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I had a few remaining Costco cashews that I sauteed in sesame oil and then added to a Chinese stir fry. Tasted good. That said, may I ask which are the better Chinese restaurants in PS?

This particular Asian customer will be happy to visit next month!

@daydreamer and @Enchanted_Elixir have given good advice. Thanks for confirming that the main question is: How do I get paid sex in Thailand with the type of boy I like in my hotel room without any massage activity? Your best option is to book an outcall from a Type 4 massage parlour. Type 4 is what @Enchanted_Elixir refers to as H. This is the type of shop that is primarily in the sex business, with "massage" used as figleaf. In Bangkok, they would be the ones that send out lots of boy photos (sometimes with stats) and whose menu includes an outcall option. The Type 2 shops -- they're mainly about quality massage with body-to-body or hand relief thrown in to keep customers satisfied -- may also send out photos, so it can get confusing, but if they have a complicated menu with various kinds of massage, then you can see that their primary focus is really massage. The Type 4 knocking shops also tend to have the twinkier types you may like, but unlike Japan, you won't find many choices in the barely-legal category -- if that is your preference. The reason is simply because the Japanese market has a large customer segment that is interested in this type of boy, but not the Thai market. 15M and 27M have Willy, August and Tommy. Perhaps they're close enough to your range? Fafa may have more of your type, including twins Jack and Jew who are apparently available as a pair (not that I have tried). A difficulty may arise from a request for a deposit if you're booking an outcall. I've never been able to accede to this; I have no advice to give. If a shop does not publish stats alongside photos, you can message them to ask. However, in my experience, they're not 100% accurate. The apps might work, but as anywhere be alert to the possibility that the photos are dated or fake, and other inaccuracies (e.g. over compensation). The gogo bars would be your poorest option. If your type preference is narrow, you may not find the type you like in the bars. Still newish, you may continue to feel that you don't have enough control of the situation, money-wise.

There’s a difference between massage places that locals classify as S or SS (soft and super soft), and H (Hard). Only the last type of place will penetration be on the table. In S/SS shops the emphasis is on the massage and extras are an added bonus. The massage shop fee is usually higher. Skipping massage in such places doesn’t make a lot of sense. They won’t do outcalls either. If you are not aware of this distinction between shops you’re bound to make mistakes. You can’t ask Prestige massage for the cost of extras or outcall service for example 😂 You don’t really go to the H places for massage anyway, and many aren’t trained, so the usual practice is a bit of rubbing for 15 minutes before main course begins. H places are The Prince, Senso and Jey Spa Or most of the Saphan Khwai shops My recommendation: visit the gay onsens during weekends, you can have a lot of fun and make local friends. Vibes are good. Kaikan Onsen, Ryuu Onsen, Ensen Onsen

Yes @NoNameFanBoy, you certainly can skip the massage if you want to. That's what I do. I have offed massage boys a number of times using a massage shop's outcall service. Look for the massage shops that offer outcalls in their fee menus. It easy to communicate with the shop using the Line app on your phone. Add the shops you are interested in as Line friends, and they will send you daily posts, showing photos of the boys available for that day. You select the boy you want from the Line photos of the boys available. In addition to the Line photos, some shops will send a Google Drive link or a website address with the photos of the boys. Many of the boys appear in the photos of several different massage shops, as many are freelancers, not working exclusively for one shop. The shop will tell you how much the shop fee is, and the amount for the boy's tip when you make the booking. I think the last time I booked an outcall, it was 700 baht for the shop (massage fee), and 2,500 baht for the boy's tip. Often the shop will send the boy to your hotel using a Grab bike. When the boy arrives, I let him know I don't want a massage. I've never had any massage boy act surprised when I told them I wanted to skip the massage. They will generally stay in your room for a couple hours. I prefer the comfort and privacy of my room, rather than a massage shop room. In the massage shop ads on Line, you can see a menu of fees. For an outcall, the fee is generally about 1,000 baht more than an in shop massage. Well worth the price to me, as I don't have to visit the shop. Some shops will allow you to pay the fees to the boy, and some will want a bank transfer in order to make a booking. Just ask on Line, and they'll tell you how you can pay. Look for the shops that show the massage boy body stats. Those shops usually offer full service (sex), and often they state if the boy is gay or straight in their photos. I suspect the shop managers know a customer booking an outcall will often skip the massage, as I've never been asked when making a booking what type of massage I want, the type of massage oil, or how long for the massage to last, ie 1 hour, 1.5 hour, etc. The cost quoted for a hotel outcall will include round trip transportation for the boy. It is actually no more expensive for a massage shop outcall than offing a boy from a Patpong bar for short time, and sometimes less expensive. No drinks, no off fee, and no mamasans.

