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Please excuse me if this sounds blunt. In all honesty, this is excessive. I have never heard of paying an off fee for months on end. When I make arrangements to meet boys outside the bar, whether for several days or lengthy durations I have never paid off fee to the bar nor worried about it. I pay the boy, the boy settles the bar in his own way. It is very common for boys to take long leaves of absence or just blissfully vanish then reappear. They are never barred from returning to work. Bars need boys, especially popular boys, to stay in business. Don’t make the mistake of trying to do his job for him. Your job is to pay Cam the agreed stipend. Let him talk to his friends who may have been in similar situations and find the solution. Being able to keep more money for his farm and family will be a great motivator. What is the longest time he has been booked out from the bar before, and how did he handle it? Yes, I’ve taken boys on trips and they did not post pictures on their social media as that would conflict with their “buffalo sick and half dead also my grandmother” stories. The acceptable compromise is for Cam to work out his solution with the bar, and for both of you to occasionally drop by and support the bar by having drinks and tipping mamasan. Appropriate to also pay Cam’s off fee on these occasions. Everyone will be happy.

I think that a single circle means that they will do it. A double circle means they are good (or very good) at it. An X means they will not do it.

I've not used it but the internet seems to think that Wise funded by a bank transfer is best. My experience, over 15 years and some 56 visits to Thailand, is that the families start nagging the man we like for the foreigner to send money for 'urgent' reasons. That is very hard for the man we like to resist.

I read a profile who was described as masculine and versatile. He had the double circle.

Good point, and I did mention to him we could stay in a different part of Bangkok...didn't have to be Silom. I know he loves the beach, so possibly Pattaya, but he is a little concerned about traveling around Thailand given his status. I think there is safety in familiarity.

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Food for thought in the story, and a delightfully naughty bit of (Christian) blasphemy at the end.

If the concern is more on appearance in silom, why not just stay elsewhere and never visit silom? Or skip bangkok altogether

I have a general question about this situation that I need some assistance with. First of all, Cam has not asked or even hinted at me sending him any money. However, I would like to be able to occasionally do that for him over the next several months, and also in the event of any emergency situation that might come up. He obviously does not have a Thai bank account. He has no official Thai photo ID. I cannot send him money via Western Union that he could pick up at the local office since his only form of identification is an old ID from Cambodia. He does have a bank account in Cambodia. I did a test run to see if I could send money to his bank account via Western Union, but that option does not seem to exist. Western Union only offers cash pick up at a local office in Cambodia, or mobile app called Wing. Does any forum member know how to send money to a Cambodian bank account? I do have his bank information, including SWIFT Code, Account number, Bank address...so if nothing else I can do an international wire transfer from my bank to his bank. But there must be another way or easier solution. Any suggestions?

I don't recall if it was something I read on the forum or something I heard someone say in the bar about they like to keep the same number. If it is important to him that he keep the same number, I certainly do not mind a tip to mamasan to guarantee he will keep that same number on his return. Compared to a bar off fee or compensation for bar earnings, a tip seems like a drop in the bucket. lol. According to Cam, the bar gives the guys 4 days off each month. Instead of off fee for 90 days, we would only need to pay for 78 days...and he felt like this daily rate could be negotiated into a monthly fee with mamasan. As I said in another post...this is all a work in progress. The only thing set in stone is that he will not be working at the bar during the three months. We are both in agreement on that much. Details are in the fine print...tbd.

Since I am new at this, I wasn't sure if I would need to pay the off fee to the bar on a daily basis for the duration of time he would be with me. That is why I posed the original question to forum members. I would much rather give him the off fee directly. We started to have this conversation last night. Not sure where we will finally end up, but he at least knows and has agreed that he will not work at the bar during the three months. That much we have confirmed. The specific details or arrangements are a work in progress at the moment. He likes the idea of the money going directly to him instead of Hotmale. However, he is concerned that if he makes up some story, i.e. going to visit family, death in the family, wedding, etc. and then he is seen around Silom with me that it will create problems for him at the end of the three months. I understand his concern, and don't want him to do something that makes him feel uncomfortable. So, like I said...a work in progress.

I was interested in your comment about a lot of Chinese tourists going to S'Sense, as I understand that they do not tend to "off" boys from the bars, but just go for the show.

