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Thank you!! 😊

In some hotels I have known men manage to arrive at my room but I usually go outside to greet them and get them in. Zing will want to keep their id while they are there. Best they check the id is correct when they get it back. All the men in M Bar are there to be taken out in my experience. To get them from the stage either describe the man you like to a waiter or get up and touch them with a little tug or a 'would you like a drink' gesture. Pointing at people in Thailand is seen as rude and aggressive so not a good way to start. Even this week I assumed a man on stage didn't like me and I was wrong so I advise testing matters with a drink and a 200bt tip for a short chat if you don't want to proceed.

After years of lurking I finally can join in. I will write later about the last couple days in Bangkok in that section. I obviously still don't know how it all works. I was in M Bar and was the only customer and they were all the boys stage just kind of standing. I don't know if I was supposed to point or what. I tried making eye contact with the one i liked, maybe he just didnt like me... Not sure if I could off them? Still learning. Trying to avoid getting too soaked, accidental booking mistake.. Will try Grindr, but do they just come to the room (Zing) or do I have to bring them through reception personally? I am full of questions. LOL

If you maintain contact, I’m sure you’ll see him again and then you can hug and spoil him to your heart’s content! How well I know this feeling and many others here too I’m sure!!

Thank you for asking, it’s been a year and half now (before I met him) and while the grief has subsided there are emotional scars. He still gets choked up talking about his father, was depressed for a long time after, and when I first knew him he had signs of clinical depression. Now he’s back home for an extended period because greedy relatives were bullying his widowed mother and trying to seize their land. All his female siblings work in Thailand too (not in bars) so his mother was alone.

Others have said it looks like Jon Stewart. Either way, just one more indication that the man is completely unhinged.

I am surprised by this - very different from my visit. Gay sex is still illegal in Ghana and you can go to jail, so I did not venture out much. Nor did I see much activity on the streets - most of it is done very discreetly and well hidden. I advise caution.

Trump sees himself as "EVERYTHING"

All the failed, fired and disgraced people in the Trump administration will need to form a support group to move forward with their lives. And the funny part is they ALL could have saved themselves and be free of him if they stood up to him en masse, and got rid of him in the many chances they had....

Well, I suppose when you CANT get pussy anymore, go for the "D" ? 🍆

More interesting is the fact that several people have noticed that the man Trump is "healing" looks VERY much like Jeffrey Epstein.

Good luck sitting with a boy for one hour in Bangkok and only one drink! Mamasan will chase them up on stage for rotation after 30 minutes or even less!

Surely not a problem for most forum members who could easily show the immigration officers the precious florins and farthings they've accumulated from their days of youth. 😏

I can imagine it is hard to believe butnin case you would like to meet Egyptians to hook up with, the whole country is a paradise. When living in Cairo, it happened on a daily base. In the coastal city of Alexandria, which I regulartly visited, it happened a lot. When travelling to Luxor, Aswan, Sharm El Sheikh or Hurghada (onoy recently), there always has been an abundant amount of men eager to meet and 'get to know you'. I would be considering culture (in case needed) and climate, guys will be there anyways.

It's clear that Trump is completely unhinged at this point. If the Republicans don't figure it out soon, it'll be their funeral.

Could be. I certainly have the highest respect for those who speak up at the time--which can help prevent further mischief. When I was molested by my gym teacher at age 12, I immediately told my mother, who had me see my physician the next day, and the vice principal as well. I found out at my 10-year high school reunion (those from our high school who came from the same junior high school often stuck together, even at the reunions) that this teacher had done this to others. If others had spoken out, hopefully I wouldn't have been in the same predicament. That's why I have greater admiration for those who speak out right after the fact, rather than when it only serves their own individual benefit/advantage.

Is Trump just old and faggoty, getting all touchy and loving on Paulo Costa?

I'm very interested by the lack of recollection of feelings. No one felt any upset with their parents' deceit? I certainly knew to keep my lips zipped at school (unless someone challenged me).

This is what happened to me in Fresh Boy Bangkok last year: I was sitting alone inside the bar with a drink. A Viet boy walked by and saw me. Since he knew me, he stopped to have a little chitchat. A few minutes later, Mamasan (the big one) called out to him and said something in Thai. She looked kinda annoyed. The boy then told me in Vietnamese "We are not allowed to talk to customers like that without a drink" and then left. In Pattaya, I usually sit with a boy for about an hour. My usual rule is: one drink (cost 150B) and 300B tips. Boy can order a second drink and his tip reduced to 150B He can also order 3 drinks within an hour and no tips given in that case. Boys always went with the first option: one drink and 300B tips.

Also, the English is a bit mangled.

He is currently in Laos and should have a Laos bank account (or is this too much of an assumption) so shouldn't be impossible if the need arises. Thank you for the input, but I've decided to give him some space for now. And thank you for sharing your recent adventures involving a certain Mr. Cam. Reading about them made the loneliness after returning from bkk a bit more bearable. A good heart and a thin wallet a good combination does not make. Several more years of this and I'll be out on the streets 😇😂

Unfortunately, as I have no such acquaintances in bkk and the boy is in Laos, this is not an option. On a personal note, may I take this opportunity to thank you for your contributions to this forum? Your posts were the ones that first convinced me to visit bkk and the suggestion that the Thai Tourism Authority erect a statue in your honor isn't that far off, I think. Thank you for your reply, I'll follow your suggestion and hold off from mentioning sending money unless he brings it up first. He lives in Savannakhet and from what little I've been able to glean I don't think the family is in immediate danger of being destitute (sent a picture of the funeral that made me want to grab a ticket to Vientiane and give him a good hug). It's just a bit frustrating because there's nothing more I can do. Ideally, I'd hand it over in person, but I don't know when I'll be able to see him again, if ever. I hope that your regular is doing okay now? If I may ask, do you know how long it took for him to come to terms with the loss (if indeed he has managed to)?

Multi-national talks with Iran had been going on for years until Trump killed them in his first term. Now he reckoned a deal could be done with a country which loathes him in just 24 hours. What planet does he think he now commands? With J D Vance having failed miserably in both the objectives set for his recent trip - the reelection of the vile Orban in Hungary and getting a deal with Iran - I hope he realises that he is unikely to last long in Trump's orbit.

Thai banks - and I believe WU - will require a formal valid ID.