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Heyy Guys, Yeah I know I could have searched through the forums but posting seems a little bit easier since this one is always active. Anyways to the point. I Usually always take a month long trip in October. Last year was Japan(Tokyo,Osaka,Kyoto) for the first time and the year before was Thailand(Bangkok,Phuket,Pattaya). I will say when I went to Thailand for the first time I wasn't sure what to do outside of seeing things I saw on tv. So the trip was a little tamed. During my time in BKK I was on Jackd and ended up talking to a few guys I thought wow hot and found out they were money boys? I wanted to make plans with them both at different times but as the day went on one of the boys told me they worked at a club. Of course I thought this was a regular club since this was my first time, but once I got there I found out of course it was more than that. Crazy part is both boys ended up working at that same club. I didn't know about the other guy until I seen him and he seen me. So the lady running the club of course asked me to buy her a drink and any guys I was interested in drinks and to have them sit with me. As I sat there buys a lot of drinks I was also getting messages from both guys. The manager was trying to get me to "off" one or more of them? I think that's the term. I ended up messaging the boy and was just like why don't we meet when you're done so you don't have to pay the manager? He agreed,  & after he came to my hotel and we hooked up. Obviously I paid him. I was what he stated before I even went to his club. We still talk a little now. The other guy messaged me and wanted me to hook up with him when I was away from boy #1. At the club he was messaging me saying "I don't think you boy like me or likes the thought of sharing you". So he backed off because he didn't want drama at the work place. So I ended up sleeping with someone in Phuket that was ready  and willing and ended up with another guy in Pattaya and the guy wanted money. Also I never got a massage while in thailand. All in all I did enjoy my time there. But im sure I broke some rules by having the guys message me after they got off.  I just ended up spending a lot of money on anyone they wanted to send to my table.   As far as Japan I did make a few post on here about it.    So that was some back story. So the whole time I was in Thailand I didn't know about this forum until after.  So I have a few questions for the Thailand vets.  1.As someone that doesn't like massages is there a way to just skip that part? or is the massage something I have to do to get to the main thing? 2.Would it just be better to go to the bars and find a guy that way? I just don't think it's fair that you have to go into a bar. buy drinks for people you may not end up with and also buy drink for the pimp. Id rather the boy get all the money.  3. So Japan has websites where one can hire guys and you just pick a time and a place and boy and BOOM. He's yours. Does thailand offer anything like that? I do follow a few Line account about massages but once again I don't like massages and would rather just get to the point. Plus from what I can gather you have to do everything at their massage place. Which does scare me a little since I read about busts and stuff like that.  4. If you have suggestions or tips please feel free to drop them.   I guess im just trying to see if anyone has any help info before I book the 2 weeks in Japan and 2 Weeks in BKK. In Japan I think I got a quick understanding of what I was getting into, but bkk I will say it was different and im still new to it. Sorry if this is all over the place but ive been thinking about posting this for a few weeks now and finally decided to do it.  Thanks for any information provided. If you need more information ill try to provide more to the best of my knowlage.

Hi @vinapu and @Kiwi306, thanks for the brief reports of your visits. By twinks do you mean skinny, floppy-haired Jomtien Complex-type beings of indeterminate sex or twunks, as represented below, or something else altogether? vin, it's not cool to describe Asians (which I presume is what you meant) as Orientals. While I understand that some of you are desperate to hold on to the belief that Queen V still sits on the throne of Empire, and a few of you might have even been born during her reign, those days are long gone. 

Yesterday, with supposed new year party, we took a quick glimpse into White Cat around 10pm. Going up the stairs, one could hear the sound of music coming out of an empty room. 0 customers and maybe 5 guys, of whom 1 could eventually pass as a twink. We left in search for an off somewhere else. Sorry to the muscle lovers here that I dont have better news...

Wishing all friends and forum members who are celebrating a happy Chinese New Year. May the arrival of the Fire Horse bring you good health, peace, prosperity and the man of your dreams. 🙏🏻🐎🍊 The 2026 Chinese Year of the Fire Horse, is a rare (every 60 years) and intense period defined by passion, rapid change and bold ambition. It symbolizes unstoppable energy, urging action and strategic, fast-paced decision-making over careful planning.     Describes my Aunty Vin to a V. 🙀   I've got the whole week off and will be driving to Hatyai later this afternoon.

Vinapu,  I will go there one more time and report back. They really appreciated our two attendances there. No, I didn't off Tae as I already had in mind to go to Tawan and off one of my regulars there instead, which I certainly ended up doing.