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The issue was privacy of sharing phone number, but yes, WhatsApp is imperative in Colombia and almost all of Latin America. Most contacts — from pharmacy to Scorts — takes place on WhatsApp. fwiw

Thanks @Chucky agreed. @Canadianbtmguy if you prefer, send me a DM and. I can connect you with some alternative options. You didn’t note your working level of Spanish. Do know that is a real differentiator in Medellín. Despite a growing foreign tourism boom, they are just catching up with demand for English language services. If you are comfortable with Spanish, I can make some introductions. Your move.

"What you takin bout, Willis" ????

Has anyone been to Buzios recently? I’m planning to spend a few days there soon. Lodging recommendations as well as suggestions on how get there from RJ will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for sharing your experience with the freelancer. It is interesting to read about such new experiences. You were right about withholding price information. Best not to open that can of worms.

When the apps arrived, I too had more than considerable success. Not here in Bangkok as the bar, sauna and spa scene did not require additional hook-ups. In my Asian travels, though, they were a godsend and I met many guys including a few whom I met regularly for a period of time. Some sites were better than others in certain countries. There was a site named fridae.com which allegedly had half a million members and covered virtually the whole of Asia for several years. Meeting guys in South East Asia was easy. Another, I believe gaydar.com, was great for meeting guys especially in Taipei and Tokyo. Jack'd, Hornet and Grindr gradually become more prominent, and then for those of us in Asia Blue'd was for a time great on my travels outside Thailand. But apart from fridae, I have never paid any membership fees. Then fridae changed hands. It still exists but checking just now, under Personals it claims 1,521 members on line of whom 55 are in Thailand. Click on Thailand and you find just 2 - one aged 63 and the other 75! Try Taiwan. 58 supposedly onlne but only 6 listed and an average age around 50. Don't waste your money on that crap! For at least ten years the site has been at death's door. I still get hits on other sites when out of Thailand and have met a few guys. But as @jimmie50 writes, I first prefer to meet guys face to face now. A sign of ageing no doubt.

Have a peek in Moonlight and perhaps Jupiter as well

horror for everybody involved, don't they wait for rigor mortis ?;

For massages with twunks, have a look at Klover and History of Massages. Ssense and Prestige got a fair number too. All of these are S to SS places, but of course you can get lucky. Glam’s and Jey spa are H places with a fair number of ripped twunks. You can expect masseurs who has invested a fairly substantial amount of aesthetic labour into their bodies to know their market value and ask for tips at a higher range. At these places mentioned you need to book in advance, connect to their Line accounts.

That's because they were still at school.

A somewhat ridiculous title, I know, but it rather nicely praphrases a long article in today's Guardian. We all know that Caravaggio is one of the gay world's favourite painters. We know that he himself was gay, at least for most of the time. We know that Caravaggio painted the model used in the painting Victorious Cupid which arrives at London's Wallace Collection tomorrow in three very different paintings and that he was his lover. We know this because the British traveller Richard Symonds saw the painting in 1649 and was told its subject has “the body & face of [Caravaggio’s] owne boy or servant that laid with him”. The name of this boy was Cecco. It was painted around 1600 for a well-known art collector. We know, too, that in those days it was not uncommon for artists to have sex with their models. It is claimed that Donatello was madly in love with his apprentice which to many seems obvious when they see his statue of David. The art historian Vasari claims that Leonardo da Vinci “took for his assistant the Milanese Salaì, who was most comely in grace and beauty, having fine locks curling in ringlets, in which Leonardo greatly delighted”. We do have to realise, though, that the latest historical studies illustrate that same-sex relationships in much of Italy in Caravaggio's time, depite the prohibition of the Church and the Courts, were far from uncommon. One historian has discovered that over a 70-year period in 15th century Florence, 13,000 men were convicted of sodomy - this in a city with just 40,000 inhabitants! Most were merely fined and continued with their sexual encounters. Across the channel in England, Caravaggio's slightly older contemporary the playright Christpher Marlowe is reported to have said “They that love not Tobacco and Boys are fools.” The painting is being lent to the Wallace Collection from its permanent home in Berlin and it can be viewed until April 12. There is no special entry fee. And what of Cecco? He went on to become a painter using the name Cecco del Caravaggio but of only average talent. One of his works is to be seen in Oxford's Ashmolean Museum. As the Guardian article ends, it writes this - Four hundred years on, we might make more sense of the incredible painting that is coming to the Wallace Collection if we simply use that old word, sin. Caravaggio’s paintings shudder and provoke with sin – the supposedly sinful pleasures of sweet grapes, red wine and sex. https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2025/nov/24/caravaggio-victorious-cupid-model-muse-wallace-collection

