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This is true - when I am at Hotmale, I observe the guys putting their phones in a basket before going to the stage.

The first part is because of the 2nd part......they're like a telemarketing powerhouse, how many others do you suppose they are keeping in touch with saying how much they miss them when are you coming back I love you....etc. I get messages and laugh and say "go back to work" find a customer there now, not someone on the other side of the world!

@jimmie50 In one of your earlier posts, I think you said something about taking it easy since you have seven weeks. Going by your accounts, you seem to have thrown aside all thoughts of a leisurely holiday, and now appear to be challenging @vinapu for a title. 🤣

if the timing is right, yes...

That was a block of ice, not a cube 🍙

Wouldn't you have some indication from seeing which countries those guys on Rentmen are from -- those that interest you? Also, while Rentmen may be reliably based on real humans, if you're seeing muscular East and Southeast Asians elsewhere on the internet, beware that many are AI-generated. The Chinese are particularly good at it. Re costs, I think @floridarob has given good advice, heed him.

This is good news, though I was anyway half-expecting they would re-open. They had a lease, and I didn't think it would be easy to just give up and get out of the lease. I would be nervous however if they still stuck to the same old business model which your report seems to describe. And now that the name of the bar has changed, we should open a new thread with the right name.

No ..does it feel good ?. I have used the hot massage oil up my ass and it feels good

I like how all these guys coincidentally have names that start with the letter F.

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I did know that ice is used with reference to meth, but I was referring to the guy that is going by Ice. I find some of these Thai nickname choices odd from an English language point of view. I would of course not use Ice as a nickname. Sessions and fire I am not familiar with, but that is probably a point to my credit. I will say that 5 minutes with a meth head is 5 minutes too many. That drug just changes people. And even when they stop using, that meth quality often does not seem to leave them.

Early Sunday morning🌞🌞

Texting and emails are two of the worst ways to communicate, so if you like someone, as mentioned above, it could be worth politely circling back, and trying again. That he already bothered to question your hours and that you are one of those WEHO guys, one might wonder. But yeah, if you think he is ghosting you, one might check in with him after an appropriate time, to confirm.

I mentioned in an ealrier post that I have done three cruises, thanks to a good friend being invited as a lecturer and his wife being unable to join him. On the longest 17-day one around the Caribbean and then up the Amazon to Manaus, my friend decided he'd like to be seated with some other "entertainers" (all non passengers and crew were lumped under this category) for dinners rather than guests. We were a bit late getting to the dining room and found we were at a table of five: a couple from New York and one lecturer whose subject was Princess Diana and the Royal Family! (The Princess had died years before). The lecturer, a lady, was around 80. She was fun to be with but a compete con merchant! When I explained that i was based in Bangkok, she waxed lyrical about the time earlier in her life when she had been invited to be a guest of the Sultan of Fookay and had a marvellous time in his Palace. She clearly meant Phuket which never had a sultan. Most of her lectures were clearly taken from a book she'd read.

@Travelingguy I don't know whether you know this or not but "session" and "ice" are part of the chemsex vocabulary hence my mock shocked reaction above.

Well, this certainly took an interesting and expected direction. lol. Think I will just contact the shop directly and ask them about the schedule for masseur I am interested in seeing.