they are very easy to avoid, just stay away from any massage places

Just to support the OP, I also loathe massages (yes, there are people who DON'T like them).

you got that right !

@NoNameFanBoy re Good Boy bar, if it's any consolation, you're not the first to have your wallet exploited on your first visit (to any gogo bar, not just this one), and you won't be the last. By the way, we call these snake pits 'gogo bars' even though the boys don't do any gogo dancing, but the 'one-knee shuffle' as @Gaybutton describes it. @Kiwi306 is right. You're not obliged to buy anyone drinks. The trick is to keep an unfriendly expression on your face and only smile at a boy (never smile at mamasans) when you want to invite him to sit with you. If approached by waiters or mamasans about inviting boys over, just say, "I know what to do. If I want a boy, I will let you know." Bear in mind though, boys do not sit with you for free. If you do invite one to sit with you for 10-20 minutes, you're expected to buy him a drink, and then tip him 100 baht at the end of the 10-20 minutes. If the mamasan or waiter smells 'newbie', he or she will try to get you to buy him/her a drink too when he or she brings your desired boy to you. Don't ever do that. Say "it's ok. I will just buy a drink for him (your desired boy)." If you buy for the mamasan, he or she will stick with you, offer to translate, but in the course of the translation, also say to the boy in Thai (so you don't know what's said) how much the boy should quote - with an extra 500 - 1000 baht built in as commission for the mamasan. Wherever possible, do not use waiters or mamasans to invite a desired boy over. Smile directly at the boy you want and indicate with a wave of your hand that you want him to come to your seat. There are many members of this forum familiar with Good Boy, and they are usually happy enough visiting the bar; it's not as if all customers are eaten alive the way you were. Only newbies. Personally, I see little value in Good Boy but that is because their selection of numbertag boys are just not attractive to my eyes. Tastes differ.

top wealth will do for sure

yes, I found one quite attractive even if I'm not into twinks and another one less so but obviously ASIAN customer there had reverse opinion

yes , they are

you are my best friend and long-lost twin brother

There really are twinks in new bar? 😜

thank for that warning but without a bit of sarcasm I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. I'm not privy to British colonial and imperial traditions and see no wrong in calling somebody from Orient indeed Oriental. If that's offensive it's news for me but I'm not surprised since those days everything seems to be offensive, when we talk and when we stay silent

yes

And then there are (a) buskers/ beggars on the carriages, (b) mentally ill people shouting into the air... Haha. It's a unique experience. Once, I even heard gunshots, but thankfully it wasn't from inside the carriage but from the street below (the track ran overground at that point).

no , other way around minus dark glasses. I may be rude beyond measure but wouldn't entertain thought of talking to somebody wearing dark glasses.

I can't quite check it out on my phone, but is it a physical map that, on purchase, is delivered to one's postal box, or does it have a digital version accessed on one's phone?

thank you forrestreid

Because he's Spielberg, he can't be scammed? Bernie Madoff got a lot of people, no?

Did you not write that? Of course you did. I wrote that in reponse to your coment about suspecting the wife may be a scamster. Taking the two comments together, you are definitely implying that Spielberg donated to a scamster!

Some random photos. Absolutely gorgeous here.

The Tokyo asubway nd JR sttions are all in Engish and make getting around very easy. Actual addreses are more complicated.and I always recommend purchasing a biilingual guide like this one.

You're absolutely right. Senso is one of the few massage places in Bangkok that charge an all-inclusive price, so it's a good barometer for comparison. Senso charges 3,100 baht for 60 minutes and 3,500 for 90 (in-house room). That's equivalent to 15,000 yen and 17,000 yen respectively, very similar to market rates in Japan.