian guys but this one had that mansexual look nice hair ,smooth skin ,and white Nike t shirt ,and Nike shoes And a FAT small black indian cut COCK No time to waste not even a handshake he tells me he is staying with 4 other friends ( in the one room) and needs to get back to go out ,next thing his pants were down around his ankles before I got in my knees and sucked that thick fat hairless black cut cock Suck my cock Daddy 🍆he moaned ,me on my old knees him standing looking down at me I was going full speed my head bobbing up & down I was getting horny but my knees were hurting Get on the bed he shouted I quickly got on the bed on my knees before he turned me around on my back my legs in the air as he stood over me on the bottom of the bed and forced his fat small cock into me ,I had my ass up on 2 pillows and my legs near my head "I want to see your face ! He said Lucky I was or am on prep because he took the condom off I put on He started pounding his 30yo indian cock into my old Fat daddy ass One thing I hate is being slapped on the balls 🏀🏀and he did that twice whilst fucking me 😣 I hate big cocks so his young indian fat thick cock was just right He was fucking me with a angry 😡 look on his face which was kind of funny but I was thinking if he slap me again on the balls I'm slapping him ✊👊😂 Anyway I was on my back bum on 2 pillows at the end of the bed legs over my head 🛏️ him standing over me ,his white long pants down around his ankles fucking me in out in out 1 minute into it he groaned and cum in my ass 💦💦💦💦 He withdraws pulls his pants up and said "I'm not gay so don't think I am !😳😳😳"I have a girlfriend!!! he said with a stern look on his face He then leaves quickly to his room next door " see you bro ,he said as he is leaving A few hours later I see him and his indian friends in the hotel foyer all my mansexual type look ...oily hair ,gold chains etc I'm not usually into indian guys🇮🇳 but that was a good fuck even if it only lasted a minute

I was brought up in Scotland as a Presbyterian, the Minister arrived at our house when I was 12 to say that as I had not been baptised I could not attend Bible Study classes until I was baptised, all news to me. I started visiting other religious groups, with the help of my Religious studies teacher and chose to become a Roman Catholic at the age of fifteen. When I left school I entered an enclosed, silent Benedictine monastery in a semi-ruined building built in the year 1230, Latin Office and Latin Mass sung in Gregorian Chant, seven times a day in the church, no school or parish. I was so happy there, a good community who respected each other, but kept silence and we had separate cells (rooms). After seven years I chose to leave and start a new life and trained as a nurse. I am convinced that though it was never mentioned the community knew I was gay but no one ever spoke of it, I simply felt accepted. As a teenager I tried to commit suicide three times because I could not cope with being gay, and I feel that the community of monks who accepted me gave me the courage to leave and live my life openly and freely.

And here I am, sitting in grey London , counting the hours to my arrival in Bangkok (approximately 200 of them, if you want to know) and bemoaning the sheer ordinariness of my life and the absence of handsome guys smiling winsomely at me: one in particular. And much else that I am too shy to mention. A word of advice to O.D. which he is free to take or ignore; we usually don't know how much we enjoy things until they're over.

First time I've arrived in the morning in a decade.... was a red eye from India, only a 2 hr flight, I feel pretty fresh as compared to coming after the LONG flights. Arrived at the satellite terminal, 1st time... I've departed from there, was a piece of cake, arriving though is a shit show when more than 1 flight comes in at the same time....maybe it looked good on paper? From landing, immigration, luggage was almost 1st out, to meet mike taxi was 30 minutes in total...not too bad. 1.5 hrs to Pattaya, zero traffic. Ambiance hotel wanted to charge me for early check in, she's kind of new. When I told her I'm a 25 yr customer that books direct so they don't have to pay a commission, she gave me the room. I'm here until Monday and then BKK for a few days...if anyone wants to meet for a drink or do some marching , it'll put a face to the dry sarcasm and cynicism that I'm known for 😉 Looks like I'll miss @Olddaddy seems like he's going to BKK today, wonder if he planned it that way 🤔

Stopped by the new bar shortly after 9p.m. I chose a table (Semicircular banquet type that can sit four comfortably). the waiter (one of three) gave me a menu that offered a good selection of beers and I selected an Asahi (150, same as local brew prices). When he put by bill in cup he also deliver small bowl of chips. There were two customers at bar and four young Asian guys at another table. it wasn’t long before waiter started conversation with usual questions. Then asked me if he could sit with me, confirming suspicion that this was indeed a host bar. I declined tbh because I knew I wasn’t interested and was there on an information gathering mission. The other waiters also stopped by but I was busy on my phone. There was local pop music on sound system, not at an obnoxious level that would inhibit conversation but still a bit annoying to old man like myself. The manager who was teaching bartenders to use register is a farang. And on the subject of bartenders, there are two and I believe that’s where the talent is. That’s where I’d sit on any future visit.