continued…Installment 12: Woke up to a text message from Banana boy wanting to know when I was coming to see him again. Got to give him ‘A’ for effort. Really difficult to know the difference between fact and fiction with these guys. All of the guys that I have met say the same thing to me…not many customers, business is slow, make no money. If the information Paradise guy has provided is accurate (and I have no reason to doubt him), for a 60 minute massage the shop pays him THB 155. On average, he may give one massage a day because so many guys in the queue and so few customers. He also gets tips, but he said it all depends upon the nationality of person getting the massage. The guys actually do not like to get customers from certain Asian countries as they are notoriously bad about tipping…either very little or not at all. They much prefer western customers. I am sure we are all shocked by that statement. lol. So, going back to my fact/fiction statement, Banana boy said he doesn’t make any money as a number boy at the club, but only a portion of drink money if customer invites him or tip if he is invited off. Cam said basically the same thing about Hotmale. Both guys ‘claim’ they rarely get taken off by customers. Their definition of rarely and mine are probably two vastly different things. Chaichana guy also said something similar to Paradise guy. He said the only time the shop really gets busy is late evening until closing. During the day they often only have two male therapists scheduled to work. When the night market crew is setting up, they don’t get any customers. They have 8 male staff and 3 female staff that work mostly evenings. Decided to chill out by the pool this afternoon before heading over to Silom. Went for a manicure and pedicure, then grabbed a snack to hold me over until a late dinner with Cam. And of course, who sends me a text asking me what I am doing but Paradise guy. I swear he has this sixth sense and just knows when I am up to mischief. I actually met Cam outside Hotmale, gave him the off fee to take inside, then we headed over to Sarica for a late dinner. I couldn’t see paying THB 400 for a drink when we had no intentions of sitting in the club at all. Sarica was a good choice. I am certainly not the connoisseur compared to other illustrious forum members, but did enjoy the cashew chicken immensely. We opted to sit inside as it was a little more quiet and not as busy. Outdoor dining was pretty full, plus you have all of the additional street sounds. After dinner, we walked back over to Good Boy to catch the 10pm show. This was my first time to visit Good Boy. First impression…I was surprised how small the place actually was compared to other clubs I have visited. Number boys were on stage doing their rotation. They had a total of 25 guys, with 8 on stage at one time until the very end of that segment. They somehow managed to cram all 25 boys on that tiny stage for the finale then parade down the aisle. Guys wore white briefs. It was interesting to observe the guys. When not on stage for their rotation, all of them were sitting around with their noses buried in their phones. No interaction with any of the customers. No eye contact or smiles. They all acted bored and very disinterested. There was one caucasian customer when we arrived. He had one of the number guys sitting with him, as was one of the mamasan’s. I couldn’t quite decide if there were three mamasans, or two and a doorman. In any event, other than taking our drink orders we were pretty much left alone. Show was to begin at 10pm, but in reality started around 10:15pm. One Asian male and two females joined the customer list. About halfway through the first show another caucasian guy came in, so a total of 7 customers during that first show. I wasn’t terribly impressed with the show overall. The female entertainers were much better at Banana Bar. There was one in particular who was just painful to watch. Cam laughed when I said that. Total of 9 entertainers interspersed with sexy boy acts and some cock. Cam confirmed for me that the guys in sexy boy act use double XXL condoms to look bigger and, in fact, do blow them up. I used the phrase ‘false advertising’, and he thought that was hilarious. We both got a good chuckle out of that comment. I have to say the overall vibe for me was disappointing. Some of the guys were cute and I could definitely see myself inviting one or two for a drink or even off premises, but they all seemed to lack any motivation to engage with what few customers were in the club. Just a real turn off for me. Cam said that management at Hotmale forbids the guys from having their phones with them on the floor. Seems like a good policy, and one that Good Boy should perhaps consider. Several times during the evening I would get a text from Banana boy wanting to know if I was going to come and see him tonight. Finally told him I was at Good Boy and occupied for the evening…perhaps later in the week. lol. Cam spent the night, which was the plan all along. I am taking quite a liking to him. He is so attentive, very touchy/feely, and has such a sweet disposition. Of course, it doesn’t hurt that he is great in bed as well. Perfect way to end the day with him beside me in bed.

If I like somebody ( not talking about looks) I'd offer feedback of what concerns me in persons behavior. If I don't ghosting is the best and fastest way of cutting loses.

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Thanks for sharing! Hanging out with various forum members is always a fun time!

Just that time you slid it in there.

In December, my husband connected with a handsome young senior financial executive with the cruise company, "Frank," while we were on a cruise in Antarctica. We socialized a bit together while on the cruise, and mentioned that we were going to go on a cruise with a sister cruise company (within his company's umbrella) in February. My husband said that we'd keep in touch and try to meet in Miami before our next cruise left (he lives/works in Miami, and the cruise was leaving from Miami). A week or so before we were going to leave, I asked him if he'd arranged a meeting for Frank and us, and he said that he ghosted him. Apparently, they were texting each other, and Frank texted "I know about West Hollywood gays, LIKE YOU," and also asked "So what are YOU doing up at this hour?" (it was 3:30 AM on a Monday, and he was up for whatever reason; I can only assume Frank was getting ready to go to work?). So that was the last text. In the meantime, I met an interesting internet personality at a Christmas party, whom I'll call "Fred." Neither of us finds him at all attractive, but I find his life story interesting, so I asked if I could invite him over for some drinks in January. We had drinks at our place, and got to know him better. Since I was so interested in his story, I did pepper him with questions. I felt I got to know him better, and I asked my husband if we could have Fred over for dinner sometime after our February cruise. He said he didn't want him over for dinner, but a wine & cheese before dinner would be OK. I asked my husband why he didn't seem thrilled at meeting Fred, and he complained that Fred hadn't asked any questions about us, and only talked about himself, but he was willing to give him another chance. I told him I felt partially responsible because I asked him so many questions. I also asked him why he didn't apply these same standards to one of his closest friends, "Frodo," who always turns all conversations on himself. Unlike Fred, Frodo is usually considered very handsome, gets essentially anyone he wants, and is always bouncing from one man to the next. He responded that he was OK with Frodo behaving like that because they've been friends for many years. So the day for the wine and cheese came, and, hours before the meeting, my husband announced he wasn't "feeling well," and so Fred and I had a wine and cheese while my husband stayed in bed in our bedroom. Fred came over at the conclusion of the hour and told my husband he hoped he felt better soon. I suppose this was a way of "ghosting" Fred. This blocks my ability of getting to know Fred better, because my contacts will be limited to inviting him to one of our summer parties, and maybe going with me to the rare shows I want to go to but my husband doesn't (obviously we go to 90% of shows together, but there are some he can't stomach, such as the Neil Diamond musical, so I find someone else). There are usually other people to whom I'm closer that I'd usually invite, but these would be my only opportunity to maintain contact with Fred. I guess I can't recall I've ever "ghosted" someone before. If things weren't going right, I think I'd try to communicate my needs, and give that person a chance to adjust his behavior. In the case of Frank, I suppose one could argue he was being rude, although I suspect Frank may be on the autism spectrum, and may just need guidance (Frank was on the cruise with a cousin, not a friend or romantic partner). So if you think you're having communication issues, would you generally offer feedback, or just ghost someone?

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more salty, after all that sweating.... 🍆