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Progressive lens can have far sight, near sight and an in between for reading a computer screen without traditional bi or tri focal lines on the lenses. In today’s world, the lens for seeing screens is quite useful.

True. I've heard many straight guys complain that Guido's pussy smells like German sausage. 😏

Doesn't make sense. Why continue working in a go go bar where customers have a reasonable expectation to "off" the guys working there for sex. I can understand the need or desire to continue working even with a sponsor - and it's in fact admirable - but why can't they work some place not related to the sex industry? Personally, I find it very suss and wonder how many of these guys keep their promises to their sugar daddies. And I also find it very silly (naive?) of their sugar daddies to agree to let their sugar babies continue working in the bars and expect them not to go with other customers. Have they forgotten where they met their objects of desire? After twenty years, it still amazes me how many johns still think they've met the perfect virgin whore. 🙄 It's also a fact that @jimmie50 is also his customer and would have an equal chance of "offing" this Banana Bar guy even on those days the bar is busy. Therefore, his reply after @jimmie50 had made it clear to him that he had made dinner plans with a friend sounds like a pressure tactic and is off-putting to me. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

I prefer all top... it's like the drag queen's when they ask guys are you top/bottom/vers.... whenever someone says Vers, they yell back BOTTOM! I can still top, but can't cum unless I'm getting some anal stimulation, I see that all the time when I am with a vers guy, they are the same like me, lol Tops... fuck to cum, thank goodness.

That's saying a lot, assuming that they eat pussy too 🤮

I know of a guy at Freshboy who disappeared after he found a sponsor who allegedly paid him 50k a month. I also know of guys who continue working in bar even when they have a sponsor. They are allowed to go out with customers to drink only. No sex. The guys will communicate their terms clearly to new customers who want to off them.

I find it odd that of all members you write about hypocrisy. Because you have shown yourself to be be a hypocrite. This is @khaolak's modus operandi. He doesn't like a poster? Trash him. This is what he wrote about @Olddaddy on January 6 this year - "This is just Olddaddy's method of operation as a troll since he first started posting here, under this name, three years ago." Funny how an alleged troll still posts and still gets like and dislike emojis. And @Olddaddy is one of the most regular contributors, posting vastly more than @khaolakguy And this is what he wrote about me when I made a comment about nude photos being posted in an open thread - something that is not permitted under the Board's Code of Conduct - if only because they can been seen by anyone, including children, and could come to the notice of the Thai licensing authorities which could possibly result in closing this Board. On August 19 2025 he questioned poster @rd2077 - Over the years you have posted this question several times and received answers. I don't think you ever shared your experiences. Have you ever made a trip? Reading his earlier posts, he had indeed made trips which @khaolakguy clearly never bothered to check. There had also been a gap of 8 years from 2017 to 2025 between his trips. @khaolakguy's post as rude and uncalled for. But more than once he has accused me of forcing posters off the Board, yet he can never name one! And there is a reason for that. I have never forced or sought out the Moderator to force anyone off the Board. End of discussion. He did not llike my comments when one poster posted something like 12 new posts all under the same heading. Usually such posts would be a continuation of a post with the original heading. He wrote this on June 23 2025 - @alexch Please continue sharing your information and expertise, either in this thread or a new one, and don't be discouraged by one troubled poster. Me troubled? Ha! Perhaps he will finally advise members - did I ever ask that poster to cease posting or say the posts were in any way anything other than interesting? No! But he later accused me of forcing @alexch off the board! Yet i'm delighted to say @alexch is still contributing! He then accused me of forcing another member who had told lies about me in one sub-forum which I then corrected in another of forcing that poster off the Board. Well, odd that it is very simple to see that that member continues to read this Board almost every day! Lastly I will without naming names state that he mentions my name in connection with one member who freely admitted in an earlier post that he had issues with anger manageent and had been to five anger management courses. Anger is an issue we all face from time. We all have to deal woth it in our own ways. i sympathise with that member. But I suggest that anger - at least in the form of a major disagreement - in some form or another will always appear on a chat room. And then on June 7 2025 he queried why I posted photos from a photo spread I had made ten years earlier, a re-spread that received many 'like' emojis. Clearly he considers he has a proprietary issue on this Board and does not accept that there must be thousands of new members since then (given the expansion of the original Gay Thailand into Gay Guides) who would not have seen that and other original photo posts. Well, all members are different, and some have likes and some have disllikes. i know that a very few members like @khaolakguy and @Keithambrose will always seek to deride some of my posts for their own reasons. Fine! Such is posting life!

