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No idea but sounds hot. Worth asking them. Let us know if you find out. 😋

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So you didn’t travel to Pakistan ?

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I just returned from a week in Ghana. It was fabulous. My first time in West-Africa, I visited Accra, Cape Coast and Elmina. Accra is a lively and busy city full of markets. The action at night seems to take place in Oxford Street in Osu, one of the well-known neighbourhoods. Great cocktails are to be found in Republic Bar (and many others). Local DJ's sweep up te crowd. There is lots of prostitution, so take care when drunk. It is very easy to meet the locals in the bars and you will find no effort / issue doing what you like. Although men look handsome, I wasn't in the mood. In Cape Coast, a five hours drive west from Accra (although less than 150 km), I was greeted by a surprising amount of guys. The rocks behind the famous fort play the role of an exclusive and excluded spot. Men approach you, show their (huge) penises, ask for you number, ... At night, I had dinner in a local restaurant and got hooked up by the waiter. He invited me to stay with him, what I refused. Bare in mind that an average European earns 40 times more than his Ghanaian counterpart. After dinner, I went for a walk in the old town (small) and a guy approached me for sex. I was shocked by the bluntness: 'I really want to fuck you very hard now.' Again, I politely refused. All men who approached me seemed good-looking (beautiful teeth for instance), fit (fitness culture), well-spoken (English mother tongue) and friendly. I stayed at a cool resort at the coast near Elmina. The staff seems very attentive. Many of the guests seemed to have hooked up with members of staff.

This name is catching on.... just remember aunty, it was @mauRICE that started it 🤷‍♂️

We know you'll follow this advice, for sure 😁

That's counterfactual historical analysis, which in my opinion is pointless. And yes: Of course, the Europeans, and incidentally also the Americans from 1898 onwards, committed injustices in the colonized countries and are responsible for many problems (through border demarcations that didn't take local conditions into account, monocultures, etc.), but not everything these countries decide today is a direct consequence of that.

Well, actually I've already booked round trip BKK tickets for December so that's still this year. In 10 days the sale for Tomorrowland Thailand opens. If I'll succeed on buying a day pass for the 12 or 13 of December then I have full intention to attend the event and enjoy BKK during this mass festival that will attract tons of locals and travelers.

Please note that Ssense is an SS place, whereas Jey Spa is an H place. Both of them are very good but adjust your expectations according to the type of shop!

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He could but there'd be no boys left for the customers. 😆

Perhaps Aunty Vin could apply for a job as mamasan

If I understand correctly, the White Cat is located on the night market street. I think that's a bad location. Of course, it's a busy street, but with (straight?) tourists who come for the market and street food. The bar's potential target audience also walks down this street. But they're less likely to wander between the stalls and enter the bar than on the adjacent soi, which has several well-known gay bars. I think Atlas's location was much better in that regard. But I assume the rent is lower in the new location? Anyway, I hope the White Cat is open again when I'm in Bangkok in the coming weeks. I'm really curious!

or having somebody at bottom of the stairs, pointing at the bar and trying to lure customers in. In that case because truly narrow entrance , just a door width , it was/ is a must.

that's in the books already for very long time. How is enforced it's another story but from time to time we hear about raids and hunt for foreigners working in bars and massages.

School friends of yours? 🤔😏

Oh sure, Goldfinger or Blofeld are working against it's success while bars all around are able to manage their way through it all!

I think that’s true, and I’m definitely not trying to defend British colonial‑era laws. But I do think their lingering effects have faded quite a bit over the last decade or two.These days, the bigger factor seems to be how religious each country is—especially the influence of conservative Islam and evangelical Christianity. Take Senegal, Mali, and Niger. All three were French colonies, so they didn’t inherit laws criminalising homosexuality at independence. - Senegal later made homosexual acts illegal. Around 97% of the population is Sunni Muslim, and surveys show the same percentage saying homosexuality shouldn’t be accepted. With numbers like that, liberalisation doesn’t look likely anytime soon. - Mali also started out without anti‑gay laws, but according to Wikipedia, homosexuality was made illegal in December 2024. It seems to have been a political move aimed at appealing to the overwhelmingly Muslim population at a time when the government is under pressure from ISIS‑aligned rebels. - Niger likewise inherited no such laws. But again, Wikipedia notes that while same‑sex activity is currently legal, criminalisation is pending. Now compare that with the formerly British colonies of Nigeria, Ghana, and Uganda. - Nigeria did inherit British anti‑gay laws. In the Christian south, the federal criminal code (which would have copied a lot a British laws at inception) punishes sex between men with up to 14 years in prison. In many northern, Islamic states that have recently adopted Sharia‑inspired laws (under pressure from Muslim preachers) the penalty can be death. - Ghana also inherited British laws banning male homosexual activity. But then in February 2024 things got much worse as the legislature—backed by both major political parties—unanimously passed the Human Sexual Rights and Family Values Bill, which would criminalise even identifying as gay, with penalties of up to three years in prison. It’s currently tied up in court. - Uganda inherited British laws too. They went largely unenforced for decades, but from the 1990s onward (according to Wikipedia) there’s been a push to revive and strengthen them. That eventually led to the Anti‑Homosexuality Act, 2023, which includes up to twenty years in prison for “promotion of homosexuality,” life imprisonment for “homosexual acts,” and the death penalty for “aggravated homosexuality.” Uganda is about 75% Christian and 15% Muslim, and evangelical churches in particular have been strongly anti‑gay. Interestingly—and worryingly—surveys show younger generations are more homophobic than older ones, which is the opposite of global trends. Presumably the older generation would have been more affected in their attitude by the inherited British laws, but they are ironically somewhat less homophobic. Therefore I think that harking back to British colonial laws banning homosexuality (unfortunate though they were) is increasingly irrelevant when talking about the legal status of gay people in Africa. Now you could argue that it was under the British that Christian missionaries got a foothold in certain countries, leading to the situation today where a more evangelical Christianity is spreading. But if it had not been for the Christian missionaries, I think it likely that Ghana, Nigeria and probably Uganda would be almost entirely Muslim now. This would have led to worse outcomes gay people today in those countries - after all, I would prefer to live in the Christian-dominated south of Nigeria subject to the draconian Federal Criminal code, rather than Sharia-ruled north, facing the death penalty.