Have done so and found everything (room, masseur, facilities) satisfactory in all respects. The showers in the eight oil massage rooms can easily accommodate three, although two is enough for me 🙂. In my experience, I’ve found the shops on Soi 6 satisfactory although I have not sampled any of the all-Thai 9-Teen shops. Others, however, have and you can find their reports scattered about in individual TR’s.

Day one went well so of course my Health had to tank day two. Muscle cramps all night woke up with a pulled calf grrr. Still looked around area my hotel is in, Took a light day. Day three. Walked down to the pear and took a boat to Wat Pho. Skiped the massage for the first time. But still love this place. Then Metro to silom for lunch S&P for old times sake then took Bolt to Prince. I had been to prince years ago, There was a write up in a gay mag about a new massage place. Some changes, the walk up no longer has stepping stones in a pool. I was early so only five guys there, I eliminated three as they were wearing shirts so took the guy who made eye contact and smiled. The massage was ok no chemistry afters were a bit disappointing, I could have been happy if he would have just got closer and let me feel those muscles (they were amazing) But he just pushed my hand lower....ah well. Still nice but no repeat.

OMG, I was checked out of hotel at noon and had 4 hours to kill before going to airport and was pondering choice between Arena and Maha in soi 6, settling on the later. Had I known you will be there I'd gladly go to Arena to compete for boys with you, lol

Ventured into Arena yesterday just after opening. Being an early bird there was only about 5 boys to choose from but the choice was made easy for me as I was greeted with a smile and a wave by one of the boys upon entering and as he was more my type and not as big or buffed as the others I went with him. 90 minute aroma oil massage wasn't too bad (750 baht and in the standard room), I've had a lot worse but let's face it not many actually go to Arena for the massage and in the end we both had a happy ending so tipped 1500 baht. I did easily manage to have him not do the sensitve area that had caused discomfort after a previous massage, on leaving the number of boys had grown to a nearly packed house full and of all different types as well. Not a lot happened during the day after that but some relaxing by the pool for a while. Evening was also quiet and started with a couple of beers and a delicious stir fried chicken and cashew at Happy Beer Garden before enjoying a good walk around the neighbourhood.

After getting massage today at Phetboy, checked out Timberland shop. Manager showed me four photos on tablet who were available “on call.” I believe one was manager.

Guess I'll add on to to this since I am one of the ones who regularly gets these "bottle service"... I tend to travel to Bangkok with a bunch of other friends from other countries. So there are multiple of us. It's actually more cost effective for us to get a bottle rather than for each of us to get our own drink. Of course, each club has their own policy. For example, each person would have to pay 550/600 Baht per entry at Dreamboys. That would amount to about 2400baht for 4 people. Opening a bottle at Dreamboys would cost me 2500 Baht (Sangsom) but that grants me 4/5 free entries. Mixers however are not free and are charged at 100Baht per bottle/can. But then the boy drinks are free. (Not entirely sure if that's their policy or if it's because I'm a regular there). The bottle can last us quite awhile rather than nursing that 1 drink for the whole time we're there and especially if we are getting a 2nd drink, then getting the bottle would 100% be more cost efficient. Most bars will offer either free mixers or free limited amount of mixers (e.g. 5 cans per bottle opened). Most bars, the boy drinks will be free if you opened a bottle. But each bar has their own rules. Moonlight is very strict about having to buy their boys drinks even if you have your own bottle. (My friend was charged a boy drink even though they took the boy as the bar was closing and no drink was given) If you don't finish your alcohol, you tell the bar to keep the alcohol for you. You'll be given a card in exchange for the bottle. Just return next time with the card for them to retrieve your bottle. Do note that there is a duration that they would keep your bottle for. Once it goes over the "expiry date" the staff then sometimes help themselves to the "free" alcohol. Upon return, most clubs charge a 500 per person fee. If 3 of you show up, you'll be charged 1500 unless you choose to open a new bottle on the day itself on top of the one that you have. For some clubs, you have to tell them you will open a new bottle beforehand or else you'll get charged the 1500 plus the cost of the new bottle. But if you had told them upfront that you are opening a new bottle, you would only pay the cost of the new bottle. This happened to us in Freshboys. Regarding tips, you give what you like. It's not much different from when you bought them a drink. We tend to play games with our alcohol. Boys join in, tips are given every now and then. For boys who you are closer with, some may not expect tips, they may just want to drink with you. Of course nobody is going to say no to money should you offer them some. If a boy who you called to sit with you, drank with you the whole night, and you aren't taking him back to the hotel, I would say minimally 500 Baht as they gave away their opportunity of a customer to drink with you. If you have any other questions, do let me know and I'll try to answer them if it's within my capacity.