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At least they pretend!

I would say the boys or boyfriends from my past whom I took for granted.

Sounds like a very big tip, considering what the estimated average wage was back then. I was 10 at the time, but I'd love to see what the scene was like in that decade.

The Mamdani/Trump meat-up was a pretty "transparent" move by Trump, and a real cheap shot at using the illustrious Mayor elect.... Trump polls are in the dumps, he is on the verge of being outed as a Pedophile, and he is HATED by most of America, (at least those with Brains)...He is calling to assasinate govt members, and blowing up innocent seamen..... HE IS A LOSER...... who sees a WINNER in Mamdani, and he now chooses to hitch himself to that wagon, hoping that some of Mamdani's popularity and likability will "transfer" to HIM ? So shady and typical of Losers...... After calling Mamdani a Commie, and plotting against him in the mayoral election, NOW he makes a turn ? We see you Donnie, we SEE you ! And I hope all the remaining and dwindling Trump lovers HEARD Trump say, in the Oval, when talking about CAMPAIGNS......"sometimes you just SAY stuff in campaigns"... Finally, an admission of his bullshit. THAT statement MUST immediately be a running DEM opposition ad. DO NOT be swayed by this Trump/Mamdani lovefest. Although Mr M. stayed consistent and held his ground, Trump is fickle, and turns on a dime. He will be nice to Mayor M. as long as he sees a benefit for HIMSELF. But I suspect he will attempt to exploit Mayor M over some deportation shit after sending troops into NYC and that will be the end of their "affair".....

There have been similar viewpoints such as that expressed on this forum too in ages past. As I mentioned in another thread there are operational costs involved with the non-Thais. This might increase in the future if current visa exemption practice is upheld. As to the main question posed by OP and also mentioned by others on this thread: no, there is no increase in minimum tips. What you see on Phetboy AKA boyboy LINE feed are the outcall tips which has always been higher. The incall tips have remained the same. What you do see however is a more explicit segmentation of the market especially by Fafa Spa who has a large segment of Chinese customers (who are not used to a tipping culture). There they have begun to be more explicit about the minimum tips prices between H and S service. Also some boys have significantly higher minimum tips e.g. 3000, however that is nothing new as a few boys have always had something in short supply but in high demand, and priced themselves accordingly.

A different night, I went to check the gay onsen in that same area. https://maps.app.goo.gl/QQoawgDH57KYCBiN6?g_st=ic It works the same as any onsen in terms of the entrance and the towels and the bathrobes, as well as the wet areas etc. if you don’t know what I am talking about, go to a straight one first and learn the ropes of the Japanese Onsen there. From what I saw, the clients were only about 50% Japanese. The rest were tourists. The 24 kaikan Onsen has 3 floors: 2nd floor is the entrance, the lockers and a juice bar which was not manned when I got there, 3rd floor is the wet areas, and 4th floor is the resting areas. There many differences with a straight onsen. First people are not trying to hide their junk at all, showing it seems to be much more common than in another onsen, especially in the wet areas, Second there are dark showers, dark saunas, dark steam rooms and dark “spray” rooms where a lot of sex is happening. I say dark, but you can see well enough to see who you might want to suck or not. Some guys there just hookup in pairs on the spot and start sucking each other and kissing. Some guys just want to suck as many dicks as possible and so open their mouth wide and let anyone who want a BJ enter that mouth. People line up for that. Some guys go for full sex in the semi dark and when that happens a lot of guys gather around to watch and jerk off. Your hand doesn’t necessarily have to grab your own cock in these gatherings, you can grab someone else and usually that is fine. I find that if I start to suck a guy, (rarely rejected except by very young guys, because who doesn’t want to get a free BJ in these situations? Seeing others getting a BJ makes one so horny) then he will soon be happy to, first, jerk me off and then suck me. I got sucked a couple of times and also I fucked one guy in the showers. I was so horny I came in just 2 minutes, a hot hole is irresistible for me. In the resting areas, there are beds that are much more comfortable than, say thermae yu’s sofas and resting chairs. There is also a smoking area and a porn room to watch porn. The beds are proper beds with pillows, fitting sheets and nice mattresses. I felt very comfortable in them. The resting rooms are also pretty dark, much darker than any resting areas in an onsen. Once you are there resting, you will hear the sound of kissing, cock sucking and even fucking in the same room. I found it very nice to relax in a proper bed, knowing that the people around me were having a good time and a really enjoying themselves. If you open your bathrobe to present your ass and open your legs while pretending to sleep, someone will soon come and caress it. If you lie on your back instead and present a hard cock, someone will offer to suck it. I am not attractive but I had some very decent approaches. There was also a cute Japanese guy who was getting fucked in turn by two other Japanese guys. They finished inside him and kissed him goodbye without making him cum. I was watching that and saw he stayed behind lying down and still stroking his cock. I offered to suck him and he seemed so happy to have more action. After a while he was opening his legs wide and asking to get fucked again. I obliged. Fucking a guy full of hot cum is awesome, I hope I can do this more often! I came too quickly but another guy was watching us closely and my bottom was already stroking his cock while I was fucking him, so after I finished I said to him “your turn, he needs more cum”. That guy went in right away. I didn’t stay to watch anymore, I was done for now, and I still wanted to try another cutey at TK so I left them. I hope that hungry bottom got as much cum inside him mixed together as he wanted to have: Those hungry open bottoms provide an amazing service to the community, I wish them all well.