so it looks I was part of problem and reason I did not really liked it. Lesson learned , next time I will try to spend 1-2 nights there to see it's full glory

HE is understood differently by people on this forum, for some (most I guess) it refers to HJ only, whereas for others they seem to understand it as all extras including penetration. Needless to say that has caused some confusion here in the past… I’m not surprised that Singha was fully booked for 6 days straight. He is their #1 masseur. Knott used to occupy that place but he hasn’t climbed in the ratings since he returned a short while ago. You will notice that most of the guys in their top 4-5 are quite hunky, reflecting no doubt the demands of their Asian clientele. Last time I was there some clients were posing with Singha so they could publish the pics on XiaoHongShu (Rednote) later. Ssense remains a good option in this market segment with their quality control and competitive pricing.

I'll be in Phuket next month and was wondering if there are any good massage shops there? H type preferred. I cant seem to find anything current. Thank you in advance!

what about this year ? it's only February

I know what Happy ending is, but I thought that you were talking about the route to get to that place. I actually thought it was a typo for HJ and that is why I drew your attention to it. Happy to be corrected.

Day 3 Writing this after the first night back home. Only now after a good nights sleep I realize how tired I was returning from that trip. V and I woke up together around 9 AM, this time making it to breakfast. As my entire experience with this hotel, breakfast was absolutely fine - But, it used to be WAY better. At breakfast V had a serious talk with me about his drug problem. I was surprised of his awarness and efforts to change his lifestyle. To my understanding it is his husband who is very aware and helping him to deal with it. He told me the reason he sometimes disconnects from the world (including me) for several months is that he thinks the gay lifestyle, social media and Bangkok is too much of a temptation that can easily regress his progress. That was a refreshing and honest talk I am not used to having with him. After breakfast we go to the gym together. I love watching V workout, he is so determined as if his life depends on it. My flight to CNX was at 2PM and his flight back home was at 6PM. After workout we play a little together, have a shower, pack, and say our goodbyes. I promise him I'll come again next year. Hope that is true. At 12PM I check out and book a taxi to DMK. One might wonder, why go to CNX for one night? Especially in a trip that is a short one. Well, I have a good friend that left the country and now she and her husband and kids live in Pai. She's an old friend - we studied our masters together and became good friends. Her leaving the country made me sad. She asked me to come visit her in Pai which I said hell no because that's too much of a hassle. She could not come to BKK since her parents were exactly visiting her on my trip dates. Then I suggested we meet in Chiang Mai. I knew that CNX can be fun so I had my share of hidden interest. She talked to her husband and parents and they decided to make it a family trip. I wanted to minimize my stay in CNX So flight was booked for the afternoon and return was booked for the morning. That way I have one night with my friend but minimize the time away from BKK. Flight DMK to CNX went easy and I checked in to Club One Seven at about 4PM knowing I will meet my friend at 8PM. For those unfamiliar with it - Club One Seven is a gay sauna which also is some sort of hotel. At approximately 2 minutes past 4 PM I'm already in that place's sauna, nude, getting a blowjob. Guys there were in all of shapes and sizes and variety was good including my own preference. Facilities include pool, Jacuzzi, wet and dry sauna, a dark area and cabins. Really all you can ask for. At about 19:30 I left the sauna happy and satisfied. I read some mixed reviews regarding the sauna so YMMV. As for the hotel, I took a private room which was kind of shitty with a too stiff mattress, a shitty room layout and I also think SQM was smaller than the 23 SQM that was promised. But I didn't care that much, just one night to crash there. In retro spect I should have booked elsewhere and just come to spend the evening there. Evening came and I went out with my friend and her husband. We had a great night out at the market, night bazar and 6ixcret Bar. The drag cabaret show at that bar is a very impressive one. At 1AM we called it a night and I went to sleep at my stiff mattress. Grindr Also was active and tempting especially one guy in perticular but at the end of that evening I was tired and decided it's time to go to sleep. That was not an easy decision to make and I was proud of myself LOL. I went to sleep thinking about the AI muscle figure who Iv'e been texting to and wants to meet me tomorrow in BKK. When I was in CNX he sent me his IG profile and that's when I realized this is not a scam and that guy actually exists and I might meet him the day after.