All Activity

my advice this morning to a old gay friend who did nothing but complain and whinge about how bad Australia is and he is moving to Bali 🏝️ You have to change yourself first Psychology of a changing 🌎 world Many of you can't change .

New Years eve soon The end of 2025: Your bucket 🪣 list

So I might as well turn this thread into my trip report… Starting with a practical point, if you want a local number for your WhatsApp you can buy a Tigo eSIM at home. I started the activation at home, and I guess not surprisingly at some point it got stuck, but the surprisingly thing was it finished it’s installation on its own when I was connected to the airport WiFi. Armed with a local WhatsApp and a macdaddi edited greeting (mine, adapted, from my Brazilian one, was too informal for the mannerly Colombians, he said) I hit the mileroticos. You (or maybe I should just say I) think there are pages and pages of ads, but I guess they have to renew them every day or something so there are A LOT fewer than I thought. And not great diversity in types. I would say no more than 5% are over 80 kilos, for example. Not that it mentions their weight (or, vexingly, their height) in the ad. it shares an annoying feature with garotocomlocal that there’s no organized fashion of presenting theInformation, as for example, rentmen. Dick size is typically mentioned, except probably when it is unremarkable. Unfortunately, over the course of a couple days, I made it through the ads back till mid November, contacting about 10-15 that Interested me. About 2/3 responded.,a little higher percentage than Brazil, Most did not meet my height threshold (180cm) And a couple more stymied by my thicket of questions about what I’m into. Two Survived, One of which I told that I would be moving hotels later in the day to one where I could receive guests but he said that if we could meet, then he would pay for the hotel because he was desperate for money. Mileroticos revealing that he had been advertising at least a year, That struck me as a very inauspicious sign (true, yes, he might’ve had an emergency) But after a year, he should not be hurting for money. The second one, I realized that he had managed to take pictures of everybody part and every angle except for his midsection; When I asked for a shirtless pic, he said there were plenty of pics already thereand to please not waste his time if I was not interested in meeting…. I think I managed to annoy Fercho, although the feeling was mutual. He kind of lets the guys out like a leaky sink one drip at a time, and even though my first requirement is 180cm he kept sending me ones that weren’t. Actually I thought he had ghosted me but in fact he just sent me a whole bunch of messages, just now. He speaks so fast I have to get someone to translate them. He does have a guy at only 175 that I can’t seem to forget about, and since many of the guys claiming 180cm are actually 175, I may have to go for it. Macdaddi was kind to refer me to Otoniel, the polite term for which could be a curator. He is super super nice. Met 2 in his “stable,” nice guys, friendly, good at sex, but neither great. At least for my type, the “stable” is not large/he has a “shallow bench” however you want to put it, because after the two today he had never met before. I don’t know where he is finding them. Yesterday’s guys were very nice if a bit lackluster in sex. Whereas, the first one today spent the first half hour taking a shower and finding straight porn that he liked, but finally when he turned (at least some of) his attention to me, he did give a really great fuck for about 15 minutes but then said something about his rate being 250 (it was 200) and if he went on, it would be another 250. That’s definitely the value of having a middleman: Otoniel told him no no, 200. The second one charged an extra 100 to kiss, (in Brazil, bareback sometimes attracts a supplement, especially outside SP/Rio, and very occasionally a GP will say sorry I don’t kiss, but I have never, in probably at least 1000 conversations had a single guy ask for a supplement to kiss) I should’ve known right there to stop. Oddly, no supplement to bareback. He was so boring, not at all helped by the fact that his dick was a fraction of the size claimed. The 100k kisses were no more intimate than you’d give abuela. While I was with him, Which couldn’t have been more than 15 minutes, Otoniel came up with a super hot guy with a great body and 1.88, but again it was, someone had never met, And who asked for 400–which did not seem out of place, certainly not in relation to the misery I had just endured for 300. But he also wanted a kissing supplement. At that point it was up to 550. I’m still thinking about that one for tomorrow, but the kissing supplement seems very inauspicious, And certainly if I go through with it, and it’s bad, I’ll be thinking didn’t I learn my lesson with the first guy? It’s a pity that Otoniel has not screened the guys, I guess he doesn’t have 400 laying around, but in that case, I am really the guinea pig, and and he’s not really a curator anymore. A wingman and security, which are valuable, to be sure. But there’s no higher chance of success than if I was just picking the guys, from mileroticos or whatever… Now that I have a place that takes guests, my thoughts keep turning to why don’t I have the great sex guy from this morning come over (as I have dozens…um, ok, well…hundreds of times in Brazil without serious event but I keep remembering if that was him being on his best behavior when my “chaperone” was there, imagine how he’d be without him.

calling double cheeseburger fun takes some imagination

that's sure thing but khaolakguy quoted belowi is right few years ago I had similar heats and since it ended well , there's story: on my way to OTHER bar I stopped to hand over small tip (50 or 100) , smiled and continued my way. Upon return I was greeted with smile on approach so slipped another small tip , smiled even more broadly and went away. day or two later - repeat but this time I was greeted with 'how are you ? " on my way , still to a different bar. Returning 1-2 hrs later I was met with extended hand , gave another tip and was rewarded with " one day we need to have a beer together" . It did not happen because it was my last day but I was back few weeks later and was greeted with smile and reminder about the beer. This time I discretely whispered "when?" , 'I will let you know " was the answer. So I ordered a meal , half way through the meal asked him if he wants a beer, he did. It was enough to be informed that his day of was Sunday so I suggest ' lets meet on Sunday. Which lead to exchanging Line. When I had Line things went fast so we meet over beer in place by my hotel, I invited him for a dinner which was enough to hear suggestion " why we don t buy some beers at 7/11 and drink in your room to save money" . It was like getting phone from lottery office ' you just won 1.7 million ' or something . In the room we both behaved for a first round but when we opened second slowly but surely , not that slowly but certainly very surely things moved toward , how to say it , less formal atmosphere. In short, smile ensuring I'm interested with a little help of money steered guy to right direction without me being pushy or offensive which would certainly put him off.