Thanks for the feedback on my reports. Yes, I agree, the pricing at these places is weird. I think, Singha just doesnt really know what he could potentially get if he just asked. I didnt really explore this, but my assumption is that S'Sense is not positioned as the most upscale, "elite" gay massage places in Bangkok. I honestly think if Singha asked for 2000-3000 THB for what he offers, he would get little friction, but how would I know? Maybe the people who go regularly to S'Sense would not find that a fair price. There are a LOT of Chinese tourists that go to S'Sense --that I noticed. Maybe they are more price sensitive than others. But, the quality and reputation of Singha, at a place like the Residences, History of Massages, etc. would no doubt get him lots more money. He may have a relationship with the owners, a comfort with the shop, etc. Who knows... but I can tell you this-- he really seems to enjoy his job, or he is a super great actor (or both!)

Part 3 After a nice morning of wake up sex with a lot of muscleworship scenarios including posing oil! SB and I went down to the fancy breakfast at La Marina in the Park Hyatt Bangkok. I loved the iced coconut iced long black coffee there! We decided to go visit the MBK Center to buy some replica luggage. We took the BTS to National Stadium and walked directly into the MBK Center—a fantastic mall filled with a lot of crap, and some small pockets of hidden values. They also have a really good and cheap food court. After wandering the stalls, we found what we were looking for, a luggage shop where we could whisper to the shop owner, that I wanted to buy replica Rimowa luggage from the Rimowa “molds”. After chatting up the guy and his wife, he took us to a back room to show us the ill-gotten gains I was seeking. Yep, they looked and felt just like Rimowa polycarbonate essential product line (the pricing for real Rimowa is about US$1225 for the L check in bag, $1125 for the M check in bag, and $975 for the cabin bag. I bought an entire set of all three, PLUS, I got the trunk bag which is usually $1550. All together, with the help of my Indonesian SB, who is a master negotiator, we got the entire set for 10000 THB (about US$300). Since these replicas have replica Rimowa markings on them, I was nervous about sending them back through shipping, etc. So I decided to check these bags back as checked luggage on my flight back. (in the end, there was no problem, at the airport in BKK or upon my arrival in the US). I was happy for this experience. After lunch, SB went to the Park Hyatt gym for his workout, and I got in a grab and went to the Residences Saladeang for my massage appointment. The Residences is one of the fanciest places I went. It is in a very nice office building with a security officer. You tell the officer you are there for the Residences, and he will send you to the elevator to take to the Residences. Upon entering the lobby of the Residences, you are greeted by very friendly receptionists, who checked me in and offered me cold tea and a cold towel. While waiting for my therapist, I noticed a few customers coming in and out, as this facility also has a café and a sauna available for customers and what seems to be members who can come in and out. I reserved Kigi about 10 days in advance, as he is in high-demand. I reserved a 90 minute aromatherapy hot oil massage. Kigi (pronounced “Kai-GEE”) was probably the most physically beautiful man I met in Thailand last week. As some on this forum have said, he has the face of a boy, and the body of a man. He looks like a Thai BL TV star. In his Residences uniform, which was a black polo and those really sexy wide leg pants that highlight his tight waist and ass, he greeted me and took me into the room. The room at the residences is large, but only has a shower stall, no private toilet. Kigi does not speak English except for a few words. I used the translator app to describe what I was looking for in the pressure, etc. He barely responded. I showered, and then climbed onto the table which had a face hole and a sheer sheet to cover up. Kigi came back in the room and started the massage. The massage was basic, and not great. I could tell however, that both Kigi and Sunji may have been trained on a similar technique (Sunji was a better therapist), and as I understand, the Residences and History of Massages (as well as Klover), are owned and operated by the same owner. About an hour into the massage, I was asked to flip over… but I told Kigi that I needed to use the toilet… he motioned to the shower in the room and told me to just go into the shower and pee. I guess this was okay (as there was no robe in the room to use to go to the restroom down the hall), but I felt as if it was a bit un-luxurious for such as supposed luxurious place. After showering off again, Kigi towell-dried me and then I jumped back onto the table. It was then when we moved to the extras… Kigi did not discuss extras proactively, but I did—and I told him that I was interested in exploring his muscled physique and having a great HE. He smiled and indicated he understood. No mention of tips was discussed. He took off his shirt, and WOW, he had a sleeper physique. If you saw him on the street, you wouldn’t know that this man was a competitive bodybuilder. He was incredibly beautiful. And, he loved to show off… that model-like face was beaming with smiles as he flexed and allowed me to fully worship his body. He periodically leaned down to caress and kiss me all over. He took off his pants and showed off a super sexy thong he was wearing and teased me with pulling it down. He has a nice super-sized cock for a man that looks so young… but wow. He got hard and stroked for me. Giving me a nice HJ while smiling and looking deep into my eyes speaking in Thai really got me. After I finished, he laughed with delight, and cleaned me up. He told me via the translator that we had 15 minute left on our time, and was there anything else he could massage for me. I asked for a head and neck massage. He did this rather poorly—not a great massager, but during this time, we attempted to speak in English. I learned that he has been a competitive bodybuilder for several years, worked as a full time personal trainer, and only part time (a few days a week or a few hours per day) at The Residences. I mentioned that I went to History the day before, and he smiled and explained that yes, they are the same owner. We spoke about his diet (no rice, no noodles, lots of eggs, fish, chicken, and some vegetables). I gave Kigi a 2000 THB tip which seemed to be very exciting to him. He hugged me, and then served me hot tea and cookies in the room. Overall… Kigi is an amazing specimen of man. He is not the greatest massage therapist.. but who cares? I rate Kigi a 6/10 with 100% of the rating going to his physical stature and his demeanor. If you want to have one of the most beautiful men in Thailand get naked with you—this is the place. I headed back to the hotel, and SB and I had a nice evening—we wandered over to a quiet lounge in Central Embassy for a quick bite. We went back to the hotel and SB initiated making out and sex—but I had already cum with Kigi just a few hours earlier… so I didn’t come. This made SB a bit annoyed and jealous of my visiting so many gay massage places?!? The next day I told him that I would take him to Klover with me for a massage—I had already booked in advance at Klover for myself with a popular therapist, but I messaged Klover and asked if I could add an additional booking for a body scrub and massage combo which SB said he would be interested in. I did this, and SB told me he would go “for me”, but he was nervous about it since he has never had a gay massage before (hahahaha). Anyway… more to come on how that went in my next post.

