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Would have... could have... should have or if short of characters ... would've etc..😂

Late to the party, but for me personally, word itself, without intent, carry different weight when it comes to identifying a person. The word gay itself is still very offensive in many culture, religion and countries, even though many have accepted it. For this particular word, oriental, that is used in the thread here, I can definitely see those who didnt know it, view it as a normal word to be used as an adjective. Heck, in Malaysia, a famous cafe (kopitiam) here is called Oriental Kopi. And one of the famous 5 star luxury hotel brand here is called Mandarin Oriental. So is the luxury train Eastern and Oriental Express. Apparently, it is okay to use it to refer to inanimate object.

Wasn't so long ago, that calling someone a 'wog' was a complement, as this was an abbreviation of the expression 'Western Oriental Gentlemen', a term used to describe people from the Middle East. Used today, modern parlance has this as a derogatory word describing people from the Caribbean. As @forrestreid said earlier:- In England you might hear somebody saying “there used to be a Chinese restaurant there, but it closed and they opened an Asian restaurant in its place”. Colloquially I would say "there used to be a Chinky there, but it closed and they opened a Paki in it's place". However knowing Chinky and Paki are now more offensive derogatory words, I would be consciously selective as to who I said it too. Same with describing the local corner shop which sold newspapers, sweets, cigarettes and basic groceries, ubiquitous across Thailand as 7/11, "just nipping out to the Paki shop to get some fags". Say that to an Amercian and they'll think you're gay. Back in the early 1900's in the UK, "nipping out for a German", refered to the popular take-away food sold by Bavarian street sellers of German sausages or wursts. This abruptly ended after WW1, when all things German was considered derogatory or offensive. As David Niven once said on Parkinson back in the 70's, "Gay, a good word ruined". Which as a compulsive womaniser his lexicon would have referred to it as being joyful, carefree or bright and showy. The word 'tranny' in my vocabulary refers to the Ford Transit van, a staple for all builders, logistics operators as the vehicle that built modern Britain. So much so, I got reported to HR by some member of the wokerati and noted for my language for describing the company van as such. As usual in these things, the name of my accuser wasn't detailed. In the UK, prior to getting married, the groom would partake in his "Stag Night", the word 'Stag' implying male supremacy, size and stature. Whereas, the boys from down under would attend a "Bucks Night", a word associated to us Pom's with deer, rabbits or goats. Somewhat feminine in stature. Yes, admittedly a male red kangaroo, or buck, can stand at over 7 feet, so could be viewed the same. So yes, the English language can be a minefield, especially when considering the vocabulary is nearly 1,000,000 words. A word in one country or time isn't necessary the same in another.

The same in Zimbabwe

Uganda is a christian Country and it’s really dangerous to be Gay there i think the disease is spreading in all africa

Trump and all his MAGA maniacs just need to have a "Jim Jones" moment..... (I'll provide the Kool Aid)...... The brain dead MAGA zombies, and their mascot dog would happily follow Trump into the bowels of Hell..... 🔥🔥🔥 I aint mad at it !

spare us your singing

I was surprised that this came up as controversial. I thought this was all fairly obvious, and we'd chuckle together over the situation. The first couple of posts agreed. In order for the wife NOT to be a scamster, ALL of the following must be true: (1) AI is way, way off on JvdB's net worth. While unlikely, this is the most plausible in this list to be true, since none of us have access to his financial records (nor do anyone but his wife, accountant, and financial advisor). (2) Despite having medical insurance, he was out $250,000 in medical expenses. My mother had dementia and required constant care for over a year, and the sum was nowhere near that (although she had long-term care insurance, so even that amount, which was far under $250,000, was covered). If she'd had a spouse, the costs would have been far less. (3) This amount magically changed to $1.2 million, then $1.5 million. Oh, and she's now collected $2.7 million and still going. (4) Knowing of his impending death, JvdB purchased a massive estate, knowing full-well that his soon-to-be widow would be unable to pay for it, AND the bank gave him the mortgage despite a supposed inability to repay? Preposterous! Even if all of those statements were true, and I can't imagine it to be the case, they could simply move to a less expensive place. This silly argument reminds me of the musical Book of Mormon, with the song stating that facts are irrelevant. What's important is belief. If you feel your charity $$ are best spent helping a widow live a lavish lifestyle on a massive property, go ahead. If any of you are Muslim, it's Ramadan, and time to give your required Zakat. May I suggest Helping Hand for Relief and Development? I found them by accident since they were one of the charities rated 100% by Charity Navigator, and sent them some money. As it turns out, they're a Muslim charity, so I make my donations to them during Ramadan (as a bit of a joke to me). https://www.charitynavigator.org/ein/311628040 "Helping Hand for Relief and Development is a global humanitarian relief and development organization responding to human sufferings in emergency and disastrous situations anywhere all over the world regardless race, gender, ethnicity, class, location, religion, color, cultural diversity and social background; with special focus on countries where the massive population is living below the poverty line. In addition to our emergency relief efforts in natural or man made disaster areas, we also work on long term relief and development programs like livelihood, economic empowerment, orphan and widows support program and skill development program." So would you rather go with the actual research Charity Navigator used to determine the effectiveness of the charity money? Or the unlikely musings of a widow from her giant mansion?