Maybe not the boy's fault rather than a greedy mamasan who was afterwards trying to extract some of his 'winnings' from him? In my experience a massage boy, happy with the way things went, would be keen to encourage you back again?

I was in Mixwell last night and saw their advertisements on the big screen....

Although you've gone for more than three, I'd like to ask the reason for asking the initial three if "they were atheists.' Presumably you have a reason - and I expect it might have something to do with slavery.

why are you stuck in first stage for so long.... move on, the world knows and secretly I bet you do too 🤷‍♂️

I've read and watched investigative stories done on this years ago... very dark and dangerous stuff, was centered on the straight nightlife and drug scene, I'm sure it flows over into the gay world as well.

So basically I'm only scroogy at the entry-level discounts, but once I hit the premium tiers I'm suddenly a respected economist? Next time I'll wear a suit, carry a clipboard, and say “this isn’t haggling, sweetheart — this is fiscal responsibility.” 😝

A growth? No. That thing has weight, rhythm, and a mission. Maybe your bottoms thought yours was a growth — they didn’t feel it 😳

So I got a massage boy for extras, paid 1500 for sex, tipped him 500. All good, then he messaged me after I left saying I overstayed in the room for an extra 28 minutes with and he had to pay it . So annoyed at him because he was the one wanting me to stay, if I had known I would of left bang on the hour.

It is a couple of years since I was last there and the owner was talking of expanding into the floor above. God knows what the reaction of waitresses would be to being told what used to go on up there.

Well, in history, I'd like to meet Ben Franklin, Tom Jefferson, and Abe Lincoln. Among other things, I'd like to ask them if they were atheists. As for real people today, I remember a cousin once asking me, several years ago, if I could show him examples of men who were "my type." The first person who came to mind was Broadway's Nick Adams. He seems like a nice enough man, too. I wonder what he's really like. As for someone I might actually meet, I've wondered how much it would cost to hire David Archuleta to sing at one of my parties. I'm sure it would be interesting to talk to him for a bit. Quite a few hunky men in their early 30s come to my parties, so he might meet someone nice, if he's not already attached. Well, summer's a ways away.

The first stage is always denial.

