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Er, it was a joke... I think we all know what an aperitif is!

He was busy at the time.

Well, at least they had been born!

"Chasing rainbows and leprechauns". No chance.

Just got back to Sydney after the most insane 48 hour layover in Bangkok en route to Dubai. Originally only planned as a quick overnight to break the long flight from SYD, but after reading a couple of recent reports here about the growing number of African students and workers in BKK… let’s just say I re-booked the Dubai leg for two days later before I even landed. Flight & Arrival Landed in BKK around 16:40. The second I switched off airplane mode, Grindr exploded, 50+ taps in the first five minutes, I hadn’t even cleared immigration yet and already had messages blowing up my phone. Took the Airport Rail Link to Phaya Thai then MRT + short Grab ride to the hotel. Hotel Ibis Styles Bangkok Silom, booked a premium king room with balcony. The balcony was gold, high enough for privacy but still great for a post session cigarette while hearing the Silom chaos below. Night 1 – Wednesday Dropped the bags, quick shower, opened Grindr. Looked for any Black/African and it was a sea of Nigerian, Ghanaian and Cameroonian flags. Most were students or guys working for a few days in the LOS. Hit it off with a 26 year old Ghanaian, tall, rugby build, pics showed a seriously thick bulge. He asked 3000 short time straight up....no bullshit!! I said come now, 25 minutes later he’s at the door in a tight white tank showing every ripple. Shower show first, the ibis rooms have those big rain showers with glass walls, perfect for watching. Soaped each other up, deep kissing under the water, his tongue halfway down my throat while I tried to wrap both hands around that monster. Easily 22-23 cm and thicker than a Red Bull can, uncut, heavy foreskin, perfect curve upward. I spent a good 15 minutes on my knees just worshipping it. Back to the bed, oil massage play (he brought his own bottle), then he ate my arse for a good 5 minutes and slid in. Took a solid five minutes of slow pushing before I could take it all. Once he was in he went full jackhammer, loud moaning began with slapping sounds echoing off the walls (so sorry to the lovely older couple next door). Bred me deep twice, massive loads. Tipped him an extra 500 because I literally saw stars. Grabbed some food from the street stall on Silom Soi 4, then one quick beer before bed. Passed out happy. Day 2 – Thursday Did a bit of shopping during the day and had a nice swim in the afternoon. Opened Grindr at 7pm and the grid was on fire again. Decided today would be a double header. Guy #2 – a 24 year old Nigerian, nice body,face 10/10. Same deal, 3000 ST. Spent almost two hours: long 69 session (he was an amazing cocksucker), then he carried me to the balcony (yes I asked him to, I'm paying good money here guys!!!!) bent me over the railing and pounded me while the traffic roared below. Shot so hard I felt it hit deep. Stayed another 30 minutes cuddling and kissing, total sweetheart. Quick nap, dinner, then guy #3 just after midnight. Nice student from Cameroon, 29, gym-rat, veiny arms, low hanging balls. He was the most verbal, kept calling me “baby” and “good boy” while he choked me lightly on his beautiful fat uncut cock. Oiled me up again, slow sensual fuck first, then flipped me on my stomach and went full animal. Loudest moaner of the three, I’m shocked no one complained. Left another huge creamy load inside and kissed my forehead on the way out. Practical Tips • ibis Styles Silom = 100% joiner-friendly, no drama even with three different guys in 48 hrs. • Grab taxis everywhere, never paid more than 120 THB in the Silom/Sathorn area. • Grindr grid for African guys is absolutely stacked, turn on your phone at the airport and you’ll see what I mean. • 3000 THB short time seems to be the going rate right now for the top-tier African pros, worth every baht. Verdict Best quick stopover of my life. Three absolute stallions, zero attitude and hotel was perfect. I'm already looking at flights for a full week in May dedicated solely to the African boys in Bangkok. Thanks Bangkok… see you very soon

Bangkok Post - Immigration police target visitors making multiple visa runs https://share.google/bngmUTZYumHsfRh8E Just a general update. No new specifics other than visitors who have stayed a total of 45 days or more recently would be subjected to greater scrutiny.

Its my first visit to S E Asia, so perhaps I should not really judge, but having been to Colombia 7-8 times in the past 6 years I totally get what you say about the 'sexo morbo' there. And being able to converse a little in basic Spanish does make a difference Mind you, one or two guys I have met here have come close, but these were contacted via Grindr, not at the bars or massage shops.

I believe a user in the other Colombia forum posted that he used their services just a few days ago. I reached out to them last year and yes, they had additional via whatsapp. They're latest ad is on mileroticos.

Thanks for sharing. Please let us know how the rest of your trip goes!

If anybody has inside information about which guys might bottom (and I like kissing too...), I'm happy to hear names and which massage places they work. Via private message is also fine to keep it a bit more discrete... There are off course some massage shops that advertise with this information about the boys, but most of the shops are too discrete about it. See for example response I received when I, in my opinion, very politely and discreet asked about preferences of boys.

Jey Spa and Glam are not under the same ownership. I always thought they were because so many of the guys work at both. I was asking if my new Glam crush, Oak, also worked at Jey Spa and they told me that the two shops are not connected..