You are right, sometimes dick is attached to a real dick

Since March and April are by far my busiest months of the year, my hospitality is suspended for that period. I live far from the City but close to the airport which makes easy to dispose misbehaving guests. I don't have gold faucets, I don't have Trump's taste. Cheap, chrome plated will do for you since they are good enough for me. My guests are supposed to cook at least 4 dinners per week, be forewarned. I provide provisions , you just need to cook. Country is indeed beautiful but March and to a degree April are still winter months.

@PeterRS How does one use a map that is 15 years old? There's a serious risk of outdated information. If we used a 15-year old map of Bangkok or Pattaya, we'd be making a beeline for Soi Twilight and Sunnee plaza... I always prefer online maps. They are more likely to be up to date and since I am already carrying a phone, why carry another object - a book? But coming to the point, I have never had trouble finding places in Japan, though maybe I haven't been trying to get to out of the way places. Most establishments nowadays are able to send you a googlemap reference that is very accurate.

On a different thread someone posed the question: what are the different understandings of the word 'twink' among us. I very much want to add my thoughts to that question, but first, I have to gather my thoughts. As for Good Boy, I don't call the rotation boys in Good Boy twinks. If I have to find a word, I'd use the anodyne 'medium build'. But I see a huge difference between the medium-builds of Good, Fresh and Hotmale. There is what I call the "effortless medium" -- the kind of physique that the deity above makes quite naturally out of young men. Some people call it the 'boy next door' type. They are beautiful in my eyes. I see many in Fresh and Hotmale of this type. I see none in Good. Then there is the "scruffy medium" -- where what the deity has made has been modified by hard labour. They are taut, sinewy, maybe a bit weather-beaten. Some might think of the terms 'tradie type', or 'farmhand type'. They predominate in Good. Made worse by unkempt hair and gross tattoos, thus "scruffy", often bringing to mind street hawkers. The third type is the opposite of Scruffy. I call them the "washed mediums". Yeah I prefer my boys clean and washed. What the deity has made is modified again by a bit of gymming into slightly sculpted bodies -- but not all the way a la Moonlight models, which is likely aided with chemical enhancement. Often, washed mediums come with good skin and nice haircuts. I see some of them at Fresh, and many more of them at Hotmale.

This is your reaction to most things that you do not agree with. We had an entire thread about the Japanese farmer who would not sell his land for the expansion of Narita airport. To you, that also made "zero sense" - and of course you believe you are correct, but you are wrong. That man is an individual who had his own reasons and made his own decision. The fact that a majority of Japanese agreed with him meant nothing to you. In the Circumcision thread, you went on and on about how "the science definitely states that benefits far exceed the (very minimal) risks." And that is pure B/S. The science in the USA where circumcision is regarded almost like a God-given necessity has been proven by the medical experts in a large number of other countries to be wrong, which is why the majority of male children in the world are uncircumcised. You have zero idea of the actor's financial affairs nor of his reasons for not buying a smaller house with less land. He had his own reasons which were no doubt perfectly valid. You make up beliefs of your own and put them forward as facts.