Hi all, Sorry for not doing a fulsome search of previous posts… but other than Tawan and Atlas, any thoughts about which boy bars might have very muscular either bodybuilders or twunks (not twinks) - who are really ripped/defined (so not any “off season” bodybuilders). While big hard bodybuilders are typically my favorites, lately I’ve found myself very very attracted to ripped fitness model type twunks. Thanks very much for any advice. Also, if anyone has any good recommendations for fitness model twunks at any massage places, that would be great too (so far, all that I see standing outside of the massage places are more twink types.) Please feel free to message me if you don’t want post.

The Grand Jury was never presented with the final charging document by the rookie prosecutor that the Grand Jury voted on. It's just more incompetence from the Incompetent-in-Chief's administration. Leavitt blaming other people for the Administration's own incompetence - what a man baby we have in the White House. My god will this Administration take responsibility for any of the thousands of their screw ups and self-dealing.

AND a plan for building and funding infrastructure from the Incompetent-in-Chief

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/woman-coffin-found-alive-cremation-buddhist-temple-thailand/ "...Pairat Soodthoop, the temple's general and financial affairs manager, told The Associated Press on Monday that the 65-year-old woman's brother drove her from the province of Phitsanulok to be cremated. He said they heard a faint knock coming from the coffin. "I was a bit surprised, so I asked them to open the coffin, and everyone was startled," he said. "I saw her opening her eyes slightly and knocking on the side of the coffin. She must have been knocking for quite some time.""... I guess there's a reason that only health professionals can issue death certificates. 🫢

Karoline Leavitt, the White House press secretary, told reporters that the judge “was clearly trying to shield Letitia James and James Comey from receiving accountability” and added that the Justice Department would quickly appeal “this unprecedented action.” Says she who's employer has 34 felony convictions and should be a registered sex offender.

???? "Apperatips" as shown on the Midnight Bar drink menu is a misspelling of the word "Aperitifs". The liqueurs listed are usually considered as aperitifs, and sometimes as digestifs by some.

There are a few places near thermas you can leave your luggage for 5euros. Just search online and you will get them. You can pay some online or on site by cash or credit card

If you are coming from and returning to El Prat, there are left luggage facilities in both T1 (24/7) and T2 (0600-2200). There is also a manned left luggage facility at Sants station (0700-2200) which is quite close to Thermas

I am talking about Gogo bars in Pattaya and Bkk. The average farang won't ask a mamasan "what does it cost to bring a boy home" and will likely negotiate with the boy directly. From my experience Asian customers will negotiate with the mamasan who will over inflate the asking price, whereas the average farang will do anything rather than deal with the mama! I even remember Toyboys in Pattaya once had a written menu with different prices in Chinese and English that they would produce when it came to negotiations

My only experience using an app was the recent trip to Bangkok. I found Grinder to be useful for hook-ups. When I think of apps, I cannot imagine they are really good for serious dating or relationships. From my perspective, they are more about casual hook-ups. I had great success with online dating sites 15-20 years ago. That is how I met my ex and we were together for 10 years, but I have not checked out an online dating site recently to know how they compare or how successful you can be these days. As has been discussed in other posts here regarding communication, back to basics and face to face conversation is much better than talking via apps, text, etc.

Maybe he'll make it a Two-fer ? We'll get the health plan AND the Epstein files.......

Coming with a suitcase, on the way to/from the airport: is there any way/place 2 safeguard it while I wander the corridors?

@macdaddihas given good advice here.With your limited time the above should allow you to have some good encounters and if you treat the guys well and establish a good rapport with them, they usually have "mates" in the same line of work, and with photos of them on their phones. Let us know how you get on.

I just saw Wicked for Good. I hope no one throws water on the Incompetent-in-Chief before he releases this Plan (that the GOP has been promising for 15+ years).