I met my current bf of 8 years on Grindr, open relationship. He hesitated about open relationship, then I reminded him where we met and expecting almost ANY man gay/straight to be monogamous is like searching for a pot of gold, lol

The issue was privacy of sharing phone number, but yes, WhatsApp is imperative in Colombia and almost all of Latin America. Most contacts — from pharmacy to Scorts — takes place on WhatsApp. fwiw

Thanks @Chucky agreed. @Canadianbtmguy if you prefer, send me a DM and. I can connect you with some alternative options. You didn’t note your working level of Spanish. Do know that is a real differentiator in Medellín. Despite a growing foreign tourism boom, they are just catching up with demand for English language services. If you are comfortable with Spanish, I can make some introductions. Your move.

"What you takin bout, Willis" ????

Has anyone been to Buzios recently? I’m planning to spend a few days there soon. Lodging recommendations as well as suggestions on how get there from RJ will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for sharing your experience with the freelancer. It is interesting to read about such new experiences. You were right about withholding price information. Best not to open that can of worms.

When the apps arrived, I too had more than considerable success. Not here in Bangkok as the bar, sauna and spa scene did not require additional hook-ups. In my Asian travels, though, they were a godsend and I met many guys including a few whom I met regularly for a period of time. Some sites were better than others in certain countries. There was a site named fridae.com which allegedly had half a million members and covered virtually the whole of Asia for several years. Meeting guys in South East Asia was easy. Another, I believe gaydar.com, was great for meeting guys especially in Taipei and Tokyo. Jack'd, Hornet and Grindr gradually become more prominent, and then for those of us in Asia Blue'd was for a time great on my travels outside Thailand. But apart from fridae, I have never paid any membership fees. Then fridae changed hands. It still exists but checking just now, under Personals it claims 1,521 members on line of whom 55 are in Thailand. Click on Thailand and you find just 2 - one aged 63 and the other 75! Try Taiwan. 58 supposedly onlne but only 6 listed and an average age around 50. Don't waste your money on that crap! For at least ten years the site has been at death's door. I still get hits on other sites when out of Thailand and have met a few guys. But as @jimmie50 writes, I first prefer to meet guys face to face now. A sign of ageing no doubt.

Have a peek in Moonlight and perhaps Jupiter as well

horror for everybody involved, don't they wait for rigor mortis ?;

For massages with twunks, have a look at Klover and History of Massages. Ssense and Prestige got a fair number too. All of these are S to SS places, but of course you can get lucky. Glam’s and Jey spa are H places with a fair number of ripped twunks. You can expect masseurs who has invested a fairly substantial amount of aesthetic labour into their bodies to know their market value and ask for tips at a higher range. At these places mentioned you need to book in advance, connect to their Line accounts.

That's because they were still at school.

A somewhat ridiculous title, I know, but it rather nicely praphrases a long article in today's Guardian. We all know that Caravaggio is one of the gay world's favourite painters. We know that he himself was gay, at least for most of the time. We know that Caravaggio painted the model used in the painting Victorious Cupid which arrives at London's Wallace Collection tomorrow in three very different paintings and that he was his lover. We know this because the British traveller Richard Symonds saw the painting in 1649 and was told its subject has “the body & face of [Caravaggio’s] owne boy or servant that laid with him”. The name of this boy was Cecco. It was painted around 1600 for a well-known art collector. We know, too, that in those days it was not uncommon for artists to have sex with their models. It is claimed that Donatello was madly in love with his apprentice which to many seems obvious when they see his statue of David. The art historian Vasari claims that Leonardo da Vinci “took for his assistant the Milanese Salaì, who was most comely in grace and beauty, having fine locks curling in ringlets, in which Leonardo greatly delighted”. We do have to realise, though, that the latest historical studies illustrate that same-sex relationships in much of Italy in Caravaggio's time, depite the prohibition of the Church and the Courts, were far from uncommon. One historian has discovered that over a 70-year period in 15th century Florence, 13,000 men were convicted of sodomy - this in a city with just 40,000 inhabitants! Most were merely fined and continued with their sexual encounters. Across the channel in England, Caravaggio's slightly older contemporary the playright Christpher Marlowe is reported to have said “They that love not Tobacco and Boys are fools.” The painting is being lent to the Wallace Collection from its permanent home in Berlin and it can be viewed until April 12. There is no special entry fee. And what of Cecco? He went on to become a painter using the name Cecco del Caravaggio but of only average talent. One of his works is to be seen in Oxford's Ashmolean Museum. As the Guardian article ends, it writes this - Four hundred years on, we might make more sense of the incredible painting that is coming to the Wallace Collection if we simply use that old word, sin. Caravaggio’s paintings shudder and provoke with sin – the supposedly sinful pleasures of sweet grapes, red wine and sex. https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2025/nov/24/caravaggio-victorious-cupid-model-muse-wallace-collection

Hi all, Sorry for not doing a fulsome search of previous posts… but other than Tawan and Atlas, any thoughts about which boy bars might have very muscular either bodybuilders or twunks (not twinks) - who are really ripped/defined (so not any “off season” bodybuilders). While big hard bodybuilders are typically my favorites, lately I’ve found myself very very attracted to ripped fitness model type twunks. Thanks very much for any advice. Also, if anyone has any good recommendations for fitness model twunks at any massage places, that would be great too (so far, all that I see standing outside of the massage places are more twink types.) Please feel free to message me if you don’t want post.

The Grand Jury was never presented with the final charging document by the rookie prosecutor that the Grand Jury voted on. It's just more incompetence from the Incompetent-in-Chief's administration. Leavitt blaming other people for the Administration's own incompetence - what a man baby we have in the White House. My god will this Administration take responsibility for any of the thousands of their screw ups and self-dealing.