I have a feeling that the English language is a particularly fearsome minefield of "banned" words and expressions. If I have to make a guess, it's probably because it's one of the few languages (Spanish, french and Arabic come to mind) that are spoken in multiple countries, and each country has a nasty history which has loaded some words with unpleasant, offensive historical associations. English speakers in one country may not be aware that in another English-speaking country, certain words convey unacceptable connotations. And then English probably has the largest number of english-as-second-language speakers in the world. We can hardly expect them to know the countless linguistic mines that prevail in this place, that place and so on. One example that immediately comes to mind: the word 'negro' is unacceptable in the USA because of (to the best of my knowledge) its association with slavery and discrimination post-emancipation. It's been replaced by African-American, though because that is such a mouthful, the members of that community often refer to themselves as Black. But try saying 'Blackie' in Australia and the politically correct crowd will crucify you. Meanwhile 'negro' continues in use in Spanish speaking America without much of the angst. As for Oriental, I agree with @mauRICE that it's best avoided because it is associated with colonial condescension, racist hierarchy, etc. I would use East Asian and Southeast Asian. I think someone asked whether there's a term that encompasses both groups. I don't actually see a need for such a term because in my eyes, they are visibly different. It's hard to tell apart the Chinese, Koreans and Japanese, ( and often Vietnamese, Lao and Northern Thai) until they speak or display cultural characteristics, but I have no trouble seeing this more northerly group as different-looking compared to Indonesians, Filipinos, Cambodians, Isaan, southern Thai, Burmese... i.e. the southeast Asians. Here again, I am not saying they are homogenous; the moment they speak or display some cultural mannerism, it quickly reveals their ethnicity.

I was going to meet up with many people,they even messaged me , But too many weirdo's One guy asked me what place we could meet ....I replied "Mind ya own fucking business!! Then he blocked me Bloody weirdo 🙀

I love listening to that song "🎶there ain't no England anymore 🎶🎶 I haven't heard someone say they were from England for many years ,they always say UK I'm from the UK they say , why don't they just say England?😳 Then all of a sudden they usually break out in that Kinks song 🎵There ain't no England anymore 🎶🎶🎶 Oh please spare me the singing !!

To me it isn’t the dick that is so important, but the guy that the dick is attached to. But I am also not a bottom.

Who's doing all of the measuring? And how do I get that job?

So, I'm as incorrect and google AI is incorrect. Of course you're the only one here that is largely correct. Sure! AI Overview In the North of England, the main evening meal is commonly called tea. While many in the South refer to this meal as "dinner," Northerners typically refer to their midday meal as "dinner" and their evening meal (eaten around 5-6 pm) as "tea". Reddit +4 Regional Usage: The term "tea" for the evening meal is strongly associated with the North, lower-middle, or working classes. Meal Structure: In this context, "tea" is a substantial, hot, cooked meal.

My reheated cashews helped, but just a little. Leftover Chinese food is just that.

I can make the trip to Canada🇨🇦 if you want next month and stay at your house 🏡 I prefer you live near the 🌆 City though and have Gold faucets I have always wanted to go to Canada , can you take me to that French🇫🇷 City in Canada What a beautiful country

I always find if I wear my sunglasses 😎 in there ( DJ Station) my very dark ones ....I get guys coming up to me to start a conversation 😀 "cool glasses bro"

It's me ! 😎😎😎and ..🎵🎵.I wear my sunglasses at night 🎶🎶 May I ask have you ever wore your sunglasses at night?

Unfortunately I already returned home last Friday and date of my next trip is unknown, hoping it will be before well announced Jan 2027 trip. Speaking about Midnight bar, , I was impressed with their new acquisition, tall and handsome Lao guy

You might have been born in England, but I doubt you lived in England for long as your post is largely incorrect. I was born in England and have lived in England all my life. Asian general refers collectively to people from the Far East as well as India and Pakistan. The term Oriental is not generally used and has negative connotations due to the derogatory expression that is an abhorrent abbreviation of Western Oriental Gentleman. In England the middle of the day meal is known as lunch and the evening meal is dinner or a lighter version can be referred to as supper. Tea is an mid-afternoon meal with a cup of tea often accompanied by a biscuit or slice of cake. A more formal version can be Afternoon Tea or, in Devon or Cornwall, a Cream Tea. In some working class industrial areas a more substantial but basic meal served in early evening is known as “high tea” which is sometimes abbreviated to tea. Wikepedia explains tea well: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tea_(meal)