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After leaving Dreamboy, we went to Dragon for a drink. Waiters inside all shirtless and there was some dancing on the bar top. Forum member wanted to experience the bar so I just followed along. I also didn't mind bringing "Music" along. Still too early to go back. Also still too full from dinner at G's 3 hours ago to eat supper at Foodland now. (I always eat supper with the guys I off. Unless they prefer not to) Because "Music" was with me, the Dragon waiters didn't approach me. Dragon is a host bar so customers who go in are typically befriended by a host for chatting in return for drink and tips. The Myanmar waiters are friendly and speak good English. The TV screen is showing Olympic Games diving competition - divers in speedos - what a conversation starter! "Music" and I step out of bar for a while to smoke and chat. We talk about how my guy is doing in Vietnam. Almost Viet guy in the Patpong bars knows about him staying in Vietnam for half a year to build his house. We stay at Dragon until 11.30pm then we went to Foodland for supper. After that, I said goodbye to forum member and "Music" and I went to airbnb condo to make music for the rest of the night!

As always, I love your writing @numazu. I do notice you only write about your adventures in Latin countries. Did I miss the reports on your adventures in SE Asia?

No, it isn't. Some of the guys like their independence and don't like being beholden to anybody. Moreover, a popular guy could be making 100,000 Baht a month (there are hosts from the big host bars bringing in 300,000 ++ Baht per month; one I know just bought a Mercedes convertible) and there aren't that many sponsors willing to part with that amount as compensation for taking him permanently out of the bar.

Things Trump has/will have left in ruins: The trust of our allies Our public institutions Environmental protections American Christianity Scientific progress Our national pride Our public discourse Our common values Our ethical code Our moral code

This is trite. Clearly I was thinking out loud and expressing my views on the matter and have no control over the actions or folly of others. All acceptable reasons in my opinion and nothing new. But "sorry, I can't go with you tonight because my sugar daddy forbade me to" takes it to another level of absurdity. 🙄

I told "Music" to get changed. I will off him tonight. He goes off to get changed. I tell mamasan I want to pay. Total bill was 950 for my drink, boy drink and off fee. I give mamasan a 1000-baht note and he returns with 50 baht in folder. I think whether to pass mamasan the 50 baht but I am mindful that some mamasans will feel insulted if they are tipped less than 100 baht. So I just leave the 50 baht in folder and I close it and return to mamasan. I notice two guys on stage. One has a giant lion head tattoo on his back. Fabulous body and abs. Another guy has athletic body and he looks like a footballer. I also spot a Thai guy who is a favourite of a forum member. I remember him well because we ate supper at Foodland together and I found his English to be superb and he also has sexy body! At 10:30pm, the Dreamboys show start with 4 coyote dancers dancing. 2 of are fabulous dancers while the other 2 need more practice. "Music" comes back to me in his tradement black figure-hugging T-shirt and typical bar guy accessory sling bag. After the coyote dancing, it was time to leave.

John Fetterman..... has become a liability to Dems in the same way Joe Manchin was. Fetterman needs to go. He consistently votes against Dems on every policy supporting the GOP, often meaning harmful policies get passed on HIS vote.....and in a time when our very Democracy is teetering and at stake. He has always been a disrespectful rebel, but put of his job is supporting his PARTY and constituents, a fact Fetterman dismisses....or just doesnt care about. Perhaps he has lingering cognitive issues from his stroke ? There is NO justification for taking to the congressional floor in a hoodie, gym shorts and sneakers. In any event, he is dangerous and harmful to advancements the Dems are trying to make. Since his vote usually go to the Repugs, let him just switch parties. Being a team player is part of the game. And show some RESPECT. Fetterman needs to learn that or be voted OUT !

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I met my Pattaya friend when he was working at Eros - the infamous sleazy bar in Sunee Plaza. At first, I would go to the bar and pay the off fee. Then I would spend a couple of hours there playing with the guys. My friend could sit with customers during this time and earn drink money and tips, but of course, he couldn't be offed. Customers often wanked the guys and obviously, that also wasn't permitted. He told me he didn't really like working in the bar, so I decided I would just off him early in the evening. He would then get changed and stay in the bar to enjoy time with his friends while I had my fun. This then changed to him coming to my hotel in the early afternoon and spending the rest of the day and evening with me. I would then go to Eros after dinner and he could come with me or go back to his room to play on his ipad for the time I was in the bar. He's never stayed over night with me -I prefer to sleep alone -so he'd go back home after sex. It's difficult to have a real Thai boyfriend, given the age difference and cultural differences. Our different lifestyles complicate things, too. So I just want to enjoy the boyfriend experience fantasy and spend time with a friendly companion while I'm in Thailand. My 2 regulars are the nicest guys you could ever meet. But love is not part of the equation. Maybe 'love' is.

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A "slug" has more accomplishments than Trump, but that doesnt stop him from BELIEVING "he rules the World" now !

"Music" and I spend time catching up. He is more tanned as he had gone back to Vietnam for Tet for one month. He points to his stomach and says he drank every day during Tet. "Karaoke?" he asks me. Not tonight but I promise him I will take him to karaoke another night. Three Chinese customers suddenly occupy the private sofa booth directly above our seats. Two mamasans brought bottle of whisky and got two Vietnamese guys to sit with them. I know one of them as he is my guy's good friend. I smiled at him and he said hi and fist bumped me.

My fingers are so tightly crossed, they've become welded together. 😬

When you factor in life accomplishments, it is not comparing apples to apples. I was speaking of physical appearance only. You added in an extra element of distinquishment, and of course that detail makes your comment CORRECT.... But if BTS grew their hair long, I would not be able to tell them from Blackpink or LE SSERAFIM. 😏

yeas but only some of them are or memorable taste

next time we are there at the same time I may point you to a guys who may confirm your suspicion.

About 30 guys at Dreamboy. Many customers. It was a busy Friday night. Forum member and I were led to a second row seat. I spotted "Music" - the guy I had offed during my 2nd weekend trip. I waved to him to come down the stage and sit with me. He was surprised that I was there. He asked me why I didn't text him in advance. I just smiled and bought him a drink. "Music" and I looked at the guys on stage and he gave me information on them. There are currently 8 Vietnam guys working at Dreamboys, with 3 who recently transferred from Freshboys. Years ago, at one stage, 1/3 of guys at Freshboys were Vietnamese. Now, there's only 4 Vietnam guys working at Freshboys. The majority are Myanmar and Laos guys.

While you are correct, I'd leave for people involved to assess what makes sense for them and what not. They may have their own calculations. As for boys in bars not being able to be offed , while rare those species exist. Some guys go with ladies only, while other are exclusive to guys making hoping girls long-faced. There are those who are only participating in the shows and finally those who are available to all and sundry but at prohibitive price rendering them unconquerable for most of patrons.

A business owner in Silom 4 shocked me when he told me the leases are only one year now in that Soi 😳 I wonder why , are the land owners planning to develop it ?

Isn't it ultimate goal of all of them ?

No a bad idea to offer. Number sounds impressive enough to be agreed to. And it's not paltry at all, can cover close to 2 month rent for 3 days effort.

At 9 plus, we left G's. One forum member and I decided to check out new bar Big Boy on Patpong. 4 guys available for off despite the guy downstairs saying "10 boys tonight!" Spacious set up. 3 of the guys were muscle guys. Not as big as those in Tawan. The 4th guy was a twink but had toned muscles and younger than the others. We had a drink for a while. We didn't stay for the show. We went to Dreamboy next.

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