It would be logistically complex to just rescreen those whose first flight originated from a suspect country. What if the passenger originated in Libya, for example, and transited in CDG before his flight in the US? It could get quite messy. As I mentioned in a prior post, the countries for which one can go through US customs at the airport of origin are Canada, Aruba, Bahamas, Bermuda, Ireland, and the UAE. What's especially nice is that you can basically buy extra duty-free liquor if you like, and bring it in, since you've already gone through customs. The duty-free shops at those airport, however, will not sell Cuban Havana Club rum or Cuban cigars.

For those of you that celebrate EASTER........Happy Easter, you deserve a TREAT ! Check out what he has in his "basket"

WHATEVER happened to the investigation of Trumps assassination attempt in Pennsylvania, where he "performed" as if he was SHOT in the ear by an AR-15, (which left NO scar at all, by the way) ? Where is the alleged assassin ? (got paid and disappeared ?) Just asking for a friend..... 😏 **Add this to all the other Trump scams and deception perpetrated during his reign....

The Legacy of the Madman......

No One at Waffle House Remembers FEMA Official Who Says He Teleported In Gregg Phillips, who is in charge of responding to fires and floods, says the hand of God suddenly and mysteriously moved him to a 24-hour breakfast spot in Rome, Ga.

This Deranged Lunatics mind is completely gone ! SILENCE from the Republicans.....

Unfortunately not! I recall the nuns of the Order of the Leaping Beryllians, who glorify their founder by bouncing on trampolines! (Film, Bedazzled, Peter Cook and Dudley Moore)

There is no such thing as the “Guardian/Observer.” Sadly the Scott Trust, owners of the Guardian and it’s Sunday version The Observer, controversially sold the latter to Tortoise Media a year ago. The quality of journalism in the “new” Observer sank substantially, as the journalists of the Guardian and most independent observers had anticipated. The article that you reference was in the Guardian. I have added the link to the original as I believe it is normal to provide reference to source material, a point you have yourself made to others in the past. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/apr/04/roger-casement-hanged-traitor-pardon-ireland-easter-rising

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