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I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum. I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur. I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate. Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy. Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I am mid way through my first visit to S E Asia, taking in Vietnam, Malaysia and Thailand. A two-part report on my adventures in Ho Chi Minh City is in the Vietnam forum. I  have just spent 4 enjoyable days in Kuala Lumpur. I have always wanted to see this city, but knowing that it is a Muslim country where examining our stamp collections is illegal,  I did not have any great expectations about that aspect of my visit. Researches implied that using Grindr was what most like-minded travellers found effective,  but some reports warned that caution was needed, so initially I  decided to use the days here to recuperate. Moving round the city I found the ethnic diversity of Malays, Chinese and South Asian most diverting in terms of eye candy. Nevertheless I did login to Grinder to see what going on.  My hotel was next to a district called Brickfields, which is a south Asian quarter, and it was great walking around admiring the young population. Of course we have many South Asians living in London, but they somehow seem unobtainable, being pretty rare on the escort scene.  So anyway, on my final full day I decided to give Grindr a try. My hotel had a huge multi-level atrium/lobby area, with a separate entrance from a walk-way to a shopping mall nowhere near the reception. So I knew there would be no difficulty bringing in a visitor.  And it seemed the stars had aligned for me. I had seen a good looking 19 year old South Asian guy on the app who was nearby, so I messaged on the off-chance asking if he would be interested in meeting a visiting tourist, and to my delight he replied immediately saying 'I'm a MB dear'. It was about 4:30pm and he said he had to start work as a security guard at 6:30, so there was just time for a visit. I asked how much for 1 hour and he replied 'cost not for time, but whether I fuck you 1 or 2 times' (!). Anyway,  I offered him 300 Ringit (about $70) and that did the trick. I have no idea whether that is the going rate, stingy or over generous,  but I didn't care. We met in the Mall, He was a lovely guy, from Pakistan, with dark hairy legs which turns me on. We were soon kissing and embraceing, and after some energetic thrusting he came over my crotch and I sucked him clean. He left in good time for his day (evening) job I am pleased I overcame my apprehensions , and I would happily return to KL, but it may be that I just stuck particularly lucky this time and it wouldn't be repeatable.

I believe that the Complex Hotels don’t have much availability in the run up to Christmas. I’ve got thoughts about being there during late January . Have any Cambodian boys returned ?

Boyz Boyz Boyz is now a host bar. This is not your host bar of Sapan Kwaai yore where the guys sit politely in one corner and can be summoned by a customer for a drink and be taken "off". No, this is a glitzy drinking tabernacle with rows and rows of handsome young men dressed in hip hop style standing on stage at appointed times who can be invited over for a drink (or ten) and help the customer whittle away a few hours and/or drink himself under the table. At BBB, a "boy drink" costs 350 Baht which will buy the customer 20 minutes of his time. So if you'd like him to sit with you for an hour, you buy him three drinks for 1,050 Baht. By the way, the 350 Baht doesn't come with an actual drink - that is separate as the customer is expected to open a bottle for the table or buy whatever drink is his preference. The guys range from middling to hot, 20 to 30 years old, athletic and to my eye, on the taller side (by tall, I mean taller than 170 cm which is quite tall by Thai standards).  And yes, they are Thai. Clearly they've been screened by management to suit Thai and other Asian tastes. No malnourished-looking waifs here. The guys don't have number tags yet (something to do with waiting for approval) so you'll have to tell a mamasan who you'd like to sit with you. Most of the customers are women but gays and old daddies with money are welcome. They open from 10 PM until 4 AM but doesn't usually get busy until after the clubs and lady bars have closed.

Because there is no proof of that... For now they knows only names. By the way: today  "A huge corruption scandal threatens Ukraine’s government" https://www.economist.com/europe/2025/11/17/a-huge-corruption-scandal-threatens-ukraines-government All parties besides party of Zelensky today blocked work of parliament and demand resignation of government. Also resignation of "right hand" of Zelensky - Yermak, head of Zelensky's administration.  If they will get it, then days of Zelensky as a president of Ukraine will be counted.