Or neurodiverse...

hope it doesn't mean you like Good Girls bar better ?

use you last evening to visit both bars as one is on top of another and make you own opinion. Answer your question will be cryptic ' depending on who you ask " . If you ask me I like Good Boys better and boys seem to be bit more meaty and this is only bar where i like , tip and interact with mamasan. But from what many of my forum friends tell me, fresh Boys seem to be more attractive to them

indeed, it's why Russian children never learned about massive rapes by Soviet soldiers in conquered German territories nor about massacre of thousands of Polish officers, prisoners of war in Katyn forest near Smolensk in 1940

I don't think we can search regions but we can search specific cities/towns anywhere. If we're not paying then we can only save the occasional one as a favourite but it can save time when we get there.

Sorry about the typo. My question is about how to search for guys from specific geographic areas on Grindr. I think race is no longer a search option. Is there a way to filter guys from Africa or South Asia or East Asia on Grindr?

I should add: Firuzaga Hamam takes credit cards.

Bangkok Post: "Police seized 189 pearling beads in round, cubic, bean, heart, capsule and Chinese bun shapes from his car." I didn't know these beads (mooks) came in different shapes! And from the photo in the newspaper, in different colours!

I remember that the sofas were sticky, also that the handrail on the stairs was loose! But, 20 years ago or more, it was fun.

Engage in a conversation, buy him a drink or two, make it clear that you fancy him and ask if he would be interested in spending some private time with you. There are various face saving answers that can be ways of saying no thank you to you, eg I have got a boyfriend. Thais are good at this and I don't expect he would be offended to be asked but don't treat him like an off boy. I don't imagine that the waiters/bartenders there are offable to anyone who asks in the way that a gogo guy is.

Man caught providing pearling, penile enlargement service in car https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/general/3123636/man-caught-providing-pearling-penile-enlargement-service-in-car The mind boggles!

Just a quick report about Firuzaga Hamam before I forget. The visit was in the second half of November. I can't remember what time I arrived but it was after dark; could have been 6pm. The place was quite busy in that there were always customers in every part of the hammam. Whilst the majority seemed to be local, there were some English-speaking customers as well, including at least three East-Asian-looking guys during the time I was there. It's a traditional hammam with walls and floor tiles over a century old. Don't expect any luxury. It's also quite small, but enough. On entry, I was assigned a private changing room. Later, I noticed that there were lockers upstairs, so apparently one can choose whether to have a room or a locker. Not sure what the price differential is. Beyond the front room (the private changing rooms led off it) which also served as the tea room, the wet areas included one main steam room, two washing rooms, two dry saunas, and smaller side rooms for body scrub, Up one floor were the lockers and massage rooms. The attendents noticed straight away that I looked a bit too long at their menu of services, and so, of course, I must be interested! If I recall correctly, it was 400 lira for entry, 200 lira for "peeling" (body scrub) 15 minutes; 650 lira for oil massage 35 minutes; and 200 lira for soapy wash 15 minutes. One guy (Murad) latched on to me and that was a negative, because I had wanted to sit longer in the steam room to sweat it out, and observe the goings on before getting serviced. But he came to me barely 3 or 4 minutes after I had finished washing myself to say it's time for the scrub. I had barely begun to sweat; the steam wasn't that hot. The scrub was done with a rough mitten (good) and was quite thorough (in terms of area coverage), though Islamic modesty being what it is, the groin was not scrubbed at all. After being washed down, I was led upstairs to a massage room where he gave an fairly good massage with firmness and consistency. Nothing suggestive at all. In fact, he didn't close the massage room door, but only a curtain made for privacy. Then downstairs again where he performed the classic Turkish soap wash. I've had this before, the traditional way including slapping, but Murad did not slap. All done, he said I was free to use the steam room for as long as I wished, which was sequentially illogical. I should have been given time to sweat it out and open my pores first before services were provided. Anyway, I still spent another 15 minutes or so in the main steam room, observing the goings on. The bottom line: a bit of suggestiveness, but I don't know if anything can really go on because there simply is no private space. OK, maybe there is the private changing room which comes with a very narrow bunk, but if two men have entered the same changing room together, it would be terribly visible to the attendants and other customers in the front room. What was unusual was that, in the wet areas, some customers were "careless" about covering up while walking around, which was not something I'd seen in other hamams. They could have been foreigners rather than locals; I couldn't tell. Overall, it's good value for money although whether other attendants give as good a massage as Murad I do not know. The total I paid, including 20 lira more for a cold drink from the fridge was 1,470 lira which was about 30 euros. I think I spent a total of about 90 minutes inside. Getting there: I Uber'd. But when I finished, I walked downhill (not steep) to main road that parallels the coast and where the tram runs. So it should be easy enough to reach via tram.

Good Boys, former New Screw Boys. I haven't been since before Covid.

they'll think it's the maple syrup....

Ambiance?... I hope the floor coverings and furniture are all new. And not sticky...

I rarely make any comments on posts around this topic as I don't wish to engage in the back and forth, but I had to laugh at this because from everything I have ever read in any similar posts, the only offender of a blatant disregard for the facts is the one I just quoted.

Smaller, plenty of men so you will probably like someone, a bit less twinky, drinks same price, well worth a look

I had to switch around my vacation time and am going now at the beginning of January. I will report back.

Anyone can personal message me if they have questions. I'm less overwhelmed now but I might take a few days to reply as I don't come on here everyday.