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In UK, in my experience, on the escort sites, etc, 'South Asian' is used to denote someone from India. Asian can cover South East Asia, and China. Japan is usually separate

I found that once you work out the Tokyo subway system, it's very good. Everything now is also in English, and the directional signs at the stations are excellent. When I first went to NY, you still had the 3 different subway operators, IRT, BMT, and IND, often with separate entrances. This made the stations and signs very confusing, and the Subway map was a classic, in successfully confusing you! I still have one of those maps from 1978. Now, things are much better, I think, though there are still some issues. I also wonder why the NY Subway cars are built to provide maximum internal noise! I wonder if they leave all the screws loose, to achieve maximum rattling? Tokyo Subway trains are a pleasure, by comparison.

Regarding the comment of @mauRICE on the reference to a customer of the bar as “Oriental”, I will submit to his wisdom that is now regarded as rather “not cool” to use it. Personally I would have said that, although rather old-fashioned these days, it wasn’t necessarily an offensive term. However, given your location in Kuala Lumpur, I presume you have your finger on the pulse amongst the people about whom the term is used. However, I think you’re wrong to suggest it is purely an equivalent of "Asian". I think the term "Oriental" when describing a person is more understood to mean an East Asian person, as opposed to an Arab or Indian. So by saying Oriental rather than Asian, Vinapu was giving somewhat richer contextual information. Usage on this is depends on where you are from - in the UK Asian tends to mean somebody from the south Asian subcontinent whereas in America an Asian almost exclusively means East Asian. In England you might hear somebody saying “there used to be a Chinese restaurant there, but it closed and they opened an Asian restaurant in its place” which would sound weird to a North American, but would be understood in England to mean an Indian restaurant replaced a Chinese.

Is about what I was going to reply last night before going to bed. With that being said... I have a 8 hr layover in Japan next month That I will be asking questions about the different places to meet hired guys. All my previous trips to Japan were to saunas and bars/clubs, will be my first time paying as their rate seems in line with what the end cost is in BKK these days. I find Japan confusing and even though it has a huge public transportation system, I'm always afraid I'll miss my stop or leave the wrong exit and get lost...I often wonder if this is how tourists feel in NYC.

Normally when I see a post that opens this way, effectively saying "I don't want to do the work, so I ask you to do the work instead, giving me the answers" -- I won't bother to reply. You would also have noticed that other members are also relatively quiet. However, I see that you have contributed trip reports before (from Japan) and I will give you some credit. But I can't yet answer your question(s) because there are too many pieces of vague-ish information in your post. So, if you will clarify these, you may get more specific responses. But a word of advice: please do not bring Japan into the discussion -- it is such a different place with a totally different business culture, it can only confuse the conversation (and your own expectations). What do you mean by the term "regular club"? And what do you mean by "more than that"? In another paragraph, you used the word "bar". Do you mean the same thing? In your speech, are bars and clubs interchangeable terms for the same type of establishment? Was that person really a female or do you mean an MTF transgender? If you can remember, just name the place. We don't know if you're referring to one of the places that members of this forum are familiar with or whether you're at some other place we know little about. We can give you advice about how to protect yourself in place we're familiar with, but if it's a place that also foreign to us, then of course our words are meaningless. That other place may well have business practices that are "normal" for them. Best to be specific about the "club" we're referring to, otherwise we may be going around in circles in the discussion. If you managed to have fun in your previous visit to Thailand without ever getting a massage, why are your questions geared to "how to avoid a massage"? You seem to be asking: How do I get paid sex in Thailand with the type of boy I like -- and I think your preference is for very slim, as-young-looking-as-possible lads -- in my hotel room without any massage activity? Must this be in Bangkok, or are you prepared to spend more time in Pattaya? At 33, you're young enough to score at the saunas -- why do you want to pay?

Very good detailed post, I haven't been to BCN in awhile, I used to go pretty frequently and was a regular at the bar.

My perspective on this is that guys in the Caribbean, Puerto Rico, Cuba, Dominican Republic, even the coasts of Colombia, are hot blooded. Not just in bed, but temperament wise. Things can flip from chill to aggressive pretty quickly if someone feels disrespected or jealous.... latinos are posesivo and jealous, lol More laid back than Brazil? In my opinion, no. Different energy, yes. Less intense? Not necessarily. Would that stop me from going? NO. One thing to remember, hotels give you an extra layer of security. There is staff, cameras, someone at the desk if a guy gets annoying or decides to show up uninvited later. Just make sure you book somewhere that allows visitors. Once you have established a few regulars and know who is who, then maybe Airbnb makes more sense.