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Night 1.75: The Nightcap I felt really good. It was 1:30 AM, and any travel-related fatigue was long gone. I was over the hump. The time difference between home and here meant it was the middle of the afternoon in California. And there’s nothing like coming out of the afterglow of a good orgasm. Mission accomplished, I would say—especially considering that this was just a side trip within a larger Europe trip. I was fully aware of how late it was, though. I had scoured trip reports and tips from this site and elsewhere online and was under the impression that the prime hours for boy hunting were 4 PM to 8 PM. On my way back from the lockers, I didn’t see much traffic, unlike an hour earlier. There were some clients and boys roaming around, but nothing really caught my eye. Plopping myself back down at the bar, I had to call for the bartender—who was in the back room, probably sleeping—for service. There was no one else in the bar area, nor in the pool or the nearby table-and-chair setup. Oh well, I thought. This was a good start to my discovery of this sauna. As I downed my water and looked at my phone—debating whether to leave or go to the middle floor to see if any boys were still around—an angel suddenly appeared to save me from leaving. He was tall, lean-muscular, with a healthy treasure trail from his belly button that disappeared into his low-slung towel. He seemed younger, maybe early 20s. He looked like a lighter-skinned Arab—someone who would fit in any sauna in Brazil, though perhaps a bit fairer than most. He came up to me right away and offered his hand. “Hello, how are you?” he said in Spanish. I told him I was good. He pulled up a chair next to me and sat down, probably so he wouldn’t tower over me. I asked what he was still doing there so late. He said he had arrived late and that there weren’t many clients when he got there. He mentioned that he had seen me talking to the man-guide earlier and decided to stick around. He then asked whether I was more comfortable speaking in English or Spanish. I asked him the same, and he said he preferred Spanish but could try English. We stuck with Spanish. I asked where he was from, and he said Morocco. I asked if there were many Moroccans working there. He said he knew of at least two others but hadn’t been there long enough to know more. I found the idea of a Moroccan working in a sauna interesting—even if Morocco is geographically close to Spain—and wondered about his status, whether he could work legally, and how long he could stay in Europe. I had asked Pedro the same question earlier, and he said he traveled regularly to Switzerland and the U.K. to reset his EU stay clock. But first things first—I’m a gentleman, so I offered him a drink. He chose a Red Bull, just like the man-guide before him—probably the drink of choice before every encounter. He offered a toast, and I clinked my water glass against his Red Bull. “Salud!” he said with a smile, then downed it. I told him I had just had sex and needed a moment to feel “alive” again. He laughed and said he knew—he had spoken with the man-guide upstairs. Then he took my hand and placed it in front of his groin. I gave it a squeeze. He glanced around to see if anyone was watching. The place was deserted, and the bartender had retreated back to his post. He opened his towel to show me what he had. It was a good size, soft, resting naturally on his balls. I gave it another squeeze, this time without the towel. He started to come alive. So did I. I pulled back. “Do you kiss?” I asked. He said yes. Again, he looked around, covered himself again with his towel, then leaned in. It wasn’t a deep kiss, but he did open his mouth. He pulled back and smiled—very handsome. Not everyone kisses like Brazilians I guess, who use their tongue like it was panning for gold in your throat, but I figured he might do better in a more private setting. We talked more—about Barcelona, Morocco, my trip to Casablanca in the past, and his hometown near Marrakech. I asked why he worked here. He said he was saving for school and to help his family. A familiar story. At that point, no one else had come into the bar. No one else to choose from. And he was very attractive, sexy, and sweet enough to make another round worthwhile. I reached under his towel again, tugging lightly. He responded. At least he could get hard with my touch—promising. I continued until he was fully hard. I pulled the towel aside and saw that he was indeed well-endowed—long, straight, and inviting. A few more strokes, and he said, “I can come for you.” I've done enough research to I know the commonly understood pricing structure: 50 euros for 30 minutes, 100 if the guy finishes. I considered asking him to confirm but decided not to. I’d see how it played out. “Vamos,” I said. He stood, adjusted himself, grabbed condoms and lube, and led me upstairs to a cabin. Once inside, he dropped his towel and removed mine. He started by kissing me—more assertive this time. Still not Brazilian-level, but good. He had to crouch slightly to meet me. “Do you take PrEP?” he asked. I said yes and asked him the same. He nodded. That settled things. I guess bareback is in the menu tonight as it was earlier. He stayed hard the entire time—probably thanks to youth. He was fairly passionate and finished as promised. I was satisfied—more so than the guy before. Afterward, heading to the showers, I saw only three other people in the place. I couldn’t tell if they were clients or workers. We both returned to the lockers. It was nearly 2:30 AM, so I changed to my street clothes since I don't think I'll be going for round 3. I took out two 50-euro bills from my wallet. He was waiting in the bathroom near reception. I handed him the money, making sure he saw that it was 100 euros. He took it, gave me a hug and a goodbye kiss, and said he hoped to see me again. I said the same and told him I had a good time. I handed my locker key to the receptionist and paid for my drinks. Outside, it was colder than earlier. Walking back to the hotel, I realized how hungry I was—I hadn’t eaten in about 11 hours since my layover in Frankfurt. Fortunately, several mercados and kebab shops were still open. I chose a kebab place just two minutes from the sauna. A handsome young man—maybe Arabic or Indian—was behind the counter. I ordered a beef shawarma for 5 euros. As he prepared it, he asked if I wanted everything on it, pointing to the ingredients. While adding them, he looked at me and said, “China?” I laughed—I’m used to that. In Brazil, they would say “Japa.” I said, “Sure!” and laughed. He laughed too. No reason to correct him. He was very handsome. I wondered if he knew about the rent-boy sauna nearby—he might earn a lot more slinging his meat at clients than slinging some shawarma meat on flatbread. After paying with Apple Pay, I headed back to the hotel. I finished the shawarma even before arriving at the hotel - I was that hungry - and tossed the wrapper in a bin near the elevators. In my room, I took off my clothes, turned off the lights, and went straight to bed. I fell asleep almost immediately—the weight of transcontinental travel, combined with the night’s activities, was enough to knock me out until morning. Next: Barcelona—and the sauna—on a Saturday.