Could you please switch on your brain for 1 minute? Of course they crossed the Belarus-Poland border! There are three possibilities: - they were pro-Russian saboteurs - they were Ukrainian saboteurs - they were saboteurs motivated by their own ideological reasons, for example, followers of those who carried out the genocide of Poles in Volyn Poland can be entered from the east from: - Russia - Belarus - Ukraine - Lithuania If the saboteurs are pro-Russian, they will not travel from Russia, so as not to demonstrate their affiliation; they cannot travel from Lithuania and Ukraine, because their regimes are hostile. That leaves Belarus. If the saboteurs are pro-Ukrainian, they will not travel from Ukraine or Lithuania, so as not to demonstrate their affiliation; they cannot travel from Russia, because their regimes are hostile. That leaves Belarus. If the saboteurs are ideological and not affiliated with any state, they cannot travel from Ukraine—crossing the border to the West is prohibited for men between 18 and 60 years old. For the same reason, they cannot enter through Lithuania, and they cannot travel through Russia because they lack Russian support. However, the Ukrainian-Belarusian border is densely forested and not as heavily guarded as the western border. That leaves Belarus. Bottom line: the optimal route to Poland for saboteurs of any affiliation is through Belarus.

Yes. I should perhaps have added a comma after "quite far" to make it more clear. I have had the set lunch there and much enjoyed it. The restaurant is clearly popular and has been almost full whenever I have been there.

I know that this was a thread topic 15 years ago and hope there has not been a more recent one. If there has, then do not bother to add to this. That earlier thread basically asked members to list three people living or dead - they would like to meet today - and why. The replies in the earlier thread basically included former lovers, best friends and close family members who had died as well as better known personalities. I expect the problem with those who died some time ago is that we would expect to meet them as they were then even though we have aged. I don't find that a problem. So I'll kick off. 1. The first man I fell truly and passionately in love with - a Japanese who like so many was tragically to die of AIDS. 2. Leslie Cheung Kwok-wing, the massively popular gay Hong Kong singer/actor with a worldwide following who equally tragically died too young, by suicide. He is no doubt best-known around the world for two of his large output of movies - Farewell My Concubine which won the Palme d'Or at Cannes and a Golden Globe for Best Foreign Film, and the much grittier Happy Together which was nominated for the Palme d'Or. I did have the pleasure of meeting him once professionally. Apart from his beauty - and he was indeed beautiful - he was equally interesting and fascinating to talk to. 3. I find keeping the number down to three is very difficult. There are dozens of historical figures I would love to meet, but I think I have a debt I need to repay to my father. He was a family doctor, a profession my siblings joined. I, on the other hand, had not the slightest interest in it. While my father never did anything other than encourage me in the career I wanted, I always felt a distance from him. He tried hard to get close to me, but I had some weird determination that I did not want that. Yet he was an extremely kindly man, adored by his patients, a doctor who had no qualms about getting out of bed at 3:00 in the morning if a patient called. He had also been a prisoner of war of the Germans for five years, being captured as the phoney war started. He should have been evacuated from Dunkirk but some of the men had been transferred west along the coast to the town of St. Valery. They were supposed to be picked up during the Dunkirk evacuation but there just were not enough boats. So only a year after getting married, he was not able to see my older sister until he was repatriated by the Russians when she was five. He never talked much about the war. This was something between the men he was looking after in the camps, not for family. Thankfully my brother has spent much of the last three years finding out a great deal from the families of fellow prisoners whom he has been able to track down. Soon he will print a book for family consumption. I guess I would like to tell him I am sorry that I put up a barrier between us and I wish I had known him better.

I hope he wasn't drink driving. I know of two suicides (one worked at Adam's Apple), one attempted suicide and four fatal drink-driving related accidents this year alone, all involving nightlife workers. All were/are under twenty-five and three were parents. I worry there might me more accidents as the year comes to a close. The two suicide and attempted suicide cases I knew personally; they were/are lovely guys who succumbed to severe depression and excessive drinking. I'm still grieving one of them which might explain why I've been posting and making more cracks than usual lately. Some day, I will write about the darker side of the nightlife industry in Thailand which is far from the benign pony ride that some people would like to make it out to be.

Like a growth, you mean?

Last night it appeared empty.

Might restrict posts a bit!