Hotel prices really seem to have been exploding in Barcelona in the last year and a half. That together with flights getting more and more expensive, I'm less inclined to make the trip to Barcelona for sauna Thermas, even though I've had loads of fun there over the years.

You always pay after the session. As for the question around cumming or not, I wrote a detailed "guide" for new clients at sauna Thermas: You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation. Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest not to do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider). If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before). A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline. Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting). You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry. After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go to the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there. The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate). If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them. I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉 Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are (usually) Wednesday, Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna.

You are right, these are the partygoers who went to the Splash party that goes on from Saturday night till Sunday morning and they decided to stay in the sauna. They do not get kicked out, no. The same thing happened when I went on a Sunday and I was very confused when a couple of super hot muscular guys were hanging around but not accepting clients. One of the working boys explained it to me. The Splash ticket includes free entry to the sauna on Sunday, so some of the party guys just stay throughout the whole of Sunday, even after the party has ended.

A friend of mine went recently and he was very happy that he went there. The place has been renovated nicely and the clientele was friendly and ready for action.

🎵I will survive 🎵

Hi guys. I’m considering a trip to the DR, but I’m still on the fence. I was there once about 15 years ago, but it was strictly for diving and the beach. I’ve been reading through a lot of trip reports and put together a few questions. Hopefully, these will be helpful for others as well. I’d especially appreciate feedback from anyone who has experience with the scene in both the DR and Brazil because visited Brazil many times. 1. What’s the safety situation like? I’m used to being on high alert in Brazil, but honestly, I’d rather avoid that constant tension and the eyes in the back of my head feeling regarding robberies or getting my drink spiked. I know nobody can give me hard stats, but I'd love to hear your personal experiences, especially compared to Brazil. Am I right to expect a more laid-back vibe in the DR? 2. Accommodation: I prefer Airbnb over hotels, so I won't be able to register guests at a front desk. Are there usually any issues bringing guys into an Airbnb? 3. Neighborhoods: Aside from Ciudad Colonial, where else should I look? I’ve checked out a lot of apartments there and realized I’d be much more comfortable in a more modern, up-to-date place. 4. Performance: As I understand it, most of escort guys are straight. Right? How are they with staying hard? I can’t stand it when a guy has to watch straight porn just to stay hard enough to fuck me. In Brazil, that’s rarely an issue - is it common in the DR? 5. Groups: How do DR escorts feel about groups? Are there any issues if they are both straight? Do they get awkward or tense with each other? 6. Rates: What are the typical rates for an overnight with a fit/athletic guy? I’m not looking for anything monstrous - 8 inches is enough for me, haha. 7. Helpers: Are there any other helpers besides Manny? I’d appreciate any contacts or recommendations.

Are you talking about US dollars or BR reais?

The following link says that James Van Der Beek purchased the home where his family currently lives only one month before he died, and that the family is out of funds, and are struggling financially: https://ew.com/james-van-der-beek-friend-mehcad-brooks-slams-critics-family-gofundme-11907522

Just to make clear, you absolutely do not have to buy drinks for anyone, apart for yourself, at the bars, unless you choose to. I have never heard of anyone skipping the massage. I had a massage at Arena today before a handjob, and I actually felt revitalized afterwards.

Yes, the twins Mateo and Valentino, but Ms Ricky also has 2 other kids, a son and a daughter, ALL kids delivered via surrogate..... Just to be clear Sis, eventhough I am not a fan of his current "Addams Family" look, I would still "Chupalo"....... Latin cock is LATIN COCK ! 😜

Yes, it's a question of the bouquet!

Oh FR, since I am always so transparent, I will spill my tea..... while I really dont mind if a guy explodes in my throat, I draw the line at "swallowing" . I never liked the taste of CUM, even with an aftertaste of pineapple...... I demurely hold the load in my mouth, turn away and SPIT ! Does THAT make me a bad person ? It's not like I used the "wrong FONT" 🤪

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And his two sons are 17!

Yes I was certain he was a nun, since I met him mere steps away from Soi Convent

Oh please don't make Olddaddy break out into that Gloria Gaynor song. 🙏🏻