Google Translate might have translated his message too literally and created a tone that he never intendred. He might just be stating a fact - tomorrow there are many customers in bar and he has to work. Today he is free to meet (implied meaning he has no customers today). There were occasions in the past when my guy and I misintrepreted each other's intention due to Google Translate. But we subsequently clarified each other's message and all went well in the end.

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Obviously not one of Angelina Jolie's children. 😏

Or 10,000 Baht for three full days. Unless this Cam fellow is a star and can make more with somebody else for the same amount of time, I think that amount is generous and a nice parting "gift" to remember you by. Of course you're free to give more but always remember that you'll be remembered by your last tip and they will expect the same or more in subsequent visits. It doesn't matter how nice and kind you think you've been to them; the numbers always go up.

Completely understandable. Nothing has ever been mentioned to me about any minimums for short term or long term at Hotmale. Not sure such a thing exists there. I was actually thinking about falling between @vinapu at THB 3000 and you at THB 5000 by offering Cam THB 4000 for the three days. Again, this is all just in my pea-sized brain at the moment. lol. Haven't actually discussed details with Cam yet...only to confirm that he would be open to the possibility.

Thanks for sharing. I think the tone of Banana guy's message was more of an aggressive mood...at least my instincts. Would rather spend my time with Cam, anyway, so his tactic sort of backfired on him. Not in any type of sponsor/bf/exclusive arrangement, but toying with the idea of that with Cam. Not sure how all of that works, though. When they work in the club, I don't know how it is possible for them to be exclusive. That is how they really make the most of their money...offs by customers. What little they get from the bar for showing up and maybe money from a customer buying them a drink isn't enough to cover daily living expenses. Don't know that I want to be considered as a sponsor, either, providing a regular stipend. Something I am trying to reconcile within myself before approaching the subject with Cam. Want to make sure I am clear in my thinking and expectations before committing to anything.

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He is Cambodian, so not a native English speaker, but his English is quite good and we haven't had any issues communicating previously. I think it was an aggressive move or power play, and I wasn't willing to play the game. While I enjoyed his company, there are others I have met on this trip just as good and nice who I would like to spend time with before my return to US.

The difference in BKK and Pattaya is you CAN get free sex in Bangkok if your not choosy AND put in the effort There is plenty of young Chinese🇨🇳 and when I say young, I mean probably in their 30's chubby Chinese guys who are looking for sex I went to a bar called HUGS ,a 🐻 Bear bar,I had guys talking to me so Bangkok you can hook up for free if you cruise I had sex five times for free meet ups ,the best one was a 28yo Filipino guy who was visiting BKK for 5 days . Were they my type ? With the exception of the 28yo Filipino🇵🇭....all the rest probably not ., not really , but it was free sex and I took that opportunity ,you won't get that free sex meet up in Pattaya unless you go to sansuk sauna I guess So bangkok is different you can get free sex ...if you put in the effort , but unless you look like Justin Bieber your not going to get 18yo twinks .... although I'm sure there are guys here who have . particularly the young Chinese and Korean guys visiting in groups who are looking for older daddy's 👴

Top is usually what I am looking for, but I prefer to find someone that lists T/B rather than strictly top. My rationale is probably off in left field somewhere, but I like more of a boyfriend experience with playful, sensual aspects throughout. Those who are strictly top I assume are straight and will perform but it will be more mechanical and lack the intimacy I prefer. I assume those who list T/B may be gay or bi and more open to the type of experience I enjoy. Kissing is something I really enjoy, and those who are strictly top and straight will not kiss or just give light pecks. Naturally, it doesn't always work out that way. At one time this shop would put a small rainbow flag on the photos they posted so you could easily identify who was gay. They haven't done that in quite some time, though.

This reminds be about stinky tofu in Taiwan. Personally, I never minded the smell and enjoyed eating it. Recall several night markets I visited with delicious stinky tofu. I have tried durian as well. I don't really get an onion smell from it, and the smell doesn't really bother me. I just don't care for the taste in general. My straight Thai friends don't care for it and often complain about the smell and taste. lol.

When it's erect you won't notice it. And if it's clean, it's all that matters.

Speaking of filming. Did you manage to film any of your sessions? You have had hot encounters with handsome Filipinos I hope you documented some of them. And if you did, please share it.